#1 Donnel Stan

and then, two months later....

This is very stupid but it’s genuinely what I think about every time I consider skipping dinner after work

Also the further you move toward the poles the more pronounced the difference between the length of day and night is. Worst part of a far-north (or south) heatwave is it doesn’t get dark long enough for meaningful cooling.

- milky 🥛

(i have very absurd questions)

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a lot of ppl ive found agree tht herefords and red devons are some of the most docile cattle breeds! double if theyre hand reared or steered! plus they have curly fur some times<3 theyre polled and soft and cute! heehe

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Until WE mess up. Until WE hurt someone. And then that same lesson tells US, "You can't ever be forgiven, they SHOULD hate you, forgiving you would mean forgetting what you've done." And I think the end result of that thinking is that we either wallow in our mistakes, unable to ask for forgiveness or learn from it to become a better person - or we vehemently deny that we did anything wrong, because only "evil" people hurt others that badly, and WE can't possibly be evil. And both of those results cause terrible harm to ourselves and those around us.

Forgiveness isn't forgetting - it's letting go of the grudge, it's saying you won't hold this over their heads anymore, it's draining the poison caused by the hurt they caused so you (and they, if they choose to) can move on. Sometimes the person we need to forgive is ourselves (and not in a "I did nothing wrong" way but in a "I will do better going forward" way.)

And the guy's dead wife is there. At the ghost DMV. The dead wife is a ghost and he's the ONLY ghost who knows he's a ghost. In the ghost DMV. You make friends with the guy's dead wife (while waiting in line) (at the ghost DMV) and he tells you that the lunatic immortal wizard who's making you defeat his seven evil bureaucratic processes while you die of magic cancer before you can even fight him directly is really just a silly sentimental fella.

Then in the next expansion you get to live through the dead wife flashbacks yourself. You get to meet the dead wife when he's alive in the past, outside of the DMV. And it turns out he works at the real DMV, in the past. And he has pink hair. And he and the past-self version of the insane immortal wizard (who sent you to the ghost DMV) pull off a sick prank to help you close the timeloop.