It’s really fun to be
1. dedicated to Playing Nice with others, and helping others get along
And also
2. notorious for Taking No Shit
Because people will be foul and nasty to each other and then I insert myself like “hello all of my Friends how is everyone today :) is everyone feeling Kind?”
Nobody tries to convince me they’re right. Nobody tries to get me on their side. They know I Take No Shit. Everybody just Plays Nice until I’m gone.
If only they would realize that they can Play Nice and also Take No Shit. It’s possible.
Play Nice is about being civil, not being a doormat.
Take No Shit is about setting reasonable boundaries, not being mean.
I’m gentle parenting a bunch of adults.
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It is like. Shockingly difficult to argue with someone who is both dedicated to being courteous but also not moving an inch. It’s easy to be mad at them obviously but it’s difficult to argue.
I’m living life with everybody mad at me and nobody arguing with me. And if you never argue with me well then as far as I know we are Friends and I’m going to continue to treat you like a Friend.
You might think Clarity and Kindness can’t piss you off but oh what if you want to fight what if you want to fight SO bad and I don’t give it to you? I’ll let my Clarity and Kindness be the worst thing about me.
You understand. Making people say what they mean really can shock them.
Asking “what action can I take to help you right now?” in the middle of a string of complaints stops them cold in a similar way. They can’t just keep saying things they are upset about, they have to be part of the solution.





















