Try to take your promises more seriously; do your best to fulfill them
Own a weapon - be it self-defense or just one you admire
Take a walk/hike in nature; try to challenge yourself with doing a more difficult route (within reason; look after your well-being)
Have a candle that reminds you of him (no altar needed)
Wear jewelry that reminds you of him
Keep a picture of him in your wallet
Take a walk alongside a stream
Support causes you believe in; homeless shelters, humanitarian organizations, etc.
Volunteer at a homeless or animal shelter
Practice compassion towards others and yourself
Engage in random acts of kindness; holding the door for someone, offering to help someone carry something, giving to a family in need, etc.
Have a stuffed animal of any creatures you associate with justice, fairness, or courage; have a wolf stuffed animal
Keep imagery of spears/weapons, shields, scales, Viking warriors, promises/others, or self-sacrifice (specifically for the greater good) around
Practice patience and restraint, especially with people who bother/annoy you; you can also practice this towards yourself
Find healthy outlets for your emotions; martial arts, building, crafting, drawing, writing, etc.
Learn about emotional regulation; practice emotional regulation
Try to consider all perspectives in a situation; try to understand things from another's point of view; try not to immediately cast judgement
Practice not engaging in needless gossip; such things can end up being extremely harmful to all parties later on
Learn about healthy conflict resolution skills; try to implement these in your next conflict
Practice becoming more comfortable with the idea of conflict; it is only natural that we sometimes will disagree with people - that is not always a bad thing
Go outside of your comfort zone; challenge yourself by doing things/taking risks that intimidate you (to a reasonable degree)
Do someone else's chores or a task that is tough for them; offer to shovel snow for someone or do some yard work for them
Challenge yourself with some hard work; do something with your hands
Assert your boundaries; discover what your personal boundaries are; not all boundaries need be spoken
Let someone know when they've done something that bothers you; this is a kindness to both of you - a chance for them to learn
Tend to a garden - something that takes hard work or brings you peace
Feed neighborhood cats, dogs, birds, etc.
Donate supplies to homeless or animal shelters; hygiene kits are great for homeless, animal food and treats for animal
Focus on building a foundation of personal strength; know yourself inside and out; don't buy into the dumb things people may say, you know yourself better than others
Listen to your gut; work on trusting yourself
Exercise; get some movement throughout the day
Make something for someone else; make a gift yourself; a drawing/painting, a wood carving, a knitted blanket, a handmade candle, etc.
Check in with your loved ones more often, even just a quick "Hey, how are you" or "I love you"
Bake or cook something for your neighbors; hand them out; cookies, pastries, biscuits, etc.
Restore a vintage item; clean a toy or.important item from your childhood; take good care of your family heirlooms
Engage in family traditions or create your own c:
Get more comfortable with compromises; in disagreements, try to suggest them
If it's not something you're practiced at, learn to agree to disagree; we don't always have to prove our points, and that's ok
After a difficult day, take a warm bath/shower
Try your hand at a new skill or hobby
Support someone through a difficult time; support yourself through a difficult time
Know your limits when helping others; you need not sacrifice yourself for everyone you meet
Treat yourself with the same love and kindness that you treat others with
Make a list of your personal strengths; try to recognize them when they show up - maybe do this on a weekly, bi-weelky, or monthly basis
Surprise a loved one you live with by hanging up affirmational post it notes somewhere they'll see it; you can also do this for yourself
Get more comfortable with the idea that we don't get along with everyone; it's ok if someone doesn't like you
This is my list of discreet ways to worship Tyr. I hope someone finds this helpful. I'll likely add more in the future. Take care, everyone! 🧡
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