John K

Thank you for spoiling me rotten this weekend. I think this might've been my favourite anniversary yet. Which is saying something after sixteen of them. It's funny, isn't it? We almost lost each other, and now I don't think I've ever felt closer to you. I love you, darling.

You deserve to be spoiled rotten every single day, but especially this weekend. Knowing this was your favorite after sixteen years means a whole lot to me. We’ve been through the storm, but coming out on the other side with you has made us stronger than ever. I love you more than words can say, darling. It really is incredible how much deeper our love has grown after everything we've navigated together

text: john k.

enjoy rearranging furniture? are we talking just randomly? or is it something that happens when you just need to get energy out? because i've had that happen when i'm restless. i suppose i'll have to do it your way and pay someone.

Can we say both? Yeah both it is nice to come into a space and it's a little bit new like that. That too restlessness plays alot into it. See people knock it but there isnt a thing wrong with it.

you are far too flattering towards my ego, john. i appreciate the words. does this mean i can finally get cast in one of your movies?

I call it as I see them so if that is flattery let it be. Definitely see what's on my schedule for the next few years and see if it lines up with what you have in mind for your portfolio.

i've got to ask... at what point in life do people suddenly become good at putting furniture together? because i've just spent the better part of an hour arguing with a bookshelf, and i'm fairly certain it won. why am i telling you this? well i heard that you actually know what you are doing when it comes to this sort of insanity. @johnkras

Please I have had a few houses and I may occasionally enjoy rearranging furniture. But I dont cheap on getting help to put together furniture. Thats my biggest suggestion if you get stumped dont shy away from paying someone else doing it for you

man, i honestly feel like you and i should be a lot closer than seeing each other in passing at events. we've both played characters written by tom clancy and we're both handsome as hell. on a scale from one to ten, who honored did you feel about being asked to return as jack ryan for "ghost war"? [ @johnkras ]

I know how did we let that happen? When you bring up the Clancy connection, then it makes me feel like we missing out on top of your shining personality. Probably ten I feel like I need to play him on occasion to remind me of my action hero status.

you are far too flattering towards my ego, john. i appreciate the words. does this mean i can finally get cast in one of your movies?

Not to be simplistic about it but everyone deserves a uplift and hey if I can make your day about it, I will gladly. Alright but are you down for horror cause thats all I got these days.

i started rewatching the office and if you're anything like jim in real life, i need your friendship immediately. although, if you start pulling elaborate pranks on me, i may end up regretting this decision. still, i think it's a risk i'm willing to take.

Well I feel like I cant be a fair assessment of that. I like to say Im as laid back and as funny as him, as good at the core as him. Don't have the energy for pranks I would like to pull on people but I will definitely mildly roast you on occasion

I'm supposed to be the emotionally detached one in this relationship and you're making it incredibly difficult to maintain the image. And I think that's my favourite part of us, actually. Not that we've been together for sixteen years, because lots of people can say that. It's that after sixteen years, we still genuinely like each other. We still make each other laugh. We still flirt. We still find excuses to steal kisses in kitchens and send each other ridiculous messages in the middle of the day. I think that's rather lovely. Though I refuse to believe you've chosen our anniversary hotel based on the quality of an omelette. And you're right. We've had some spectacular arguments. The kind where I was convinced you were the most infuriating man on the planet. But somehow, even in those moments, there was never anyone else I'd rather have been arguing with. Now stop making me cry before our anniversary has even started. I love you. More than all the years behind us, and I'm very much looking forward to all the wonderfully ordinary, ridiculous, extraordinary years we haven't lived yet. Though if this hotel doesn't have a decent breakfast after all this buildup, I will be holding it over your head.

Oh, please. If it is an award-winning omelette would you still be as dumbfounded by my draw to it? I will not have its honor defamed before we’ve even checked in. You have caught me though, the omelette was just a cover story because admitting that I really booked just p because the balcony overlooks the exact kind of view you get soft-eyed over would entirely now ruin my reputation as a cool mastermind. You losing that cool exterior might actually be my greatest achievement over the last sixteen years. Move over, career milestones, I made my wife that is a unshakeable rock get misty-eyed over a a simple line. I’m putting that on my resume.

You're such a sap. Good thing I happen to find that incredibly attractive. I know you far too well to believe for even a second that you'd buy my anniversary present from the bargain bin. Though I appreciate the attempt to lower my expectations. 16 years is completely mad, isn't it? It feels like yesterday we were awkwardly dancing at our wedding, and somehow now we've built this wonderfully chaotic little life together. I wouldn't trade a single year of it...Well. Maybe I'd trade a few of our more spectacular arguments. The rest can stay. And you've already booked the hotel? Look at you, being all organised. I'm going to spend the next week trying to work out whether you've booked us somewhere romantic, somewhere ridiculously luxurious, or whether you're simply planning on pushing me into a pool. Either way, I'm in. And I love you too. More than sixteen years could ever properly explain. Now I'm being the sap.

Guilty as charged I say. But hey, if being a sap gets me this kind of reaction after 16 years, I am happily keeping the title. And you caught me. The bargain bin is my favorite part of any store but this isnt about me is it? No this is about the person I adore and love most feeling special. But I should’ve known I can’t pull a fast one on you. Sixteen years is absolutely mad. It feels like we blinked and went from stepping on each other's toes during that first dance to navigating this beautiful thing we call everyday life. And for the record, I’m keeping the spectacular arguments too, if only for also saving the legendary makeup sessions and the fact that we still choose each other at the end of them. My lips are sealed. You can spend the next week guessing all you want. It might be romantic, it might be luxurious, or I might have just seen the restaurant omelette and decided on that, that this place was it. We won't know till we there.

yes, there are. and i am really lucky that i've got to have that more than once in my career. i think people are really going to like this point of view we are telling the story from. i love my cathy, so i hope others do too. i always knew you and my nana would be similar. this check outs.

I think it's more a you thing than the projects if you ask me. Of course they will. You have a beautiful way of evening out the rough edges in even a shakey script. I hope you know that?

Next week is our 16th wedding anniversary. Sixteen years, John. How did that happen? I hope you’re getting me something good, by the way. I’ve already splurged on your gifts, so no pressure, but also… enormous pressure. Felicity and Stanley offered to take the girls for the weekend so we can celebrate properly, which sounds bloody brilliant to me. A whole weekend. Just us. What do you think? / @johnkras

You say this like Im not the man with it not just written but with hearts drawn all around it on the wall calendar. Cause guess what babe I am that guy. Nah babe I already got your gift and I got it at a discount at that and there is no refund policy. I know you well enough... to know you know Im bullshitting there but you also arent getting a clue of what it actually is babe. Im really proud of these 16 years though. I wouldnt want them with anyone else and I love you. 16 years is a hella of a long time and well the gift needs to be fitting doesn't it? I say yes considering I may have booked the hotel already and they do not offer a real return policy. Please pack a bathing suit.

yes really! honestly it made so much sense because with all the horror movies out there or i guess in this case end of world things it zombie's right? or aliens but to have something come that attacks based off of sound so you can't make any amazing. it makes you really watch it completely quiet. just so great.

Okay now I feel like people are playing a joke on me today where they are overtly flattering me and then they are going to say punk'd in the very next breathe. But okay no you are right and I can't argue with you. Im just deeply inspired by how inspired and into you are. I think the horror genre has to keep doing that you know? Look for the untapped fears more than the gimmicks to make a impact these days.

I think it's pretty natural for most people to say when they meet you that they were in love with Jim Halpert a little bit, right? Because I feel like anyone that watched The Office had to be a little bit in love with Jim because he was the sweetest and funniest guy on the whole show. That said, I'm currently catching up on the whole Jack Ryan series, and my love for Jim might be being pushed aside for Jack. I got a weak spot for a man with a tragic background.

Not going to lie heard it from five people this week. Still incredibly flattering because they see something in that dude that is attractive in his accessibility and quite frankly his charm. Though it sounds bold and cocky to say it from me. See you are going to make me blush with that bold, wide a compliment. Think there were other funnier character's but for me and Jim we will live in point of pride as your number one. See now that is the first time I have ever heard that. Usually they are impressed with his physicality or rather annoyed by his analytics. To hear someone adore him is all together new experience.