βin order to create loving males we need to love malesβ means teach boys that they can be themselves without being less of a man. it means being encouraging and nurturing of their emotions so they donβt become cold and hateful. it means showing boys, early in their lives, that they have value outside of what our society deems proper masculinity. what it doesnβt mean is that itβs our job to handhold men who see women as walking sex toys through the concept of empathy, and maybe if weβre really really nice to them and donβt say things that hurt their feelings theyβll stop killing us for saying no



















