Submission is the opposite of respecting yourself. Enjoying your own disrespect and looking at it as a good thing is just depressing. It’s like accepting that you’re biologically inferior. Why would you believe that about yourself? It isn’t whether or not you consent that makes it abuse, it’s the fact that he enjoys treating you like an inferior. It excites him to think you are inferior to him. theviolenceofpornography.blogspot(.)com(.)au/2017/10/kink-is-new-sexual-sadism(.)html read this.
What the hell are you referring to?

















