John She/HERschel

Remember when joining fandom as a younger person meant lurking for a bit and figuring out the vibe and etiquette instead of coming in on day one and calling people weirdos for liking weirdo shit in the weirdo factory.

i wish people would stop romanticizing not eating breakfast and not getting enough sleep and being dependent on coffee to function and always being in a bad mood and treating yourself poorly because that behavior is very unhealthy for you

hamlet's an artist btw. he draws. he's good at it. he uses a dull-ish pencil and one of those small shitty black sketchbooks

We rly need to bring back the term “acquaintance” like into regular and frequent use. So many high drama community squabbles and feelings of betrayal could be avoided if people just admitted there’s a step between “stranger” and a full on friend whose friendship you have a commitment to continuing and fostering. Like sometimes you’re just aquatinted with someone and you might decide you don’t like them after getting to know them a bit better…that’s very normal

Azune is such a funny character because of course we as an audience know he's traumatized beyond belief and has developed very interesting world views and sense of self because of it BUT most people probably don't pay enough attention to him to notice it. Like he's not really hiding his freak it just doesn't usually come up in conversation and when it does people are probably just like ............mh. must have been the wind