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A trans person made this, without a single thought I guess??
Idk why sm transphobia I get is just from other lgbt/queer people ignoring the transphobia trans men/mascs go through
Did OP just forget all of the transmed memes, or the "blue haired" feminist memes etc
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"terfs don't target trans men" mfers will read some 55 year old british woman's 6000 word essay on how the testosterone injecting youtube groomers are brainwashing their daughters into mutilating their beautiful feminine bodies and the only solution is conversion therapy and come away being like wow that was so transmisogynistic of them
transmasc ppl are targeted like this to be 'saved from the trans agenda' ie made into terves and i would consider recruitment into the violently-eradicating*-tma-ppl-group a pretty transmisogynistic action
*not as in forcing to detransition the way they want for us transmasc ppl. as in getting shoved so deep into the crevices of our transmisogynistic culture that they get crushed by it. or just straight murder.
Except for like, when we're too far gone to be "saved" and they start advocating for us to be raped and impregnated to show us "our place" a la Lily Cade.
Like, that's not "saving" us, that's forcing us into horrific violence (which will likely end in suicide) to punish us.
TERFs absolutely want transmasculine people dead. Their whole "we are trying to save you" shtick is a mask that makes them palatable to the white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy which paints all (white) women as vulnerable and in need of saving from Bad Men.
But at the end of the day, if we don't capitulate (detransition and become women again) they absolutely start advocating for murdering and raping us.
Plus, ignoring the way they use their "concern" for their "lost sisters" to buddy up to conservatives and fascists and taking them at their word that they only want to ~save~ transmascs serves their fucking agenda.
Also: conversion therapy is violence. Conversion therapy results in suicide. TERFs KNOW THIS -- do you seriously think that trying to bully people into detransition (aka: conversion therapy except not formal) isn't an act of violence?
Do you think that the conservative Christians who talk about "saving" the gays by converting them into heterosexuals *actually* care about queer people and won't turn around and attempt to legislate queers out of existence and, failing that, instigate physical violence up to and including murder to get rid of us if we don't acquiesce to their demands???
TERFs will say "we don't hate trans men (: we're only doing what's best for you" while trans men say "they are trying to abuse, rape, and murder us, they're lying, please help us"
and y'all will literally believe TERFs over us.
why are so many transmascs on this stupid website so desperate to deny reality. “they want to save us uwu” u can say that as much as u want but it doesn’t make it true. we’re just as fucked as every other trans person.
“terfs dont target trans men” have you fucking seen their opinions on abortion? like motherfucker they’re so stupid and hateful they’ll even target themselves just to hit us in the process. once again begging y’all to realize that terfs and other adjacent fascists are not UNKNOWINGLY doing harm.
the harm is the point.
they know.
they are doing it on purpose.
they “believe they’re doing the right thing” in that their “right thing” is our genocide
literally like. te/rfs will straight up tell trans men that we deserve to be raped and murdered, or even actively try to facilitate that happening. i have two friends who have been sexually assaulted by ra/df/ems as a form of corrective rape. so to hear ppl try to claim te/rfs want to “save us” is just fucking ridiculous to me.
tw: violent transphobia, CSA, attempted murder
I was in the same position as your friends. I came out at the tail end of highschool. I was maybe only a few months out, and only partially, and to just a few friends- one of whom was a cis woman. She was a very men-hating feminist, though neither of us knew the term “radfem” at the time. Turns out she also hated trans people, despite me being the first one she ever encountered. She tried constantly to get me to detransition, trying to manipulate me into thinking I was just a lesbian. She would give me books about conversion therapy and tried to take me to church with her. She tried to break me off from my support system- any friends who supported my transition, including my partner, she would purposely start fights and lie about them to get me to leave them. She insisted on giving me rides to and from school everyday- I couldn’t drive at the time, so she literally controlled my transport. When none of that seemed to be working, she escalated her tactics.
This included sexually assaulting me while I slept over at her house. I think her logic was that if she raped me, my body would respond, thereby “proving” that I was attracted to women, and was therefore a lesbian. Yes, there are a lot of holes in that logic. She’s a rapist- I don’t expect her to be smart. She thought I was asleep during, but I was playing possum because I had no idea what else to do.
After the assault, I began pretty obviously pulling away from her- refusing to hang out, refusing to stay over, refusing to do anything with her, ghosting her texts. I began relying on my other friends. We were almost out of highschool- if I could just make it another few weeks, I would never have to see her again.
So she escalated again.
On the day of our highschool graduation, she was driving several of us home from the rehearsal. She had a long car with three rows of seats and a trunk behind the third row. I had been sitting in the way way back, but once she dropped off most of the others, I was going to flop over the top of the seat and move up a row. She waited for me to move, and then gunned the car in reverse, sending me through the back windshield.
She tried to kill me. Because this was her very last chance to detransition me. And when abuse and lies and manipulation and rape all had failed, her last option was to fucking murder me.
She literally completed the perfect terf escalation. First she tried to “softly” detransition me with emotional abuse and manipulation and conversion therapy. Then when that failed, she tried to detransition me with brute force, by assaulting me. And when even that failed, she turned where all terfs will turn: if she couldn’t control me, she was going to kill me.
It always leads to death.
detransitioners and trans people actually have a shared interest in destigmatizing transition
the more stigmatized transition and trans bodies are, the more stigmatized detransition and detransitioned bodies are
this rhetoric around IRREVERSIBLE DAMAGE and MUTILATION that transphobes peddle about trans people only further stigmatizes detransitioners. you're basically saying they're damaged and disfigured. how is that helpful? how is a narrow definition of womanhood or manhood that excludes detrans people helpful?
no matter what, detransitioners will exist. conservatives and terfs will act as if there's some magical way that you can gatekeep transition to only allow the "real" trans people to transition and "protect" those who have been "mislead" by the trans movement, but that's literally impossible. so the best world we can hope for is one where transition is seen as a matter of self expression and bodily autonomy
also destigmatizing transition and trans acceptance are gonna lower the number of detransitioners for several reasons
a lot of detransitioners really are trans but they either get the results they want and stop transitioning, pause transition (depending on the criteria for detransitioning sometimes people who stop taking hrt for a while and then go back on it count as detransitioners) for whatever reason (a lot of the times it's financial), detransition bc of transphobia, etc
accepting trans people as the gender they are before we start "passing" can give us more time to explore our gender without feeling like we need to start transitioning asap in order to be recognized as our genders (so if a cis person questions their gender they have save space to figure it out without feeling like they have to transition) (hopefully this makes sense idk if i worded it well)
more mainstream discourse about trans identities will help people (cis and trans) understand their gender(s) better
I saw a study on detransitioners and one of the things that it noted was that the majority of detransitioners are in favour of trans rights and feel politically aligned with trans people—for that matter, many are indeed gender-variant even if it's not the way they initially thought—and they often worried about their detransition being used as fodder for an anti-trans agenda.
Many didn't even "regret" their initial transition, even if they decided that its end point wasn't the right place for them to remain permanently.
(Also, this wasn't a detransitioner, but I remember hearing another quote from a trans man who was talking about his thought process prior to taking hormones, and he was wondering, "What if I'm wrong?", and then thought, "Well, if I'm wrong, and I'm actually a woman, and I take testosterone, then I'll just end up as a woman with more body hair and a deeper voice. And that's fine!" Destigmatizing detransitioned bodies also destigmatizes trans bodies and trans people's choices, not to mention the bodies of people who aren't trans but whose bodies aren't gender-normative for lots of reasons.)
Idk how to explain to you that the end goal has never been to turn oppression around and do it to someone else
If what you dislike about the current system is that you’re not the one on top doing the oppressing… Ur not as good of a person as u think u are lol
#this bothers me about a lot of tumblr Discourse #that gleefully inverts vocabulary of derision and exclusion #instead of saying: maybe norms of oppression are bad actually (via oldshrewsburyian)
So many queer and trans people really, truly love to show that they haven't unlearned a single ounce of biological essentialism and transphobia, and that exorsexism is still ingrained into their belief system once the topic of AMAB and AFAB trans people (specifically NB4NB and NB4T relationships but this does extend to bianry T4T relationships too) in romantic/sexual relationships are brought up. Especially when one or neither partner identify as transmasculine or transfeminine, and especially when said relationships are referred to as queer by said partners. From their relationship dynamics, how said people resent themselves/transition, all the way down to something as personal as their sex lives; AMAB/AFAB trans relationships are analyzed and scrutinized under a microscope within queer/t4t spaces where literally anything will be used against them to prove that their relationship isn't actually queer and they're just cishets taking up rescourses from actual queer and trans people. It's honestly wild how engrained this is within queer/trans spaces and how little it tends to be questioned, let alone refuted. Some of the things I've seen other queer and other trans people say in regards to these relationships sounds literally indistinguishable from how radfems talk about relationships, it's honestly embarrassing.
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me suddenly realizing that doctors hate me for doing one weird trick
Me, two glasses of wine in: "yeah so here's an in depth conversation about my identity as a nonbinary person, and my struggles with transphobia in 2023"
Median Center-Right American Dude at the party, also two drinks in: "Damn that's crazy, I never thought of it like that. Man, I'm sorry you gotta deal with this shit."
Me: "Ahh it's alright. I deal."
Random Guy: "People should just chill tf out."
Me: "Damn right"
Random Guy: "So if you're non binary, and, sorry if this is offensive but I don't know the right words here. Like, is it cross dressing for you if you wear a skirt?"
Me: "Its- hm. Huh. I have no idea."
Guy: "It must have been nice to go to school with other trans people. Like, you must've felt safe."
Me: "No actually it was the opposite. It just made me even more upset and confused. I didn't know what being non-binary was. I saw people that transitioned from one gender to the other and knew I wasn't that. It took me a long time to figure this shit out."
Guy: "man that sounds rough. No wonder you guys are upset all this time this sounds painful."
Me: "Well, it sucks until it suddenly doesn't. It sucks and then it rules hard."
Guy: "so It's like working out."
Me: [both of us are now nodding wisely] "it's like working out."
So within two days of each other, Fox News writes an article comparing aromanticism and asexuality to pedophilia, and then Matt Walsh releases a video saying asexuality is a mental illness and asexuals are tricking teenagers into having depression.
Not sure what’s going on right now over in Conservative World, but it’s a hell of wild U-turn for them to suddenly switch from “Oh no! The left is sexualizing our children!” to “Oh no! The left is asexualizing our children!”
It’s a reminder, I guess, that they’re coming for all of us. The fash and the white supremacists will not make nice distinctions between the queers when they put us up against the wall. There is no gatekeeping, no label-policing, no purity-purging and no assimilation that any of us can do that will save us. They want us dead, and while they’ll start with whoever is most vulnerable at any given time, they’ll get around to all of us eventually.
Queer solidarity means all of us because the fash are coming for all of us.
Conservatives who are also Christians do not actually care about what people do privately. It's always been about control. It's about fitting cishetero norms, and asexual people by definition cannot do that
Christian conservatives believe that they must constantly make more children to populate the earth with. They want to make more of themselves. Its why they hate abortion so much. It's lied out in front of people
I feel like a lot of this comes from just general ignorance about what conservative Christian believe, and I think it's pretty harmful. Because you might lead an unknowing kid who calls themselves ace or poly, hell, even just being a furry into thinking Christian conservatives will treat him better
It's never been a wild U turn
you know when you make an art piece meant to "celebrate all kinds of trans men" and they all have top scars or are wearing binders you dont actually care about celebrating all kinds of trans men
as a transfem, the level of hatred towards transmascs and dismissal of their oppression is so fucking vile it makes me sick. i know for a fact the same people claiming trans men benefit from male privilege and the patriarchy would be aghast at somebody claiming trans women do, even though the arguments are the same: the idea that i as a transfem could choose to hide my transness and pass as a man and gain male privilege.
Yeah, that's really the crux of it. If it's not okay to do it to one then it's also not okay to do it to the other. And just like it's horrible to use your asab as a weapon against you, it's horrible to use the gender I landed on as a weapon against me, because neither of us chose this and both of us have similar yet unique experiences with sex and gender as a direct result of being transgender.
And then when trans fems speak up saying "hey, I think this is mean", they're immediately subjected to harassment until they're fully silenced so that people can continue to say "see, trans fems don't support you".
I'm a trans fem and this is 100% true
Trans men get treated like dirt/have their gender completely invalidated in so much queer discourse and it is BS.
I think with a lot of trans fems specifically it comes from wanting to be seen as an ally to even the most terf adjacent radfems by trying to make sure their visceral hatred is aimed at people who identify as men rather than amab people cos then they would be targeted.
If you are a transfem and you do this then it's cos you're either a brainwashed pos or an absolute fucking coward. Love, a trans fem
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An archive for instances of violence against transmasculine people
I've put together a carrd to keep a running list of violent acts done against transmasculine people.
This list is extremely emotionally taxing to read but if you feel like you are in a place to do it, I would recommend giving it a look. I feel like its important to familiarize ourselves with violence against transmasculine people and the ways in which it is expressed, as well as remembering the names of those who have been victims of it- especially those who have been killed.
I don't want any more erasure of our suffering if I can help it. When people think of the fact that they don't hear much about violence against transmasculine people, they shouldn't interpret that as peaceful silence; it should be terrifying. It's the silence of a gag.
"Destroy gender roles!" I hope you're including trans people in that statement? I hope you're not shaming trans girls who want to be butch or trans guys who want to wear lipstick. I hope you're not accusing feminine trans guys of "not trying hard enough" or being "confused lesbians". I hope you're accepting trans men who wear dresses and lipstick. I hope trans drag kings and trans drag queens are welcome in your spaces. I hope trans women with facial hair and trans men without are being treated well for their choices. "Abolish gender roles" means jack-shit if trans and non-binary people aren't included.
When Europeans discuss America:
As an American, it so SO FUCKING REFRESHING to hear our problems talked about like this. Hearing someone acknowledge how little fucking power the American people have in our system.
You can blame America as a whole for a LOT of things, and I'm not saying her citizens are blameless in that by any means, but we are very, VERY much victims in this equation as well.
me when my ideas about sex and gender are sooooo radical
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I made this tiktok and jesus I got so many hate comments, but some were really informative and came from trans women
Trans unity is so important. I am glad to have support from other trans people
But as you can assume the hate comments were Word for Word repeating what terfs say, and what I said terfs say about trans people. That anything male=bad= more privileged
And some were just confused cis people that throw transphobia aimlessly which I prefer to politicized transphobia. It's ignorance vs. tacking on transphobia to "feminism"
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I dunno that tiktok about transmascs being “a man in a dress” feels a little appropriative of transfemininity. Trans women are harassed daily for being “a man in a dress” so doing that as a transmasc seems a little insensitive
this website is going to make me blow my fucking brains out.
It is our duty as trans people to protect younger trans kids from being groomed into hate movements. Trans adults, help steer trans kids of all varieties towards compassion and kindness and away from dangerous and "radical" movements like baeddelism, terfism, swerfism, transmedicalism, etc. Promote kindness in your communities wherever and whenever you're capable. Sop hurting your younger queer siblings especially. I see you older trans people who are bitter and having arguments with 15 year olds. CUT THAT OUT!!! DO BETTER!! BE KIND!! EMBRACE QUEER LOVE OF ALL KINDS!! WE ARE NOT EACH OTHER'S ENEMIES!!!
