In The Basket

I think this happened after I first got Tumblr, which is hilarious. Because, dude, how angry do you have to be for you to spew this much bullshit?

Calling Severus an abuser, while James was also one is absolute peak hypocrisy. I mean, make it make sense 😭

First off, no Snape fans ignore Snapes actions as that's what makes it interesting.

Two, James actions aren't demonized, because they're ALREADY demonic enough, regardless of what he did.

And no, Snape wasn't an 'always racist' kind of guy, he was indoctrinated. Severus planned to be part of Slytherin, because his mother was a Slytherin and that was probably the house he was most familiar with. Severus literally told Lily her blood status doesn't matter ijbol

Also, by law (as said by a fucking criminal lawyer) it is considered SA, since they flung Severus UPSIDE DOWN and flashed his underwear to a small crowd, while actively threatening to take it off. And no, they didn't get in trouble for this, theres no proof that they did. Stop making assumptions and follow basic facts, dear Lord.

And I never said that Severus' actions were excused by his trauma, but even if I did.. St least his upbringing can be used as an explanation for how he is and how he turned out to be, considering Severus was indoctrinated, groomed and taken advantage of. I mean, can we use our brains here?

Also, saying that Snape fans are the ones excusing his ass and defending his cruel actions, as if Marauders fans haven't been doing the same for absolute ages, is insane. Maybe quit being a hypocrite yourself, dear Lord.

We are aware of Severus's actions. We are also aware of James's, Sirius's, Remus's, and Peter's actions. The reason I personally like Snape so much is the reasoning behind their actions.

James and Sirius were harrassing, assaulting pricks as kids simply because they could be. It was fun.

Remus was shy and wanted to fit in.

Peter thought he could avoid being treated how Severus was treated by picking the side that he might win on. He is, in every sense of the word, a coward picking the path of least resistance.

Snape did what he did in RESPONSE to the abuse both at home and at Hogwarts.

And YES, undressing someone in public without their consent is sexual assault. This is epecially true when considering the fact that 'pants' in the UK is also a term for underwear, meaning they completely exposed Severus for all to see.

I'm a 22yo woman. Imagine if I was out on a busy street and a man approached, immobilized me, and took my shirt and bra off. Suddenly nobody can say "that's not that big of a deal".

If the Marauders at the time were committing adult level crimes (which they were), it's not boys being boys. In fact, it is rarely boys being boys. It's aggressors being permitted to worsen their behavior by adults failing to properly address and react to problems.

Severus was groomed by other students with seniority. They saw his talent for potions and spells, and his vulnerability, and they gnawed on it like a dog to a bone (though I will take this time to remind everyone that being in Slytherin does not make you a bad person. What about Lockhart? What about Pettigrew? What about Quirrell? Grindelwald didn't even attend Hogwarts. Their actions were their own.).

I hope you like it.

So I defended myself from my stepdad hitting me twice. Mom called cops. In this state they do not care about self defense. I got charged with battery and taken to jail and don't get me started on the inhumane conditions.

Half ppl there were afab ppl who defended themselves against and abuser. One lady was pregnant her baby daddy was choking her she was afraid she was going to die ... Cops took her bc she bloodied his lip in defense.

Don't call the cops they are not there to help.

I need to find somewhere I can go asap with my ESA but shelters here don't accept pets. Im trying to work with my therapist to find a place but it takes time and idk how much time I will have before my stepdad makes me leave he was already talking about making me go to a shelter.

I also have no reliable transportation because I still owe on car insurance that I'm trying to pay off and my plates are expired. If I can get my car sorted that would open a door to me.

I still owe $150 on car insurance and I haven't checked yet to see how much plates cost.

Narcissa; "I'll never get over that you grew up in a place like this."

day 86

The medieval peasant I went back in time to give a bag of Doritos to, concerned: what terrible and powerful sorcerers they must have in your age, to be able to veil the vault of heaven itself from view, as you say

Me, sniffling: I didn’t realize, I can’t, it’s so much, I, I… are the chips good, at least?