i have infinite tenderness for you

I don’t feel strong enough but I always am

I’m tired of “gooners” I’m tired of 4chan terms I’m tired of casual racism I’m tired of all this shit we have to pretend is normal so we don’t upset like the few people who conflate their identities with being edgy, racist and insufferable

seeing a new pasta shape is memorable and exciting

“Tadea Arias de Enríquez” (detail) by Francisco Goya, 1789.

sipping on some of that 9pm water

there are a lot of things that are uncomfortable and sad about getting older. i think it’s ok to talk about that candidly. i just wish the conversation wasn’t so focused on women and the way we look. getting wrinkles is actually not even close to the worst of it really