when life throws you lemons

Starting the year keeping a planner

Yeah, they say "people come and go," that's definitely true. You maybe heartbroken for your loss when they cut ties with you. But try to think this way, "everything happens for a reason, and all the people we met in our lives have their own purpose, like how characters in a story or a movie are significant." They might be gone in your life because they have already served their purpose in your life—that's on the pov of someone being left—How about the pov of someone who left? Okay, it's also okay to cut ties with people and it really happens. It happens when we outgrew a few significant people in our lives. Maybe right now they no longer match the goal where you're heading to and they just wanna be stagnant or stilled. Like for some reason you both don't bring the best in each other anymore, but the worse and nothing makes your connection work anymore as well. It's alright, you out grew them, or you outgrew each other and be fine going to separate ways in life. Some may have the thinking "maybe it's better being true to them and cut them now so we won't gonna hurt each other more." It's okay, both wish each other well on their next journey and respect their decision in life even if it may hurt. Grieve, feel your emotions, be upset about your loss, but don't be stucked there. Learn to move on and try to learn and see the positive side of it. There's for to life waiting to be discovered and experience, and there's more people our there you'll going to meet and learn lessons from. Some are going to leave, and some may stay. Learn to enjoy and value every second you have with them.

It is okay not being everyone's cup of tea. You don't have to please everybody. Be the real you, as long as you are not harming anyone and yourself that's okay. You dont have to conform to these social standards and collect people's validation. You are loved. There's always someone who or who will love you just for who you are. Stay true, love! You're wonderfully made.

I just found myself joining the fandom. Recently, I can't stop myself from going to Chase Atlantic's playlist on Spotify almost everyday. It all started when I randomly heard of Swim and You while on shuffle. Then voilà I got hooked!

Let it slip away like it always have been.”

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Yet, this thinking must be practiced with caution. Not in every situation this should be applied. There are times that we need others for us to effectively assess our decisions or the situation we're in on our own. Like in the quotation, "no man is an island." In fact, there are words and critiques that we should hear and be aware of to improve our assessments.

This year, I really wanna do something. That is to practice and enhance my skills and potential. So, while I was scrolling on my YouTube nf I saw Eliana Ghen and Chris Barnett's acting videos and I'm so hooked with it that I'm inspired to try it as well. I wanna improve my acting skills co'z I know as well that I might need it later on in the field of my desired career I'll pursue. But I still haven't started yet co'z I'm shy. Then, there comes Rocelyn Ordonez. The duality...omg, she's so good and she's cool. Today, I've decided to finally do it! Once I finish everthing on top of my priority list I'll start with it. So, for the three amazing person's that I've mentioned, thank you so much! God bless y'all and I'm rooting for you.