Fizzamess’ Aroace Experience

I twisted and stretched my feelings to fit into this world, seeking for names or labels that would give them a meaning.

Now I see it clear as day. All I ever wanted was to love and be loved in the most pure, intimate, human way possible, in a way that transcends far beyond romantic and sexual normatives.

I won’t ever put myself into uncomfortable situations that don’t fit with me. From now on, the only thing I’ll seek will be,

Just. Pure. Human. Connection.

Now how am I supposed to express my feelings if I can’t belt them out pretending I’m Jeremy Jordan?

My little sister was my secret Santa this year, and she wrote in the letter things that reminded her of me. One of them was the character of Lucifer from Hazbin Hotel, in part because I’m socially awkward and neurodivergent as him, but also because it seems like my life has been Lucifer coded since so long. Including the fact that a few weeks ago I was getting ready after a shower and when I squirted some leave-on cream for curly hair, a tailor-made duck shape appeared just because of serendipity.

“Pic or it didn’t happen”?, well, check for yourselves:

To all the aphobes I’ve had to encounter throughout my life, that made fun of me for being different (whether or not they knew what they were doing), I say:

HAPPY ACE WEEK 2025 LOSERS!

Just a simple “oh, cool”.

Share one of the most aro-coded things you’ve done!

For me, before I knew I was arospec, the last time I ever tried to “date” was a few years ago. I was going out with this dude and when he called me to break up I just said “oh ok, if you don’t mind imma hang up cause I have to go study for a test tomorrow” and then I just went on with my day. Honestly tho that was better than my idea to ask him to meet up the week that happened to be Valentine’s Day and breaking up with him then…

Hell yeah it’s aro week!!!! 💚💚💚💚

(Hi! It’s been a while since I’ve done one of these so I figured I’ll do one today!)

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