it is kind of surreal to watch someone who is not transfem be like “well because they were raised as men, trans women did get the chance to learn to take up space and the like” and then every trans woman you talk to is a broken beaten shell of a thing who’s too traumatized to raise her voice or sit with her legs apart, i will say
the other, much funnier, thing that happens sometimes if you're not really visibly struggling to perform the role of manhood but you get a lot of friends who are cis women because you didn't absorb all the misogynistic bullshit that cis men usually do, is that straight people assume you get crazy amounts of girls
yeah straight people probably should be better at knowing that people who look like men and people who look like women can just be friends. but man it was so fucking funny that when i was in high school everyone thought i had King Solomon levels of movement when really i just wasn't a fucking weirdo to women like all the other guys were lmao
