Cap'n McBucklebot

the People pleaser in me setting exactly one☝️ boundary

I gotta say, so much queer intra-community horseshit dropped off my shoulders when I decided to adopt a firm policy that everyone is the expert in their own identity, the single most knowledgeable person about what it's like to live life in their own skin, and that if someone describes their experience in ways I find contradictory or paradoxical I should do them the courtesy of presuming that they are striving to express something very specific and nuanced, rather than leaping to the conclusion that they're just dumb and using words wrong.

WHY YOU SHOULD WRITE HORRIBLY:

in my experience it goes something like..

me when I "mysteriously" feel better after I "have something to eat"

The Washington Post's Mensa Invitational invited readers to take any word from the dictionary, alter it by adding, subtracting, or changing one letter, and supply a new definition.

It's actually called The Style Invitational, and my mom runs it. Ran it. They canceled it last week with no warning after almost 30 years. Feel free to write the Post and tell them Bezos is shit!