queen of wasting my potential

guys you gotta stop thinking of women in their 30s as elderly it’s just misogyny

you also gotta stop thinking about actual elderly women as lesser human beings. Youth is not a measure of one’s worth.

you have destroyed and betrayed yourself for an amazing reason

"here's my original character, Man Who Sucks But Loves His Daughter Very Much" and it's a guy who worships at the altar of patriarchal violence and the woman he uses as an excuse and an effigy to absolve him

well i think his daughter should tell him to kill himself

Oh yes I love that former impoverished feral child who now likes to wear dramatic outfits and who grew up to be a giant gay beanpole and who never uses his real name and who has an eyepatch and who used to be suicidal but learned to live and thrive because of love.

I'm probably gonna get yelled at for saying this but sometimes something isn't a real problem in fandom, you just learned a Japanese word describing a general fandom practice and got scared and decided it meant "The Bad Ones" of that practice

OP is correct and smart for saying this. this is related to/a subset of how people are about non-fandom foreign words, too, like how people say "Christians worship God (good), Muslims worship Allah (bad and scary)" when gues swh. gu. guess what. gues s w hat Allah mea. guess what the word "Allah" means--!!

@raptorific I get what your saying here, but cartoons are often used for most animated media, anime sometimes is used with fetishistic connotations. Hentai particularly.

Yes, I am aware. Like I said, saying "cartoons" for all animated media and "the Japanese word for cartoons" when you mean horny fetish animated media is racist. The fact that the word hentai is used for pornography is not relevant, unless people are using it to mean "pornography (derogatory)" and are using the phrase "animated pornography" to mean "pornography (complimentary)"

every season the news is like wow! what unprecedented and unusual weather!! we won’t examine this further!!!

let's all get into happy healthy long-lasting relationships with people that we are comfortable to be ourselves with

the thing about fandom is it tends to thrive on unanswered questions and doors left open. space to make up your own bullshit and theorize and headcanon. so to an extent i understand why shipping Two Guys Who Stand Next To Eachother is always so overwhelmingly popular because like. well if you know the writers are never gonna go there then it basically becomes your city now. you're the giant rat who makes all the yaoi. i can't really deny the appeal.

i understand (on paper) why companies are anti-piracy but its funny when random individuals are also strongly anti-piracy. like how does it negatively affect your life if someone you know downloads a cracked torrent of sims 4. you dont work for EA. EA isnt gonna pay you for this. you lose nothing. its fine. chill out.

will always resent the implication that the sexualities of fascist closet cases, chasers, johns, etc have any common ground whatsoever with those of decent everyday homosexuals. we are not the fucking same

being able to hear someone criticizing your behaviour or something you like whether it's music or tv shows or a restaurant you like or clothes or whatever and not immediately collapsing emotionally or responding as though you're being physically attacked is one of the most important skills to develop and a sign of maturity and resilience. if you react like you're a caged animal every time you encounter someone who doesn't like something you do or dislikes something you like or just straight up doesn't like you that needs to be addressed if you want to grow as a person and not live in a constant state of insecurity. if you assume that someone disagreeing with you or disliking something you like, especially if it's an opinion on art and media, automatically impacts your worth as an individual or makes you react the same way you did when you were 5 and another kid didn't want to play with you that needs to be addressed idk what to say it's time to develop some resilience