my journal ~ musing

Help is a feminine energy by nature. The way someone offers help says a lot about their relationship with their feminine aspects, especially their dark feminine energy. ~ @feminiel

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Your intuition guides you to the truth. Some truths feel good, others will cause pain, but your intuition will guide you to the truth that you need to set yourself free from what is blocking your true self to emerge ~ however it feels. Your intuition knows what feelings and experiences you have to go through to heal, expand your consciousness, and evolve. Your intuition doesn’t fail ~ it guides. Sometimes, we can feel that we were wrong to follow our intuition because we end up in situations that were not what we were expecting, but what is often misunderstood is our misconception about how intuition works. Recently, I've learned that intuition can work closely with feelings of disappointment. It will guide you in disappointing situations, not to work against you, but to initiate you to your inner truth. When you are oriented towards our inner truth and want to trust in higher energies working in our favour, we need to be aware that the process can be revealed to us through light and shadow ~ even if we were to follow our intuition. Understanding this can help in trusting yourself more and knowing that no matter what happens, you will know how to get through the ups and downs of life. ~ @feminiel

Many people are not relating; they are positioning. Relating is your authenticity being mutual with someone else. It feels safe. Positioning is how your self-image insecurities are being met through a person. There is a feeling that you are not being valued for the person that you are, both by yourself and by the other. Being aware of this moves you closer to aligning yourself with the right people for you. More importantly, you get to stay loyal and true to yourself first. ~ @feminiel

Being supported by the right people can make all the difference. Lots of people can give you support, but when it's someone who gives it with an energy that your heart needs the most, it's healing and transforming. It's not about the what or the quantity, but the how and quality of their support. ~ @feminiel

However, even if a person is love, we need to understand that not everyone will fully show up in their love potential until they heal, work on themselves, and transform toward becoming their best self. We all carry wounds and insecurities that can block the expression of this loving part of ourselves. Consequently, it can distort our relationship with love and the beliefs we hold about it because of how love could be experienced through someone else. The more we heal our wounds and insecurities, the more we are able to see the truth of someone's being (which is love) and what is causing them to act against it, and therefore against themselves. We begin to detach and see that love doesn't hurt us, but the distortion around it does. The other person is a reflection of how you are relating to love, but also with yourself. ~ @feminiel

Judgment and discernment can be easily confused. Sometimes, we can't really know if someone is using judgment or discernment. One way of recognizing which it could be is asking yourself how you feel with someone. A person who makes you feel that your essence is love and still acknowledges your shadows is discernment. Someone who makes you feel that your essence is inherently wrong or bad without seeing you for who you truly are beyond your mistakes and flaws leans more on the judgmental side. You'll also know by how much you are aware of your inner world. Sometimes, because you carry feelings and emotions that go against yourself, you will interpret whatever it is said to you as a judgment when perhaps the person is using discernment. ~ @feminiel