Is My Fate Silver-Lined?

you should be addicted to shutting the fuck up

I dont know I think it's kind of gross that the moment a style of presentation that's popular among trans women gets noticed as a theme by the broader population it rapidly devolves into the subject of ridicule, something to make memes about and tease new tgirls about for participating in (though by this point it's getting called a "femboy" style) until they're eventually too self conscious to wear that stuff anymore, and then at best the most sensitive anyone will get about it is "be nice, she'll grow out of it eventually". Of course this is a theme of misogyny in general- anything that becomes popular among young women will inevitably become both sexualised and ridiculed, the 'goth girl' or 'egirl' or whatever is something that men will declare as sexually desirable but also shameful for the woman to want to present that way- women lack interiority and thus could only be wearing that out of a shallow desire for attention. But for trans women specifically this attitude is only amplified- any expression of femininity is vapid and hollow because she is only 'wearing a costume' and 'playing' at being a girl, and when the inevitable sexual objectification comes into play that attraction is a source of conflicted shame that could only be brought on by an active, predatory deception.