radical hope, reasonable positivity 🌞

🪷 call me Lightning | ♀ | electrical engineer | cat lady™

🪷 a sideblog for positive vibes 🙂

🪷 main topics include hope, creating a positive self image, positivity realeted specifically to engineering, and occasional cat pictures 😸

🪷 this is my space for stress relief, reverting negative self talk, and letting go of the pessimistic vision of the world, so please keep negative comments, hate and doomerism off this blog and be kind 😊

Motherhood doesn't ruin your life

You can get higher education and have kids

You can pursue your dream career and have kids

You can start your own business and have kids

You can find time for passions and hobbies, and have kids

You can make a lot of money and have kids

You can travel the world and have kids

You can be a strong, independent woman with her own ambitions and goals, and have kids

Will these things take more effort and better organization with kids, than without them? Obviously yes. But it's still worth the struggle. In contrary to the negative social media image, children aren't just responsibility and chores, and mess, and sleepless nights. Children are little rays of sunshine. They're so full of energy and joy, and curiosity, and innocence. They make the world a better place by just existing in it.