#self blog

The candle flickered, but his gaze never did ✨️🖤🌹

More people need to do stupid things, stop caring so much:(

I love reblogs and I love it when others reblog my stuff and react to it. As blogger of a niche subject, I love it when my posts reach out to people and, in turn, they share it with others.

As blogger, I like informing people. I like to help and contribute to others awareness and knowledge on my chosen subject, and heck, encourage them to take up on some ideas for their own things.

Consequently and more importantly, I like being able to see and engage with those others who stumble onto my stuff, including those who encounter them indirectly through multiple reblogs of my posts and the notes they leave. Some of my most cherished and satisfying moments with this site involving having those long chains on my notifications.

We’ll never get the chance to think about what we actually want.

People’s opinions depend on their moods, habits, and the upbringing they’ve had.

None of that ever stays constant. Just like our habits and thoughts keep changing, theirs do too.

So if we keep trying to make everyone else happy all the time, we’ll end up feeling exhausted.

And in the end, we still won’t get the result we actually wanted.

That’s why we need to learn to think independently about what we want, what we feel like doing, and what feels right or wrong to us.