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the worst part of summer is that people get sooo comfortable expressing their disgust at having to see other people’s bodies. they’re always complaining about wrinkly old men at the nude hot springs or fat women in bikinis at the beach. I hate that shit. if you’re not capable of being normal about bodies you personally don’t find attractive, just turn your head to look at something else! and if you’re not smart enough to do that, then at least do the rest of us the courtesy of suffering in silence, because we don’t wanna hear your weird comments. thanks.

did tumblr delete my post

yeah, they did. I wrote up a big long post about the Trevor Project and the 12 hour charity livestream I'm participating in right now, and they deleted it. twice. We've raised over $50,000 for a legitimate charity but because it helps trans kids it gets deleted from the site

This is why Pride is not just a party. It's a joyful celebration, but it's also a pointed and colourful two-finger salute to a world that stood back whilst so many of us died. And we'll never go quietly, never again.

It’s practically 2014 and you guys still don’t know how to google if an article is real or not before giving it 100,000 notes

I like Duck Duck Go and Ecosia now. AI slop is a slippery slop.

It would kill half the 19-25 year olds online to realize "I can't help it I have trauma" is one of THE quintessential abuser excuses

Like there is a difference between "My trauma creates impulsive urges and has changed my instinctive reactions to be irrational, I need to relearn shit." vs "I'm traumatized so I Can't Help It and you're not allowed to expect better of me"

Yeah, at any age it is upsetting to hear people use their trauma as excuses for bad behaviour. It is also a slap in the face to those of us who have done the work. I did a 2 year course on my trauma so the violence reels would stop playing in my head, so that I wouldn't scream when loud noises shocked me, so that the nightmares would stop, so that I could be in healthy relationships again etc. When trauma becomes your life you *must* deal with it, otherwise it will absolutely hurt those around you. I take refresher courses and do work on myself since then and don't let myself slip back into that mode. Trauma can be healed. Your mind and heart might never fully heal, but a lifelong plan can get it as close to fully healed as possible. Please, whoever needs to hear this: it can get so much better. You can function again and have less attacks, nightmares/terrors and other inner scars. Love you.

we live a world where one man is a trillionaire while people are starving in gaza and sudan, 81 million people are below poverty line in india, kids are being forced to do manual labour in mines in congo to survive and his own countrymen are dying because they cannot afford healthcare and then people will wonder why we think capitalism is the root of all evil

Ugh, it was in mine. It's off now.

AI is a freacking plague, I share this for any windows user.