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Yeah I (finally!) manage to open my clips4sale account! I've got 2 exclusive videos up and all money will go towards my weight gain ;)

Hope you can help a fat french grow!

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sad-and-soft

i think i love feedism so much because it's just soooo spiteful. there are so many people who are obsessively invested in trying to force me to live a life of misery and self-deprivation, and not only am i not doing that, i am overindulging and growing bigger and taking up space and growing so soft and round as a result. and if that wasn't bad enough, there are lots of people who like that about me, and can't wait for me to eat and grow more. feedism is just so defiantly self-indulgent, i can't imagine living any other kind of life

gentle-voluptuary

Feedist RACK Worksheet v1.0

After many months of work, I'm proud to share the first version of this worksheet that I have been building to help make feedist play more safe and fun. It still has plenty of kinks (hah) to be ironed out, but overall, I am pretty proud of what it pulls together.

As it says in the "Start Here" tab in the document, the point of this document is to help feedists bring risk-aware consensual kink (RACK) thinking and tools to how they practice our special and unique kink.

A spreadsheet like this may seem daunting at first, but the point of this is to get you and your partner(s) to use this as a jumping off point to sexy conversations that build the safety you need for feedism to be something you can both enjoy comfortably.

A few thoughts to contextualize this as you read through:

It's not exhaustive, by design. The point is not to name every single conceivable act in here, but to hit big enough categories that it allows you to start a conversation.

Generally I've tried to arrange things from low-risk to high-risk. It's imperfect, but the goal is to ensure newcomers to the kink see that there are lots of relatively safe ways to play before jumping into the deep end.

Despite its' brevity, I've tried to stay away from terms like "death feedism" and focus more on specific acts, both because those terms are very confronting and because they contain multitudes within themselves -- best to be specific, was my thinking.

This will necessarily need updating (hence the v1.0) but my hope is that this starts a conversation and that it can be updated by the community to be more encompassing and useful moving forward.

I welcome any and all constructive feedback!

A huge thanks to everyone who did my survey earlier on different ways you enjoy feedist acts. I plan to put together a sort of "play menu" for many of the ideas that were shared that felt too specific for this tool. Stay tuned!

extra-stout-stories-deactivated

This is such an incredible resource! (also I’m embarrassed by the realization that I never actually filled out the preliminary survey a while back.)

As an older feedist who was active in the late 2000s and drifted away from the community in part because I was getting increasingly uncomfortable with its sketchy and unethical side, one of my favorite things about feedist Tumblr (besides being a place for me to share my smut) is seeing how much more conscious, mature and thoughtful the younger generation of feedists is around issues of feedee agency, ethics and consent. Nothing like this existed when I was new to the community, and it would have helped me (and a lot of other people!) so much.

pudgybun

NEED to be led around by my gut with a thumb deep in my belly button and the rest of the fingers gripping under my heavy belly... woah 😵‍💫

softwheeliegirl

How does one not feel shameful about gaining? I wanna gain myself but there's that internalized fatphobia

I'm gonna answer this one honestly. You're gonna have to figure how to not be ashamed on your own. I make the conscious decision to love my body every single day, and this extends beyond being fat. Every part of me is a source of disgust or shame for others- I'm a transsexual woman, I'm extremely visibly disabled, and I also happen to be kinda fat. I'm not ashamed because like, don't you see how beautiful I am? Not in spite of, but because of these qualities. I certainly do.

There's no secret to unlearning your shame. You have to decide consciously and constantly. Recognize the hypocrisy. Understand how anti-intellectual it is. Read books about it. Hang out with fat people. Pay sex workers. Touch your own body. And, when you ask me about shame, know that I see your disgust. Internalized fatphobia isn't exclusive- it's an extension of external fatphobia too. If you think your own fat body is gross, then by extension you think mine is gross too. And I won't have that. Fatphobia is structural, not conditional. If you're going to enjoy my content, you have to do so critically, and understand that you have to act this way about yourself too. It's good for ya.

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fatguarddog

Fatguarddog's Feedist Kinktober 2024

Back again for another year! A creative feedist community project for everyone and anyone to take part in, here’s 31 days of 62 prompts, meaning you can do one, both or something that combines the two for each day!

Art, writing, photos, audios, feel free to express each prompt as you’d like to in relation to feedism, belly kink, indulgence, inflation and more! Please tag with '#feedist kinktober' and/or '#feedist kinktober 2024' so that everyone can share and see all our community’s creativity!

Transformation 🔀 / Farmer's Market 🌽

Latex Love 🖤 / Masquerade Ball 💃

Date Night 🍾 / Creepy Cookies 🍪

Leashed 🔗 / Hologram ✨

Cannibal Campers 🥩 / Tea Party 🫖

Ocean's Delight 🌊 / Possession 👻

Magic Mirror 🪞 / Donut Devotee 🍩

Ren Faire 👑 / Plugged In 🔌

Massively Milky 🥛 / Euphoria 💖

Full Moon 🌕 / Containment Breach ☢️

Theatrical 🎭 / Power Play 🔃

Candy Crush 🍬 / Eldritch Nightmares 👁️

GoTHICC 🥀 / Stitched Together 🪡

Pumpkin Spice 🎃 / Alien Abduction 🛸

Slasher 🔪 / Guardian Angel 😇

Runway Ready 👠 / Crystal Ball 🔮

Gaining Gamer 🎮 / Dungeon 🏰

Cult 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 / Artist's Muse 🎨

Invasive Vines 🌿 / Sweet Shop 🍭

Haunted House 🏚️ / Supersized Stoner 🍁

Chained Up ⛓️ / Silky Soft 💕

Exposed 😳 / Bewitching 🧙‍♀️

Bonfire Bash 🔥 / Rotten Core 🪱

Ritual 🫀 / Wardrobe Woes 👕

Olympian 🏛️ / Kaiju Attack! 🐙

Satanic Panic 😈 / Ice Cream Dream 🍦

Boozy Belly 🍺 / Dragon's Hoard 🐉

Plagued 🐀 / Movie Star 🎥

Spider's Web 🕸️ / Theme Park 🎡

Bulging Bimbo 💝 / Ancient Spirit 🪦

Monster Mash 💀 / Black Mail 💌

Don’t let my emojis sway your thoughts, they’re just there for visual interest! Please reblog to spread to more people, can’t wait to see what you all come up with ❤️

listentoace

My feeder bucket list (mild version):

Quadruple a feedee's weight, ~150lbs → ~600lbs

Force feeding over 20,000 calories before untying restraints

Funnel feed a gallon of heavy cream within a day

3 months of rapid and extreme weight gain; at least 100lbs gain

Jerking off on her face as she sits immobile on the floor and can't do anything about it

Getting actually ripped because of how much I need to hit the gym to be able to lift her belly

Spending an entire day with her at the Heart Attack Grill, hitting at least 35,000 calories

Public stuffing in clothes that barely fit her 50lbs ago

Not letting her cum until she gains 10lbs

Make her too fat for mobility scooters

No water, heavy cream only for a week

Getting her too fat for cars

Making her so fat that her weight can only be estimated as there is no way to actually move her onto a scale

Fucking a skinny girl in front of her while she is fully immobilized

Get her so fat she can't reach her belly button

Get her so fat she can't reach her nipples

Get her so fat her feet can't touch the floor anymore

Treat and fatten her like literal lifestock

Fully dehumanize & objectify her

Only letting her eat triple fried foods

Yes, that was the mild stuff ~

solongavalon

fag and dyke does not mean man and woman. transmasc and transfem does not mean man and woman. guy and girl dont even mean man and woman to me anymore

lindenattic

if we work hard enough we can achieve a world where even man and woman don’t mean man and woman anymore

moved-to-strudel-fatpaws

WHAT if instead of bear pride for hairy fat men we ALSO had cow pride. for fat women with huge milkers. ok now give me 10000 reblogs a kiss on the cheek and a nobel prize

moved-to-strudel-fatpaws

repost because i made a clerical error in the original post but here's the flag i propose. yes its cow print. yes im amazing as well

moved-to-strudel-fatpaws

also clarifying the reason the animal i picked was cow is because its a partially satirical reclaiming of the insult "fat cow" or calling fat women cows etc. as like an affirmation thing because cows can be pretty too yknow

moved-to-strudel-fatpaws

reblogging this for pride month. happy pride month to all u fat cows....

dysphoria-things

anyway. include post op trans people in your activism now

dysphoria-things

post op transfems need gynecological care transmascs on t long enough need to watch out for prostate cancer. trans men with penises still need trans activism and trans women whose voice never dropped still need trans activism. do you know this. will you consider this. or are the unique needs of transsexuals invisible to you

dysphoria-things

you. average tumblr user. do you understand that medical transition and passing does not = privilege and to try and analyze us like that just tries to make us fit cisnormative society when we are. not?

dysphoria-things

How trans-feminist spaces end up recreating cisgender methods of understanding our own experiences.

genderkoolaid

also stop assuming every nonbinary/genderqueer person has a body you'd expect from their gender assigned at birth. stop assuming every FTX person is perceived as a woman by society and/or (only) has a vagina, stop assuming every MTX person is perceived as a man and/or (only) has a penis. & stop assuming someone getting surgery means they are moving closer to cis-passing, when there are many people who medically transition and come out the other side even more visibly trans than before.

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cock-holliday

Thinking thinking thinking about Leslie Feinberg in Outlaw talking about gender and zie described hirself as a “transgendered woman.” Leslie had ID’ed as “trans” but I had not heard til that interview zie saying “transgender(ed) woman.”

I know zie considered hirself still a lesbian, and something under a trans umbrella, and while many were quick to assign “trans man” or “transmasc” onto hir, I knew that somewhere in a sense of womanhood, zie identified with a woman-adjacent label still.

I had not considered zie would combine hir sense of womanhood with the label of trans but it makes complete sense, and gives a whole new layer to hir sense of sisterhood with (amab) trans women!

Zie was a woman in a transgressive, transitional, transgender(ed) way. A trans woman.

What a concept of gender and transness that would make so many spaces spit blood. But it makes total sense!

Oh, to have more people recognize the trans umbrella (and frankly entire queer umbrella) as a spectrum of transgressive gender and not as mirrors for cisheteropatriarchy.

cjcemetery-deactivated20240702

idk what fellow fat person needs to hear this, but wear the fucking clothes. don't put off buying clothes in the style you want to wear because you're waiting to be the 'ideal' body type for those clothes. don't just throw on clothes because you don't think you deserve to wear the clothes that hug your rolls or show your flesh. dress how you want to now and have fun with your fashion choices. and above all else, wear it fat.

sapphling

i think the major issue is that at least in the case of fat people (i would imagine some other marginalized people too, but don't care to speak past my own experience here) is that the conversation re: chubby chasers has resolved around this mystical spectre of The Fetishist, whose attraction to fat people is bad because it's Fetishistic (in a way that exclusive attraction to thin bodies, by virtue of being culturally normative, is not) and it Fetishizes their partners and creates toxic Fetish Content. it's essentially the discussion of a real problem (the sexual exploitation & abuse of fat people) utilizing only the language of reactionary constructions re: "porn addiction" and non-normative attraction. i don't really give a shit if a guy has only ever dated 300 LB+ women, but what i DO care about is what those women say about him and how he treated them, if he was public about their relationships, if he listened when they said "no," etc. honest-to-god shitty chubby chasers aren't bad because of this nebulous idea of Fetishism so much as the violence with which they treat fat people, the harassment they put unconsenting fat people through, the frequent abuse of their sexual partners, and definingly the way in which they exploit cultural fatphobia & the desexualization of fat people to get away with it over and over and over again. and the irony of it is that the more we panic about Fat Fetishists without centering the conversation on power and violence, and the more we by-extension reinforce attraction to fat bodies as an abnormal and abhorrent trait, the deeper this hole is dug -- because it's that very abnormality which pushes fat partners into the shadows and which casts constant doubt over our voices as survivors of sexual violence. it's goofy

cannabisbutch

I will never shut up abt how skinny people stole the body positive movement (made by fat ppl mostly Black, for fat ppl, Black inclusive and safe) and turned it into the racist wellness fad diet industry shell of a "movement" that weight watchers tries to sell back to fat people. Learn fat history, learn FROM fat activists. We are still here no matter how much society tries to disappear us!!

[All fatphobia will be blocked and mocked]

fatliberation

anti-fatness is not just body shaming.

anti-fatness is discrimination. anti-fatness is having next to no legal protections for being discriminated against. anti-fatness is being denied housing, jobs, receiving less pay and promotions (legally) because of your size. anti-fatness is being denied access to clothing, seating, transportation, and other human rights because infrastructure has been designed to exclude you. anti-fatness is less likelihood of receiving a fair trial. anti-fatness is dehumanization. anti-fatness is being denied necessary surgeries, but not surgery that amputates the digestive tract with the intent to starve and shrink you (it doesn’t work either). anti-fatness is mutilation. anti-fatness is being subject to torture devices that bolt your mouth shut. anti-fatness is being told by close friends, family, and professionals that you are better off living with an eating disorder or other life-threatening illness. anti-fatness sells you starvation as a guaranteed opt-out of oppression, but doesn’t tell you that bodies will always regain weight to survive. anti-fatness blames and punishes you for failing at an achievement that is quite literally impossible. anti-fatness is a $90 billion dollar industry. anti-fatness is being denied gender-affirming care. anti-fatness is being barred from in vitro fertilization and reproductive healthcare. anti-fatness is being barred from adopting children. anti-fatness is being removed from your loving parents because they couldn’t make you thin. anti-fatness is intentionally starving your own baby so they won’t get fat. anti-fatness is disproportionately high suicide rates. anti-fatness is being killed at the hands of medical neglect and mistreatment. anti-fatness is the world preferring a dead body over a fat one.

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3000s

"you're permanently changing your body for your sick fetish" as an argument against transitioning is always funny to me because it's like yeah actually i am doing that too and i love it and i'm allowed to do it because this is my body, it's not the gender thing though i'm trying to get really fat

3000s

at this point we can move from "it's not a fetish or mental illness" because transphobes don't believe us or care, get into "why is altering your body for a fetish a bad thing? why shouldn't mentally ill people be allowed bodily autonomy?" bc even other trans people struggle w this sometimes

es-draws

Choose your fighter I'm a 1

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