Don't Stop Me Now

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

You don’t deserve to be screamed at, ignored, or assaulted.

Being passive aggressive with him when he wants to spend time with friends or doing other things 

controlling when he’s able to go out with friends

Breaking up his friendships with other girls just because you’re insecure

Making him feel like his opinions in decisions that affect the both of you are irrelevant and don’t matter

SENDING HIS NUMBER TO STRANGERS TO TEST IF HE’S LOYAL OR NOT

testing him in anyway in general without his knowledge or permission (example: catfishing! it’s manipulative and weird don’t fucking do that)

taking money/credit cards without permission to spend on things without his knowledge ( had an ex friend do this constantly to her boyfriend and she’d always condone it because “he’ll get over it” )

guilting him for hanging out with friends/family over you  and making him choose between you and friends/family

telling him “you don’t love me if you *insert harmless activity he wants to do here* “

being rude or mean to him in front of others to assert dominance or power over him

downloading apps to spy on his phone activity (yes, this is a thing “”regular”” people do) or snooping on his social media to see who he’s talking to

hitting him, slapping him, punching him, shoving him. literally how do people not understand slapping your male partner is bad. people tend to find this funny in media and society and its weird. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT PERMISSION. 

and let me add this. ABUSIVE TEEN GIRLFRIENDS TURN INTO ABUSIVE GROWN ASS WOMEN GIRLFRIENDS WHO TURN INTO ABUSIVE WIVES.

if you have an abusive teen or young adult gf right now fellas, leave. don’t let her use you to get her shit right. you’ll be so fucked up by the time she gets it together if she ever does and believe that most likely she won’t.  

No one is saying that women and girls that are victims of domestic violence can’t defend themselves. You have every right to defend yourself if you are experiencing abuse.

Try contacting the domestic abuse help line for men and women: 1.888.743.5754

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Use Mars sign!!! You could also look at Venus, Sun, or 8th house cusp, but they would have a lesser effect. Aspects to mars and house position will influence this.

Aries: Quick to get aroused, little foreplay. Rough and aggressive sex. Hair pulling. Selfish in bed. Probably really like doggystyle, and having sex against a desk or a table. They don’t last long but they’re always up for a second round. Unexpected sex, be ready to do it anywhere.

Taurus: Sensual. Great stamina, sex goes for a long time and incorporates a lot of foreplay. One of the more vanilla signs, but they do rule the throat so choking may occur. Steady rhythm, they really penetrate you or want the same done to them. Can be submissive, usually let their partner do the work. Have their habits in bed.

Gemini: Dirty talk. They like a fast paced rhythm and really enjoy oral. Really good with their fingers, they like they’re partner to be vocal in bed. Need variety to keep them interested, usually like to try everything at least once. Generally dislike long sessions, but are up for doing it several times a day.

Cancer: Honestly they might be into the whole slave act, submissive. Missionary, kissing while making eye contact.The idea of getting pregnant can turn them on. Romantic in bed. Loves having their nipples played with or doing the same to their partner.

Leo: Dominant in bed, they want to hear how good they are so they pay a lot of attention to their partner. Tbh probably likes to watch themselves have sex, home pornos or mirror sex. Sex acts are a show for them, they’ll dress up and set the scene, might do some sexy dancing/stripping. If you’re selfish in bed or don’t acknowledge them they’re gone.

Virgo: Very submissive, probably likes the whole ‘babygirl/princess’’ thing. Also enjoy the slave concept. Focused on pleasing their partner rather than themselves. Roleplaying that its their first time would turn them on i imagine. Cuckold.

Libra: They want a balance between pleasure that is given and received. Picky about the setting, not into rough or vulgar sex. Traditional positions, missionary. Honestly they like to watch sex acts, threesomes maybe but thats for the more out there ones.

Scorpio: Either really dominant or submissive, they like power plays. Lots of stamina, powerful rhythm. Probably likes things like ropes and handcuffs, they like to break taboos. Pain turns them on,  probably likes biting and scratching. Hickeys to show possession. 

Sagittarius: Quick, light-hearted sex. Rapid rhythm. Probably likes having sex outside. Cowgirl position. They don’t like to spend too much time and are usually not interested in a romantic element. Can be selfish. Need constant change of stimulation to keep them interested, be adventurous. Ass-grabbing and spanking.

Capricorn: Very kinky, dominant in bed. Roleplays involving them being a police officer or an authority figure of some kind. Probably also likes handcuffs and ropes, although never on themselves. Better than average stamina, lots of force and determination in their rhythm lmao. Daddy doms.

Aquarius: This is the one sign that would try those kamasutra positions. Likes toys, vibrators ect. Risky sex where they can get caught. Webcam sex. Detached during sex. Taboo things, like to break the barriers. Group sex. Probably not too into the traditional positions.

Pisces: Honestly open to anything, they will play any role they have to. Their default is very submissive, focused on your pleasure but it comes naturally to them. Generally isn’t into the rough stuff, but can be open to it. Probs like sex under the influence. Fantasies are a big thing. Sex in the shower. 

- look at their handwriting

- read their favourite book and search for pieces of them within the pages

- listen to their music and let it resonate with you

- go to their favourite place

- stay up ‘till 3am and let them spill their heart out to you

- ask them unusual questions that you never even thought would intrigue you

- spend a day with them doing nothing

- look out for the things they subconsciously do when they’re happy

- use their body wash when you shower at the persons place (truly, you’ll feel it)

- make art with them, sitting in the silence just drawing or painting, or having deep conversations while making art, both realllyyy connect them

- spent time with their pets (but not too much because they might be jealous) - notice how they squeeze the toothpaste bottle.

- let them tell you their dreams and ask if you can look it up for them, share the results.

- have deep eye contact with them