Loki's Warrior Queen

like tell the perisex cis straight woman how her sexed traits are constructed by her environment (what exercise and foods and hobbies and footwear were encouraged and discouraged?) and medicalized treatments (does she ever wonder why she gained weight and got bigger boobs when starting birth control? why it influenced her acne and libido? she's ingesting feminizing hormones) and bodily modifications (does she have pierced ears?) and daily rituals to hide traits to achieve a culturally normative gendered appearance (does she shave her legs and pubic mound and underarms? does she wear make-up? false eyelashes? press on nails? does she wear a bra? heels? a wig?).

tell her how her understanding of her gender as "woman" is historically contingent (how does she describe her personality and which of those traits make her feel more "girly" or more "tomboy"? if she never gets married would she feel she has failed in life? why? does she view herself to be more nurturing than men around her? does she view herself to be more nurturing than the women around her? why or why not? how does that make her feel? does she expect to be sexually harassed or assaulted at some point in her life because of her gender? has she already experienced misogynistic sexual violence? how does that impact how she relates to other people? how does that impact her decisions, behavior, and ideas about her worth as a person?)

tell her how her sexuality is influenced by contemporary beauty standards with specific political histories (why does she like to be seen with men who are taller than she is? why does she want to have sex with men who have large penises? does she have a preference for men with traits that align with the values of the eugenics movement as it was expressed within her own country in the century preceding her birth, e.g. lighter skin, able-bodied, "physically fit," "intelligent," "masculine"? How does she determine who fits these categories and where does she draw lines about specific traits that place someone within or outside of the category? would she have had these same preferences in cultural contexts that valued other traits? would the categories for what traits were conceptually relevant to sexual preference even be the same?)

Jesper:

Give me a chance, Agatha. 🪭😮‍💨