Wounds to be tended, lessons to be learned.

also goes for when we are talking about women btw. and especially black/brown women

love getting a queer clothing ad and they're selling booty shorts that say "this pussy's nonbinary too" and a jockstrap that says "faggot" all over it. so like. can a penis be nonbinary or.......

a trans woman cannot embody or own her desirability. it can only be granted to her by others

sex positivity is for cis women, it's for "faggots," it's for trans men, and it's for nonbinary people if they're TME, but it's not for trans women. sexual liberation is for other people. we must let others sexualize us, but we can never sexualize ourselves. you know I think there's a word for this I've heard somewhere.... something like "lisogyny"?

seeing someone rb to the wrong blog has an upskirt-like feel

my sisters I love you but we need to stop internalizing transmisogyny lol. it is not "invading afab spaces" to have a vagina and need to go to the gynecologist

even my sisters are fighting the good fight to protect the frail sanctity of the "afab"

I love indigenous place names in north america so much because, unlike most european place names that are named after some asshole who claimed it, or like, something in Christendom, our place names are meant to help people easily identify them with major landmarks and water features (most people would be arriving via lake or river). but then you look at the name of a place and it’s like “this is where I saw a lot of wolverines” or “the curved lake at the end of the bend up north” and it’s like. fuck yeah it sure is. and then you look at settler place names and you’re supposed to know the difference between two different St. Johns that are both in the maritimes and it’s like come the Fuck On man

You may think it cruel but when a white witch pisses me off I go through her etsy listings for native bird feathers and forward it to fish and wildlife services

Sweats in Salem witch descendant

Keep sweating girl the game wardens on his way

the central conceit of white boy "comedy rap" genres is that they're too racist to recognise that most classic rap is already pretty humorous in many ways, on account of wordplay being fundamental to the form,

and also steeped in pop culture from the very beginning, like the rap scene was already making music about comics and anime and video games you don't need to segregate a new genre for that

some of you dont actually love trans women you just want to fuck them. you’re not an ally you just have unresolved futanari fantasies

see the thing is that once you actually do believe that trans women and cis women are more similar than different everything sorta locks in. in this case, it's the idea that objectification and sexual attraction aren't any meaningful support for trans women, the same way they aren't for cis women. remember that trend a couple months ago with like, the guys who performatively carried around feminist literature to try to make themselves seem safe and approachable to women to try to get laid? it's kinda like that. you have to actually be a (trans)feminist you can't just do it for the sex

This is just the tiniest fucking window into how transmisogyny affect people. This is about a space that was held by trans people and for trans people where the transphobia targeting a transfeminine person was prioritized over everything else.

i miss swimming.

like i said black ppl r put in danger by nonblacks engaging in ‘crime’ around us and not caring about how we feel or the optics of what happens to us when they get caught and ur only response is “white people we need to steal more!!!” ………girl ive had lil cousins get guns pointed at them bc of their nonblack friends stealing from the store and they automatically got blamed, yall think everything is a joke 😭

problematic sudoku solving skills gap

Daily reminder to Americans on this website that American war on Iran is bad because Iranians are getting killed not because you can no longer afford going to the movies in the weekends or refill your car 😒

Y'know what, this reminder also includes non-Americans. Let's watch our words and keep the victims of American aggressions in our heart always

(Smugly after failing at a task) and they said it could be done.