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Welcome to Day 3 of the 12 Days of Giving! It's time for another freebie! For today, I'm sharing a collection of Folder Icons for organising your desktop & file directories. Keep your digitally spaces looking cute and feeling sorted. If you're interested in other colours, I have a selection on Etsy in other fun designs!

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Free August 2023 Wallpapers

Here are a variety of backgrounds for your laptops, tablets and phones. Also featured are a variety of desktop organisers to use with matching folders! Includes Monday & Sunday start options to suit your needs ☺︎

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All these wallpapers are free for download, you’re able to support with any amount should you wish.

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i’m finishing my degree this year so i thought i’d share some of the things i’ve painstakingly and slowly learnt over 4 years of studying physics at university. i started out by failing foundation mathematics, then all of my first year physics modules, but despite never having to go back and pass these basics (thanks covid) i’m somehow doing well in third year. so, here is my wisdom:

[disclaimer: of course, the way i study will definitely not work for everyone so only take the parts that resonate. this is not the healthiest way to study, but rather how i personally am getting through such a hardcore course with limited physical and mental energy.]

past exam papers. look for patterns and types of questions that are asked often, and focus on understanding those. if you’re lucky this could be all you need to get a great grade.

don’t worry about understanding whats going on in lectures. sitting in lectures and not knowing what the hell was going on used to stress me out to the point that i stopped going, but i found that actually, just turning up and calmly copying down the maths and notes without understanding them really helped me piece it all together later, on when studying on my own.

similarly, i find copying out the notes without trying too hard to understand them to be very helpful. it is very time consuming, but worth it when no information will sink in by just reading through the notes. even if you still don’t understand it all after writing it out, you now know what information is covered, where to find it, and you hopefully have it in a clearer, more interesting to look at format to help you later.

learn on your own terms. don’t listen to what any other people say about how you should study. you know what works for you. its always stressed here how important it is to go to lectures and tutorials, but i know that for me, a lot of the time my energy is better used by staying at home and teaching myself in a calm, comfortable, low pressure environment.

hyper-organisation. have as many planners as it takes to keep a grasp on time and schedules and deadlines. i have a bullet journal, a pre-made planner to scribble in, a planner and tables of dates and deadlines on notion, as well as sticky notes above my desk reminding me of the main things i should be working on at the moment. keep it all in front of you where you can see it, or make it easy to access. 

create a nice environment. this is possibly the most important part. make it so that sitting down to work is enjoyable, and setting up doesn’t take valuable brain power. playlists of background music ready to go, everything you need nearby and organised and easy to access.

ask for adjustments, extensions, ECs. i’m still not good at this, but it can really make all the difference. when you can’t complete something in time or the thought of doing a thing alone makes you feel like dropping out, its always worth asking if something can be done to make it easier for you. (for instance i usually skip presentations and  take the 0 but after asking, i have been allowed to make videos instead and sometimes even just make the powerpoint and write out a script.)

a consistent sleep schedule would be great, but don’t sweat if your class schedule makes it difficult. i work best at night, but lectures mean i have to wake up early in the morning. i have tried going to bed early and while that made waking up and going to classes easier, without my nighttime productivity i got way behind on everything. so instead i let my body do what it wants when it wants, which usually means sleeping less at night along with naps in the day and a lot of catch up sleep at the weekend.

caffeine can be your best friend or worst enemy. use it wisely. (i owe my second year grades to the ginger monster energy flavour)

know when to push and when to rest. sometimes you know its just executive dysfunction stopping you from getting things done, in which case gently push yourself to keep working. even if you don’t manage much, any amount of productivity is good. but on the other hand, if you keep trying and trying and its still not working, thats probably a sign you should stop. if you don’t make time for rest, your body will take it for you. 

on that note, if you really can’t focus, stop to think about whats actually wrong. sit still, relax for a moment and zone in to yourself. is it because you’re hungry? cold? understimulated? do you not have all of the materials you need right in front of you? it could be something as simple as the lighting being off, or things being in the wrong place on your desk. 

break it down. when i’m stuck, most often the problem is that i don’t clearly know what to do next. break tasks down into steps, and then break those down again until you have small tasks you can easily face. baby steps are the way to go. 

something is always better than nothing! you don’t have to put your all into everything. if you’ve got 60% to give on an assignment, thats great. even 40%, 20%. handing in something bad and unfinished is still worth it, and sometimes all you need. 

but for now....

Every

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Cat

even the slang ones (yes im in charge naming a this month)

I think this is the closest to a complete cat names list I can ever get :)

Oh, I think, there is no standard way to ask someone out on a date - neither in Russian nor in any other language.

It could be an invitation:

- Может, сходим ... (в ресторан, на концерт, в кино, на выставку ...) вместе?

It could be a question whether a person is free on a specific day:

- А что ты делаешь (в четверг вечером, в пятницу после обеда, в эту субботу etc)?

- Ты не занят(а) четверг вечером, в пятницу после обеда, в эту субботу etc)?

If you meet someone at an event, you can use it as the common, shared background:

- Тебе нравится (эта группа, эта музыка, эти книги etc)? У меня есть (новый альбом, коллекция etc). Хочешь посмотреть?

Может or, a bit more relaxed, давай followed by your proposal is a universal, pretty neutral and polite way to ask someone out.

- Может, прогуляемся вместе?

- Давай сходим, посмотрим вместе новый фильм Тарантино? Он уже идёт в соседнем кинотеатре!

- Может сходим в субботу на концерт?

- А давай встретимся сегодня после работы, расслабимся, выпьем чего-нибудь?

It is an explicit request, but it is not pushy, and the other person won't feel any obligations or pressure from your side. It is easy both to accept and reject the proposal politely, without hurting anyone's ego:

- В пятницу не могу, извини. Надо диплом дописать. Может, как-нибудь в другой раз.

- В пятницу? Отличная идея! Давай сходим вместе!

- Вечером не получится, шеф сказал доделать отчёт до завтра, я часов до десяти просижу в офисе.