! not a discourse blog !

I am completely appalled at the current state of the syspunk community. It should not have taken for a notorious fakeclaimer to go undercover to expose a popular blogger for grooming someone.

You cannot use alter age as an excuse. Period. You cannot use MENTAL age as an excuse. Period. How did we, AS A COMMUNITY, allow something like this to go on for so long that somebody from REDDIT of all places had to step in to blow the whistle? If this was a public discord server, with MORE THAN ONE ADULT IN IT, HOW did you let this fly under the radar?

I have seen the Night Glider's response to this, and they collectively refuse to take accountability, pinning the blame on Catty herself, claiming that, well they didn't groom their victim, it was only one specific alter!

Y'all disgust me.

but a really close friend of mine recently came to me with the info that they’re a system and your blog really helped me in figuring out how to support them :^) so thank you and i hope you guys are having a good day and get to listen to some banger tunes or something

OMG????

This means a LOT to us. When we were first figuring out we were a system, we didn't have a lot of outside support. Two of our closest friends also recently found out they were multiple, and we wanted to offer the support that we never had. If our blog makes things easier to understand, that's amazing!

Healing with OSDDID cannot be done alone, and you're a wonderful friend for trying to understand such a complex disorder at all.

I (Phil) feel different, and I'm beginning to remember things from highschool. Specifically, Karkat's time helping us through it. I remember sophomore year, which is well known throughout the system as one of the worst years of our life, as well as when we figured out we were a system at all.

I'm not sad, as I barely knew her, and since her memories and mannerisms are still here through me, it's barely like she's gone at all.

I've had a feeling that some sort of fusion was gonna happen soon, as I had started heavily thinking about it for no reason out of the blue. If anything, I was expecting me and Pastra to fuse, but it has its own subsystem now, so that's unlikely to happen any time soon.

Our outerworld partner is taking this surprisingly well, too. I was expecting him to be upset because Karkat was one of his partners, but really now I'm like, girlfriend^2, because I remember Karkat's time with him, too.

I can see why it happened, as from what I've heard about her, we're fairly similar. We both are very girly in our own right and have similar favorite foods and even mannerisms.

"But endos are-"

"But the misinfo-"

"Butbutbut-"

NO. STOP IT. SHUT UP. I'VE HAD TO BLOCK TWO PEOPLE FOR THIS ALREADY.

Fakeclaiming does NOTHING for ANYONE.

Being publicly ridiculed and fakeclaimed is traumatic for anybody.

Fakeclaiming helps no one. NO. ONE.

I'd give an example on how it's affected me as an actual diagnosed system, but I shouldn't have to!

Unless you are a licensed professional, you cannot tell who is faking and who is being genuine. CDDs are COVERT.