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AHHHHHHHHHH I have a Poetry Anthology!!!!! And it’s coming out on my birthdaaaaaay!!! I have acheived a thing!!!! I wanna die a lil less right now!!!! Woooooah!!

#poetry #poetry anthology #Queer literature #queer poetry #queer pining #lgbtqia #my writing #poets on tumblr #publishing

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liluzired

#YUP

isabellebissonrouthier

HOT TAKE

Editing is more fun than the first draft

#YES #YES YES

ankle-beez

"people in real life: hey man how's it going" is a killer phrase. instantly neutralizes whatever insane discourse you find online. gonna start using that from now on

anthonycrowleymoved

hey since i’m occasionally giving out adult advice. anyone wanna know my very adult and very boring and very sensible suggestion for grief gifts for friends and family when someone close to them dies

anthonycrowleymoved

alright. this is shamelessly stolen from my godparents when they did this when my grandma passed about ten years ago, and since then i’ve been on both sides of this and it’s surprisingly thoughtful and useful. this is particularly important when people are like, in charge of funeral prep, but anyone who just heard someone close to them just died is gonna be in a certain headspace, so it probably works regardless. people are gonna be sending cards and flowers and other very nice, but ultimately useless gifts.

don’t do that. go to the grocery store and order one of those deli party platters. the ones with like, four different kinds each of meats and cheeses, maybe some sides, and veggies, and bread, and condiments. get the vegetarian version if you know they’re vegetarians. whatever. you know better than i how many people are gonna be eating it, but guess maybe, like, four day’s worth of food.

because, here’s the thing. cards and flowers are very nice, and remind you that you’re in people’s thoughts. but you know what you just. don’t even want to think about when someone dies? making dinner. going to the grocery store. ordering takeout. whatever. you don’t want to have to think about food. you just want to eat in between planning a funeral and working through your grief.

without getting too into it, when my grandma died, we were thrown for a loop. and we ate nothing but what was on that goddamned deli platter for days. because it was quick and easy and fresh and tasted good and we didn’t have to think about food. and ten years later, i don’t remember those cards or flowers, but i sure as hell remember the deli platter.

so next time someone’s going through something, when a family member or close friend just passed. go to your nearest grocery store, and if you can, walk a deli platter over to their place. as soon as you can after you hear. they may look at you weird when you hand it to them, but trust me, in the long run they’re gonna thank you.

jewishdragon

There's a reason the jewish tradition for mourning is that for the first week after someone dies, the immediate family doesnt do ANYTHING but mourn. No Cooking. No Cleaning. No Working. The community comes to handle those things. Bringing every meal, cleaning the mourner's house(s), etc.

This aint a new concept. its in fact very very old.

greymohawk

When my partner died my friends donated money to a meal service that delivered food to my house. Some of them showed up with food in Pyrex dishes and re-purposed yogurt pots, told me they loved me, and then immediately left. I will never get over how cared for I felt when the entire callous world collapsed around me, and there were still people in my life who made sure I was fed.

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infectiouspiss

they should invent joints that don’t hurt

Why does basil smell so fucking amazing

amygdalae

Good points. Wait what was that first thing

ahdor

lancevetrov

Let’s fucking GOOOO Basil Scorpiaaaaaans 🦂🍃🦂🍃🦂🍃🦂🍃

#this post is my fav right now #if wins

becomingvecna

— David Cronenberg, Consumed

#oooo this quote fucks hard #I’m the bear in this scenario btw

lesbiskammerat

Communists and anarchists will spend all day talking about abstract concepts and structures like capitalism and the state, but willfully ignore the very real, tangible curse placed upon me by the foul necromancer

#yes #so true #a constant concern #who cursed me and can I fight them

incohorace

what studying literature feels like

#yup #that’s been whole fucking degree #just #UHHHHHHHHHH

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da-real-god

raccooncomic

184. Affirmations

#yeah I keep telling myself that but uh #tell me how besties #I have no idea what the fuck I’m doing besties

spr0utsies

damazcuz

sorry i can't come in to work today. yeah sorry they killed me off last night. yeah i just wasn't relevant to the plot anymore. i should be in tomorrow but i'll let you know.

#lmao

mevil

entropy-sea-system-deactivated2

Its real !!

#this is such a creature #like look! it’s a little dude!#just a funky little guy!

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