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it's just really apparent that people think it's okay to want pain but morally abhorrent to want to give it. sorry but the sadist gets to have fun too. it's actually pretty crucial to the process.
if I said I was going to a taekwondo class would you feel the need to tell me kicking people on the street is bad or.
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i'm not really into blondes but this is an objectively absurd connection to make
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yes yes craving clarity intellegiblity understanding communication. neatly ordered organized arranged. here it is the explanation that will make everything fall into place. are you comfortable with that story. are you. it's meaningless. there is no such thing as meaning. all that preceeded this meant nothing
sorry if i weirded you out with my messages earlier (remembers im trying to be more self confident) but actually it was normal of me to do so (becomes nervous im acting superior) because i am a human like everybody else and not better than anyone (remembers i am better than some people) except for really bad people (notices the ideological can of worms opened by previous clause) but anyone can work towards self improvement (remembers im trying to be more self confident) like meeee :)
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"if I ever say something transmisogynistic you have the right to smack me" ok but like. can we maybe just have a conversation about it instead
I know it's a jokey funny thing to say but like I hope the people who say this sort of thing do realize that transmisogyny is not, like, a sin for which they must repent by suffering. we actually just want you to understand your mistake and adjust your future behavior. no suffering necessary
like this goes doubly if we're friends! if I'm your friend I would take no pleasure or sense of justice in your suffering. I want you to be happy! I just want to know that I can trust you enough to have a conversation with you if something you do doesn't sit right with me. if we can do that it will lead to a happier and lovelier friendship for us both. I don't want to smack you I want to frolic through the flowers with you and sing lalala
see this is another common attitude that I find completely ineffective. you cannot simply disown and wash your hands of any potential transmisogyny you might perpetuate by saying you "didn't mean it." not even us trans women are immune to internalizing and reproducing the transmisogyny that pervades the culture we live in. if you assume that you are somehow immune, that the only way you could possibly perpetuate transmisogyny is via some slip of the tongue that wasn't representative of what you actually believe, that does not make me feel safe. it only shows me that you will not be willing to reflect on your beliefs should they actually come into question. you cannot own your mistakes by disowning them
"that's a lot of work"
yes, it is! it's a lot of work for us too! lucky you, though, there are basically no consequences to simply choosing not to be an ally to trans women. you have the option to simply ignore us. take it if you like! there's nothing we can do about it, despite how loud we may be on the internet. you hold all the cards! I imagine you'll find that nobody who can do anything about it will care, you won't be #cancelled, and you'll just move on with your life. it may feel scary to take criticism from a marginalized group, but there's no gun to your head. doing this work is a choice, and it's all yours!
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When you have 10+ notifications on social media do you get extremely anxious and just assume you did something wrong and people are mad at you even if you can’t think of any post someone could be mad at?
When you have 10+ notifications on social media do you get extremely anxious and just assume you did something wrong and people are mad at you even if you can’t think of any post someone could be mad at?
Yes
No
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When you drive past a person walking on the side of the road, do you repeatedly check your rear-view mirror after passing them to ensure you didn’t actually hit them (despite knowing 100% you did not hear or feel anything that should prove otherwise)?
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(sees a post about ocd) haha thats relatable im going to reblog it. no wait im not actually diagnosed with ocd so actually if i reblog that im obviously faking to vie sympathy from others and being totally disrespectful to people who have ocd. and everyone knows i dont have ocd and theyre going to see and theyre going to cancel me for claiming to have ocd and theyre gonna find all the other things ive done and yuppp. 10 callout posts by the morning
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As someone with OCD I do genuinely think it's WAY more common than people think it is. People very much associate OCD with nothing except cleaning and washing your hands a lot, which is a gross oversimplification of contamination OCD itself, but OCD is a hugely complex condition that encompasses a lot of experiences and behaviors.
If you find your mind frequently latching onto thoughts or ideas that disturb or upset you, especially if you do things to try to alleviate those thoughts (like unplugging devices unnecessarily because you think a fire will start if you don't), please please please look into OCD. That includes obsessive thoughts about whether you're a good person, whether you're unintentionally abusive, past memories that make you feel stressed or anxious, the idea that you could hurt or kill someone, etc.
Edit: here are simple descriptions of common OCD subtypes
I agree, and as someone who doesn't have OCD diagnosed but does have an absolutely massive OCD risk, I think it is incredibly important to point out that while many childhood cases are recognized in teenage years and most unrecognized childhood cases are diagnosed in the early 20s, OCD is something that can hit you at just about any point in your life.
It is entirely possible to have sub-clinical symptoms, or to have an inclination toward using control to cope with anxiety, and then to develop debilitating OCD after a period of high stress or a few too many traumatic situations.
If you've recently started having obsessive thoughts, or if you've developed an anxiety around any form of ritualistic checking after a traumatic situation - that is a good time to look into OCD as well. You didn't have to do it as a kid to deal with it later in life, and you can develop it at any point.
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(sees a post about ocd) haha thats relatable im going to reblog it. no wait im not actually diagnosed with ocd so actually if i reblog that im obviously faking to vie sympathy from others and being totally disrespectful to people who have ocd. and everyone knows i dont have ocd and theyre going to see and theyre going to cancel me for claiming to have ocd and theyre gonna find all the other things ive done and yuppp. 10 callout posts by the morning
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Weird thing that happened to my brain via knowing too many performatively cutesy manipulative """nice people""" (i.e. mouse in a jean jacket effect) is that sometimes it makes me nervous when I'm feeling kind of niceys. Kind of wholesome quirky. Whimsical, even. Cause then I'm like wait I can't forget my capacity for violence or something will happen. Girl I think we can chill. Maybe this time I AM doing my little things
I didn't get the "I am fundamentally incapable of wrongdoing because I'm The Victim" trauma I got the "there is something fundamentally wrong with me" trauma. And through various encounters with white babies (chococat block evading, kindating hannibal lecter, etc) it seems I've developed a phobia of Being Like That. Maybe I'm an adult human being with whimsy. Small joys with Marge type beat
My constant "remember: don't forget your capacity for violence ☝️" popups in my head are probably lowkey a symptom of the whole (gestures broadly) white baby DARVO community. But it also just is objectively true so now what. Just think about it a normal amount? Just act fucking normal?
Everybody says I have morality ocd just because I have obsessions and compulsions pertaining to morality
I have a--oh damn yeah okay
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Due to my weird childhood and my weird brain, I have this very unhelpful compulsion to conceal Everything I do from Everyone. I Cannot be observed performing any action, no matter how mundane. My nervous system is convinced I'm gonna, like, Get In Trouble for eating food at dinnertime or sleeping in my bed at bedtime.
I've taken to asking myself, "Okay does this task actually require subterfuge or am I stealing a balloon on Free Balloon Day"
I see from the notes that we're all havin a normal one 👍
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In times of great stress, panic, and unfolding news stories, you really don’t have to post. You’re not an embassy. You don’t have to make a statement. The world won’t stop because you decided to read a book this afternoon instead, and current events won’t stop being bad if you just post hard enough. Posting has never been activism. Consider saving posts to your drafts and then returning to them at the end of the day to see if you still want to post them. Consider that those who came before us also went through hard times, but they weren’t mentally tortured by a device in their pocket that blasts bad news into people’s eyeballs for several hours per day. Sometimes you need to ask yourself what you’re really doing besides exacerbating your own misery. You’re already informed, and if something else big happens, you’ll surely see it without having to be glued to your phone.
Oh, and you absolutely do not need to fuck yourself up by viewing real gore and murder, and you should not trust anyone who says otherwise. You can be against a murder without seeing it. You’re not sinful for wanting to spare yourself the mindfuck of seeing real death, because you’re not virtuous for making yourself suffer by seeing it. Again, fucking yourself up helps no one and nothing, and don’t let people guilt you into Catholic martyrdom by convincing you suffering is righteous
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thought of this immediately and was delighted to discover it’s the same op
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If you google a meme that contains a slur you would never actually say, do you type the slur in the search?
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No, I try to search the meme without including the slur
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