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i just realized the only 2 options arent "make someone angry" or "do what they want"
being in love is like you learn theres other reactions people have besides angry or not angry
love when its safe
fairly reliably when someone is mean and weird to you on Tumblr, you can look on their blog and all their recent posts will be about how unhappy they are in their interpersonal relationships and/or how frustrated they are that their creative venture hasn't found success. and it's like ohhhhh okay, I get it. you're clawing at other people because you're actively drowning. my sympathies, that sucks, but I'm not a lifeguard so carry on.
some sort of sandwich
can I make a confession that might get me in trouble
I save scummed through every variation of this guyâs dialogue tree because I really, really wanted him to perform unethical surgery on me. like Iâm still so angry about this. WHY have the gross knife hand doctor if he canât pull out your appendix and laugh about it??? what is the POINT
wait hang on Iâll post a pangur photo. donât unfollow
this is starting to affect my personal life

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always doing something annoying
can I be honest? I was so pissed off by friends and family criticizing my soap choice that, for half a year, I did an experiment where I washed one hand with Palmolive and one with handsoap, to prove that it didn't make your skin any rougher. and do you know what the result is? it does make your skin rougher. and now I'm even more pissed off.
I love this. This is the beauty of the honest scientific process. You had an idea, you tested it and you still reported the results even though the results disproved your idea.
It's ok to be mad at it, you're an honest scientist.
I saw on insta this morning a reel of a woman who's been hosting a dinner party for friends for the past two years show snap shots of the parties each month for the last year. and I'm interested in that in general, I'd like to start hosting more. so I go into the comments and there are just some rank ass ppl saying things like "oh so you're rich rich" and "some of us don't have money." Is it fun living so miserably?
maybe im too broke but if you can afford to host a dinner party every month thats fucking rich, unless you're hosting a potluck, dinner parties are fucking expensive
okay so what?
so what? not everyone has the fucking means to throw fancy ass dinner parties constantly, some of us are fuckin suffering.
yeah but like why is that relevant to someone posting their dinner party. it has nothing to do with you.
you're the one criticizing poor folks for being irritated that the rich can flaunt their wealth for everyone to see constantly. if you wanna have a nice thing with friends thats fine but its for a group chat, not the public internet. rich folks need to quit showing off.
wow you really do think the world is about you. well good luck with that
maybe if you stopped to acknowledge that its not a politically neurotypical act to flaunt wealth youd understand the irritation towards people who make it impossible to exist as a impoverished person without being reminded of how privelaged people will always have more thsn you.
no <3
Hang on, can we talk about "politically neurotypical" for a sec?
Holy shit people need to stop acting so fucking helpless
If you can afford a box of pasta and a jar of sauce, you can fucking host a dinner party
It's about seeing your friends and sharing a meal and time together, not "fancy" food, what the fuck do you think people are serving at a dinner party, wagyu beef?
People regularly have to figure out how to feed entire families on a budget, if a working single mom can figure out how to feed multiple children every single night for years, you can learn how to cook for your friends once in a while
Maybe you're suffering because you choose to be miserable and decide to be alone and nobody wants to be around you, not because you don't have money
Make a fucking effort good god
"Privileged people" means the sort of people who can host huge parties and hire caterers and decorators and entertainers and everything!
The kind of person who can afford to invite a few friends over, put out flowers and a tablecloth and grandma's wineglasses, and maybe cook something a bit fancier than you'd eat on an ordinary weekday? They're not "flaunting wealth". They're modelling the kind of life we should ALL be able to live.
Also "not politically neuroatypical"? To steal a phrase from my Jewish buddies, just call us the R slur, this is taking forever.
Yeah this need for people to be constantly performing miserable poverty and scraping for gruel off the rocky ground while wearing grey hemp and bemoaning your lot in life lest you get labeled An Enemy Of The Grand Cause is not taking us anywhere good
i love YouTube recommending me storytime art videos or whatever made by Christian missionaries ranting about Christianity like I don't go here and don't shove this shit in my face.
even tho it's somewhat different, my Jehovah's witness cult trauma has turned me off from religion revolving around western Christianity.
the whole talk of sinners and what's pure and isn't pure and revolving your life around God freaks me out so badly but it's your life tho fuck it!
also I'm openly trans and queer and black I think I can have some justified discomfort with western Christianity.
YouTube has been surprisingly aggressive with its recommendations concerning right-wing rhetoric lately. It's like it just came outta nowhere, and somehow it started when Pride did.
it is HEAVILY suspicious they're doing this during pride month oh my god
little miss auditory processing disorder would like you to repeat what you just said then immediately respond to you before you finish
I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.
I've found that, more than anything else, the thing that motivates me the best is reminding myself why the task is important and why I will be happy when I get it done.
"If I do my laundry, I will have clean clothes that smell good and I won't feel self-conscious when I go out in public."
"If I do a little food prep tonight, I won't have to worry about motivating myself to do everything before work tomorrow, meaning I'm more likely to eat properly before I go to my shift."
"If I go out with my friends, I'll perk up once we start socializing and I'll be happy that I made the effort to get out."
Ofc, this doesn't always work, especially in the depths of executive dysfunction, but it does generally help more than it doesn't. It definitely helps me re-center & recontextualize my thoughts and think about my priorities and my needs, and has helped me stay on track when I'm trying to build good habits. I think, critically, you have to reframe the task away from "hard thing I have to do" and into "I'm doing this thing for a reason, and once it's done it'll be a relief/make me happier/make things easier/make me more powerful" ... whatever you have to say to help you put the task into perspective so you can take the first step.
Also, writing out a to-do list with a couple extremely easy tasks that you think you could manage & check off before you get to the Big Daunting Task. Idk if that helps everyone, but just getting started on some kind of to-do list is helpful for me to get into the right mindset, and it feels soooo good to check off tasks.

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But this is genuinely a shitty act against humanity.
Elon: âWe have to Re-populate the world.â
But, Elon, solving child hunger is the obvious way to do that.
Elon: No, I am just going to impregnate every influencer I meet.
THISSSSSSS!!!!!!! curate your own internet experience. block them because theyâre allergic to peanut butter, block them because they have what you donât, block them because they dislike your favorite food, block them because you donât like their layout, block them because you can.
blocking is NOT a personal attack against someone. itâs you curating your own internet experience and catering for your comfort, and you have every right to do that.
you, yes, you!!! you CANNOT tell other people to censor themselves for your own comfort and personal likings. you CANNOT tell them what they can or canât post. you CANNOT tell them what they can or canât write. you CANNOT tell them what they can or canât draw. BUT you CAN block them for whatever reason.
that block button is offered to you for free. use. it.
The thing is nobody at pride is evaluating you to determine if youâre queer enough to be there because theyâre too busy thinking âitâs so hot outâ and âwhy is this lemonade 12 dollars?â
imo the way you feel about groups it's fully socially acceptable to hate (like children or polyamorous people, among others) is the canary in the coal mine for underlying bigoted beliefs. if you're only supportive of marginalized groups when it's cool to do so, probably you don't actually care about marginalized groups, you care about other people thinking you care
there are 1 trillion people in the notes of this post saying "yeah! i mean i hate kids but they should have rights!" you hate kids? you mean you hate all members of an oppressed group solely for their membership in this group? right. why do you hate them? because they can't take care of themselves and need help? because they don't understand social norms and can be "annoying" and disrespect boundaries as a result? because they can be messy? because they don't understand things in the same way as you do? that's awesome. how do you feel about disabled people btw
i do get pushing back on "mean girl nurse" being used in a lazy misogynistic way against a group of workers who are institutionally abused & their feminized labor underpaid.
that being said. can we not erase the fact the entire conversation began with disabled people talking about being medically abused pretty please. & also, iirc the post that first really blew up about "mean girl nurses" never said "ALL nurses are evil bitches who hate everyone and they deserve to be mistreated" it was saying "women who sought power over other people in high school go into careers where they can wield power over other people, same as men, and there are women who go into nursing and present themselves as kind and caring and maternal, who are motivated by a desire to have unquestioned authority over other people's bodies to make themselves feel powerful, again, same as men who do the same things in masculinized careers." & i just find it "interesting" how all that has been reduced down to "all nurses are mean girls")
i think nuance is always important & doctors and nurses do need better treatment and society frequently praises them while also supporting their abuse. and yet they are also universally recognized as vital important members of society & empowered to have immense control over the lives of people who are systemically vulnerable and seen as leeches who add nothing to society. and yet who has to deal with the impacts of their stress and their trauma and their anger and their burnout? the disabled people under their care.
again. Nuance! but i just cannot help but Side Eye In Cripple some things people say on this topic. it can both be true that nurses (& doctors) experience horrible working conditions and that, in my opinion, that any conversation about burnout and abuse of medical professionals needs to also criticize the authoritarianism of the medical field and how widespread medical neglect and abuse is, lest we simply fall back into "the poor beleagured doctor who is Jesus Christ On The Cross Himself, all-wise and all-knowing and forced to tolerate all these entitled know-it-all ungrateful patients!" which changes nothing for anyone.
like. look at this article. the actual context for the "mean girl to nurse pipeline" (that some women seek out power over people to control them and make themselves feel bigger, and women are likely to do this through caretaking in the role of nurse, teacher, mother, etc.) is not brought up at all. the fixation is entirely on "its mean to call nurses mean girls! they experience a lot of bullying! you don't REALLY know any mean nurses, just poor tired bullied ones!"
First, the phrase itself is unfair to women. Although nursing is a female-dominated field, this phrase focuses on women as being the âmeanâ ones to worry about.
like. do youuuu fucking see the erasure of medical abuse. the actual bullshit nurses do to real living human beings, which goes massively under-reported. & not just disabled people but people of color as well. god fucking forbid medical professionals are treated as anything but literal saints descended from heaven. god forbid white cisgender women are recognized to have the ability to be cruel and power-hungry and to hurt other people through traditionally feminine roles based on caretaking. like I genuinely do understand that nurses are subject to immense stress, bullying, and violence, and that providing better working conditions for nurses is vital to improving medical treatment for all patients.
but when the actual neglect and abuse nurses can do to their patients is ignored and drops out of the conversation entirely, in the name of complaining about nurses being called "mean"? sorry but it pisses me the fuck off.
(links to some sources on patient abuse under the cut since this is long enough as is)

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dear everyone on tumblr who needs to host images elsewhere (e.g. to embed on ao3 etc), please give squidge a go!! it's free, it's nonprofit and it's geared towards fandom so nsfw images won't get deleted!! and please stop using imgur if you can because they blocked the uk rather than acquiesce to the fucking internet safety laws, which I can't really hold against em but it does mean all imgur pictures just show up as big purple boxes now
Squidge! Holy blast from the past, Batman. The last time I remember even looking at that site was... eons ago.
( Oh, what was I reading? The Quartz Key. Yes, it's m/m. )
Not only is Squidge still around, it's expanded and grown! It is still run by the same guy, though now it's a nonprofit with a board and everything, and while they maintain all the old squidge sites as static archives, they have a new multifandom archive using the AO3 code at squidgeworld.org. They also host podfics and fanart.
For those younguns in the crowd, back in the day erotic fanworks--especially slash--was not welcome very many places. Walter was willing to host it, and has been a haven for NSFW fanworks since 1994. The various archives and so on hosted at squidge.org were never very large, compared to lots of other archives, but they were a necessary part of the fannish ecosystem, and I'm really glad that there is now a structure in place to keep the whole system running beyond just "Walter's a great guy willing to donate lots of time and money." Walter is a great guy! but like. it's good to have other people to help out and keep things going in the long run.