About Moi

im gonna try explaining myself, cus im a gambling addict and im waiting for the day that it actually works.

"forgiveness" is personal, that's why I said in the post that you might inflict harm on people for which they can never forgive you, but that's their quest. if you abuse someone, you can't go no-contact with yourself. you actually keep living in your own head indefinitely, and ultimately you need to learn to live with yourself in order to continue living a full life without further harm. this is not necessarily an anti-carceral thought, although i am generally anti-carceral myself. I simply want people to like, fix their heart and atone for real with measured accountability & self love instead of dissociating, self-marking themselves forever and guaranteeing their recidivism.

What if the Mission to Malachor still happens in the Anakin-takes-Leia AU but Ahsoka actually escapes from Starkiller before the temple explodes, and she pilots the Phantom to wherever Anakin and Obi-wan are, frantically saying they need to get Kanan to Medical ASAP when they land/dock

Anakin concernedly asks “why?” only for his question to be answered by Kanan (who’s being supported by Ezra) taking off the old Temple Guard’s Helmet to reveal his burned eyes

Both Anakin and Obi-wan are shocked and ask how this happened, to which Ahsoka freezes before slowly turning to them and uttering a name that makes both their blood run cold

“Maul”

Fandom Problem #14,047:

People who think they speak for the entire minority they are a part of while in fandom spaces

If other transfems and cis women are ok with the word "dude" or "guy" you don't get to tell them they shouldn't be. Just say you don't want to be called it.

If other black people are uncomfortable with the N-word even if it's used by other black people, you don't get to tell them they should be ok with it. Just don't call them it, and use the term with people who are ok with it.

If other disabled people don't think "idiot" is ableist, you don't get to try and force them to stop using it.

If someone says they have Asperger's Syndrome (which, no, was not named by Hand Asperger, it was named long after his death) you don't get to tell them they can't call themselves by the thing they were literally diagnosed as. If you no longer wish to be called that, it's fine.

If someone says they're uncomfortable being called the F or Q words then they can't force you to stop using the words, but you can stop using them to address them specifically.

Each kanji in Ibuki’s name comes from one of the four main girls in K-on!, an anime about an all-girls light music club.