i could hear you talk about sirius all day, you are so insightful about him and it’s just very interesting to hear! it does make me sad when people erase the traits and dynamics that basically define him? fanon sirius is genuinely nothing compared to the compelling mess he is canonically.
Okay, this is gonna be so fucking long lmao.
The thing with Sirius is that, on one hand, I’m not going to talk about fandom Sirius, because fandom Sirius, for me, isn’t really Sirius Black. What they’ve done with him is basically a teenage fantasy from some low-budget Netflix-style series for Gen Z. So I don’t consider that to be Sirius Black. The Sirius Black who’s 1.70 m, skinny, wears crop tops, and acts like a 2010 Justin Bieber fangirl, that’s not Sirius Black, that’s something they invented, it doesn’t fit canon.
So I’m going to focus on canon Sirius, the Sirius Black in the books. Even people who claim to be fans of canon Sirius, who say all their theories, metas, and headcanons are based on the real Sirius—the one we see in the books—I still deeply disagree with what they say. They have a very idealized idea of him. Even fans of canon Sirius, who are aware of his flaws, still see him as the classic romantic rebel: the teen who grows up in a very conservative, right-wing family, rebels against the family’s establishment and the status quo, leaves home, gets a motorcycle, seeks freedom, joins a countercultural or political movement, fights for liberty and justice, basically the archetype rebel fantasy. And people forget that Sirius isn’t interesting because of that.
Sirius isn’t interesting because he’s the archetypal rebellious teen who rejects his conservative parents and seeks freedom. He’s interesting —and tragic— because, no matter how hard he tries not to resemble his family, no matter how much he tries to do the opposite of what his family would do, and no matter how much he positions himself at the polar opposite of his family’s ideology, he ends up reproducing the exact same archetypes he was taught. You can’t just run away from your family and be free. If you want to truly unlearn all the toxic dynamics, behaviors, and ways of reacting instilled by your family, you have to work on yourself. And the first step is accepting that you are your parents’ child, a product of where you grew up.
Sirius constantly demonstrates this. He treats Severus terribly, just as Bellatrix might. What’s the difference between Bellatrix and Sirius? Bellatrix doesn’t try to kill Severus, but her contempt and lack of respect toward him is exactly the same as Sirius’s. Her disrespect toward house-elves is the same as Sirius’s toward Kreacher. The ferocity with which Bellatrix despises “the other”—whether political enemy or personal adversary—is mirrored in how Sirius despises others in his social circle. He’s a reflection of his family and upbringing.
Yes, he might exist on a different political spectrum, which is why people find him “cool,” but all the attitudes he learned from his mother, he never deconstructed. He’s still classist. He knows that despising Muggle-borns is wrong, so he redirects his discrimination toward other targets acceptable in his social environment. But he hasn’t actually worked on himself. The years of therapy required for someone raised in Sirius’s environment to deconstruct all those attitudes would be enormous. That’s a huge part of his tragedy.
He sees himself as a hero. He has a big image of himself, he sees himself as a rock star in his youth, pre-Azkaban, because leaving the family wasn’t just an act; it was a way to defy his mother. His whole problem with his family comes from his relationship with his mother. At his core, he isn’t rebelling against family ideals, he’s rebelling against his mother’s ideals. He has a toxic, dysfunctional dependence on her, which resonates later when he’s locked in the family house for a year, drinking in her room. Why her room and not any other? There must have been empty rooms, but he chooses hers, and even imagines a hippo in there destroying things while he drinks and cries.
His mother’s authority haunts him his entire life. He tries not to be like her, but he ends up behaving similarly. She would behave this way toward a muggle, he behaves that way toward other people. Many people miss this, and as a result, they overlook the most interesting aspect of his character. I wouldn’t call him a hypocrite, because he isn’t aware of it. He thinks he’s doing everything right, but in reality, he’s just a rich kid from a very conservative family, raised to believe he’s superior, where violence and even sadism were normalized, and Sirius internalizes that.
Normalizing a near-homicidal attack on a classmate just because he dislikes them? Normalized violence. Constantly assaulting students at school? Normalized violence and sadism, clearly inherited from his family. Many of his behaviors are reflections of the Black family’s attitudes. He’s on a different political spectrum, but the thing is, not understanding that aspect of Sirius seems to me like leaving out a huge part of his character, and I think it’s a waste of hours and hours of analysis on a character, starting from a premise that I consider wrong and very superficial, honestly. Because I think it’s way more interesting to analyze Sirius not as a victim of trauma just because his mommy yelled at him or hit him. First of all, we don’t even know that his mother hit him, there’s no evidence that Walburga was a physically abusive person. That’s totally a fandom invention. And also, we don’t have clear knowledge that he was abused in his home. What we know is that he and his mom had a very dysfunctional relationship.
To me, simply reducing Sirius to “he was abused at home, escaped, became a hero because his family was awful, they were all right-wing racists, rich aristocrats, horrible and evil” and that’s why we admire him— girl, why are people so basic? Why are people so naïve? Why are they so bland? Do you see what I mean? Why do people simplify the narrative so much?
You have a character with a toxic attachment to his maternal figure, which also shows in how he interacts with women in the series and how women perceive him. Remember that both Molly and Hermione judge him very harshly. Hermione is essentially Rowling’s voice in the narrative, and we know that for Rowling, Molly is the ideal mother who cares for her children. So narratively, Rowling is telling us, “This is what she thinks of Sirius.”
The fact that Bellatrix—a woman—is the one who kills him, and that the female figures he interacts with always have some conflict with him, fits perfectly with the theme of his problems with his mother. The fact that both he and his mother have such strong personalities aligns with why their confrontations were so intense and why he eventually leaves home. It also fits with his absolute rejection of everything social, ideological, and economic tied to his mother. But rejecting those things doesn’t mean he stops being her son, doesn’t mean he stops being part of his family, and doesn’t mean he ever worked on himself to deconstruct the attitudes he inherited during his childhood. Attitudes that are classist, violent, normalize problematic behavior, and ethically questionable.
It’s not that Sirius is irresponsible, it’s that he’s used to doing whatever he wants because he grew up in a family that believed they were above others. They could do whatever they wanted, however they wanted. This is also seen in Bellatrix. So discarding all these factors about Sirius takes away… a lot of what makes his character interesting.
I don’t usually talk about him much, because he’s not in my top 10 favorite characters to discuss (also don’t a problem to do anyways it’s interesting to analyze) but he’s a character I analyzed a lot back in the day because he reminded me of people I’ve known; people from extremely conservative, religiously strict, messed-up families. People from politically far-right families who rebelled against their parents by adopting a completely opposite ideology: leftist politics, unions, activism. I’ve been very involved in grassroots politics, not online politics, but in associations and field politics, and I’ve met many “Sirius Blacks” in real life. They had good intentions, but then you’d go to a bar with them and if the bartender was slow, they’d treat the bartender like trash, because that’s how they were raised to see service. Just like Sirius does with Kreacher: “service is service.”
I found that to be a fascinating reflection of how these kids from oppressive, conservative families behave: they rebel against their parents by adopting the opposite ideology, but without deconstructing the values they were taught, so they always end up being the same archetype. That’s what interested me the most.
So what surprises me about the fandom is that people rarely talk about this aspect of him. Even fans of canon Sirius don’t talk about this. And I don’t understand it, because to me, that’s the most interesting part of his character. You could analyze his relationship with his mother, which I also find super interesting. Honestly, men with mommy issues are fascinating to analyze, they’re basically a meme, a cliché, every single one. But I don’t know why the fandom doesn’t discuss these things more.