So Yeah....

i. i understand you didn’t have the energy to text me back and i’m not mad. i’ll be here whenever you need me, and if i send you anything don’t feel obligated to reply.

ii. did you eat enough today?

iii. don’t forget your medications.

iv. do you want to come over and we can sit together in silence while we work on separate things and just enjoy each others presence?

v. i hope you’re in my life for a long time.

vi. you’re not too much for me. you are perfectly enough, almost like you were made for me.

vii. no matter what happens, because we never truly know, i will always be putting your wellbeing in consideration.

viii. you make breathing a little easier.

ix. the hard obstacles in life seem like little distractions when it comes to doing them with you. thank you for being around when life tries to beat me down.

you don’t understand what it’s like to have to take your pain and your limitations into account when searching for housing or employment.

you don’t understand what it’s like to quit a job or an activity you love bc it’s exacerbating your pain levels.

you don’t understand what it’s like to send the “sorry, gotta cancel” text to the same friend four days in a row because your pain is just too intolerable.

you don’t understand what it’s like to have to choose between leaving early (again) or suffering through something that will cause you hours or days or weeks of increased pain.

you don’t understand what it’s like to have your accommodations/self-advocacy/self-care viewed as laziness or rudeness or apathy.

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

Cishet people are the oppressors and we do not need to let them into our community simply because they do not experience sexual attraction. The LGBT community is about saving those who are oppressed via homophobia and transphobia. That is it. 

We are not “spreading hate” by protecting our community from its oppressors! You would not claim to be part of the undocumented citizens community when you were born into that country. People do not need to belong to every group.

So what you’re saying is if you can pass as straight then you have the same rights as a straight person? So someone who is trans female and looks feminine, by the same logic is also straight as they pass?

Straight aces do face issues that are prevalent in LGBT, such as correctional rape, slurs (Being called a mistake from god ect.) and medical professional constantly saying there must be something wrong with us.

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

Even if it’s not recognised, they would still come under the “not conventional” Meaning of the word. 

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

Not to mention it doesn’t just say attracted. It specifically say’s sexually.

You my sir are rude. “Definitions change over time, but only when I want them too.” Thats all i’m hearing from you. 

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

3. informal A conventional person.

3.1 A heterosexual person.

Being asexual thus makes you part of the LGBT+ space, no matter whether they are hetroromatic or not, as to be asexual means you are not conventional nor hetrosexual.

Cishet people are the oppressors and we do not need to let them into our community simply because they do not experience sexual attraction. The LGBT community is about saving those who are oppressed via homophobia and transphobia. That is it. 

We are not “spreading hate” by protecting our community from its oppressors! You would not claim to be part of the undocumented citizens community when you were born into that country. People do not need to belong to every group.