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if you like fat people please fucking say it. expecially fat women. the thing about liking fat girls is that so many of them don't even know how much they need the kind of love you can give them. they need to know it's normal for someone to love their body because of how it looks. people talk all the time about how everyone who likes fat women is some evil 'feeder' predator that's going to destroy their 'victim's' life and personhood and i'm so fucking done with it because it's just fatphobic nonsense and kink-negative bullshit where people think that sexual desire has moral value again. it's the worried-for-your-health argument mixed up with a big ladleful of shame. please tell us you think we're sexy. love us in public and to your friends and family. be prepared for some of us to not know what to do with all that. keep doing it anyway. love us wholly, every bit of us, and incessantly. we need it.

softiegain

PLEASE

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cute-feedism-things

One reason feedism is great is that it can be just really chill.

Just let me play with your chub while we cuddle

Or pop a cupcake in your mouth at dinner

Maybe we could just get in bed and watch movies while snacking for hours

Or I could even just hug you and feel how soft you are while we’re pressed against each other.

There are just so many little, nice moments that don’t need to be planned or thought out.

ambergate18andup

Is it that wrong to want to be fat and worshiped and doted on from time to time

tumboodles

happiest in da worldddd ;3

swagpaws

god i hate how normalized diet culture and shit like bmi and calories are. bmi is based on eugenics. calories are a measurement of how much energy something gives u and not at all of how much weight or fat ull gain. diets have been proven to be harmful and ultimately unhelpful in actually losing weight. fatness has been largely proven to not be inherently unhealthy and doesnt inherently cause health issues.

if anyone has more good links to add on then please do and if anyone knows more on this stuff than me then dont hesitate to correct me!

more-beanies

FOOD IS GOOD. FOOD IS GOOD. FOOD IS GOOD!! if you’re eating, ever, and even/especially if it’s hard, know that i am personally SO SO proud of you

normal-horoscopes

The BMI was invented by Adolphe Quetelet, the 19th century statistician who invented phrenologist anthropometry. He wasn’t just a eugenicist, he was one of the founding fathers of racist pseudoscience. Please do not listen to anything he has to say about your body.

uglymelon

“And get this: While epidemiologists use BMI to calculate national obesity rates (nearly 35 percent for adults and 18 percent for kids), the distinctions can be arbitrary. In 1998, the National Institutes of Health lowered the overweight threshold from 27.8 to 25—branding roughly 29 million Americans as fat overnight—to match international guidelines. But critics noted that those guidelines were drafted in part by the International Obesity Task Force, whose two principal funders were companies making weight loss drugs.”

Source: https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/08/why-bmi-big-fat-scam/

Body mass index is used to sell weight loss drugs, set insurance premiums, and counsel patients. There's just one little problem.

bogleech

I always thought everyone knew this by like the early 2000s but instead I see more people than ever believing this stuff is real medical science

whatbigotspost

Man if y'all folks up thread thought this situation was bad back in 2021 (as I did too) you won’t BELIEVE what the 2026 cultural convo on these topics is like.

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slob-piggy

Fat people are so sexy I’m so happy to be part of the club

divinehedone-deactivated2025122

God forbid fat people are beautiful and divine and worthy of kind words. God forbid feedism is tender and raw and honest and open. God forbid moulding a body for pleasure is pleasurable.

fatlesbianjoyer

The idea that it’s somehow degrading for a fat person to date someone who prefers their body type is wild. “Don’t be with someone who likes you for your body, be with someone who likes you for you!” No one would ever discourage a thin person for dating someone who was… attracted to them? In fact, it’s considered something of a prerequisite. Ultimately it’s the idea that the only genuine, trustworthy attraction to fat people is in spite of their appearance.

skipperafterdark

stuffing them so nice and full they can’t help but slip into a food coma. promising you’ll take such good care of them while they rest - after all, they worked so hard, didn’t they? they’ll feel so much better after a good nap. but then, of course, they just look so plush, so comfy and beautiful…you can’t help yourself. you need to reach out and touch. grab. squeeze, knead, bounce — your sweet, sleepy doughball. you’re even able to work some air out of them, burps slipping out unhindered by shame or etiquette…or wakefulness.

now that they’ve made some room, they look like they could use a snack.

you gently jostle them awake, holding a treat near their mouth. “hi, baby. here - just one more bite,” you murmur, knowing they’re too sleepy to protest. you press it past their lips, stroking their cheek as they chew, and the moment they swallow you coax them back to sleep.

it’s even easier than you thought.

so you start the cycle over: worshipping their body, mouthing at their chest, grinding against their thighs and tummy, diving between their legs, reaping the rewards of their indulgence for them…careful not to send them over the edge. not yet. if they start to wake up from an overeager bounce of their belly or too sharp a nip at their rolls? well, that just means it’s time for another treat~

a dizzyingly delicious cycle, so easy to get lost in. feeding them up even fuller than they started — and they’re just too deep in dreamland to keep track of how many “one more bite”s they’ve had. by the time they wake up for real, they’re packed to the brim, so full they can’t even roll over…and they barely know why. even more, they’re so riled up from however long you spent gorging yourself on them, it’s all they can do to beg you for help. so stuffed they can’t move, so turned on they can’t focus, and completely at your mercy.

you did promise they’d feel better once they woke up, didn’t you?

quiet-admirer

I need vanilla fat liberationists to understand that every time they open up their mouths about feedism and fat fetishes they sound like "do they know it's Christmas" lmao. Their sudden blind spot when it comes to reasoning and fat politics because of their own disgust and fear is just so blatantly, bafflingly obvious. I don't get how they don't see how patronizing, paternalistic, ignorant, self-centered, and rude they are, especially toward fat feedists... They never bother to do any research (they rarely even get the basic terminology or definitions right), and god forbid they actually talk to a feedist or invite them to discussions about their own experiences and subcultures. As if there's no way we could ever have anything meaningful to say, because of course what they know about feedism and fat fetishism must be all there is to know.

And on top of it all, they always speak about us like there's no way we could ever be listening to what they're saying. But sorry! We can hear you! And nothing they're saying about us is new to us, none of it is interesting, and none of it is something we haven't thoroughly responded to or debunked or explained to them or consistently continued to address and combat or thought of already on our own decades ago. It's the same tired arguments and opinions they were saying back when I came onto the scene 13 years ago, and yet they still talk like they're saying something new and intellectual every time.

Like, come back to the table to talk about feedism and fat fetishism when you are willing to NOT talk about feedism and fat fetishism and can instead sit there and listen and learn the way you would for any other experience or identity you don't have direct lived experience with.

extra-stout-stories-deactivated

And don't even get me started on the "academic discourse about feedism in which the only texts analyzed are exploitation fiction by non-feedists" genre. There's more than one cultural studies paper using the movie *Feed* as its primary source text and I just want to bash my head against the wall sometimes.

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m-e-and-me

i need you to understand that when i talk about medical fatphobia (or fatphobia in general) i am especially talking about the fattest person you could ever fucking imagine. yes i am also talking about small fat people and “chubby” people. but i am ESPECIALLY talking about people who are so fat they can’t take care of themselves, who can’t walk, who can’t take care of hygiene independently, who do nothing but sit/lie down all day and eat.

you need to get in your head that these fat people are human too, who are deserving of good healthcare. if you only support people who are a little fat or if your support is conditional based on weight and peoples efforts to lose weight or not, it’s not support. it’s eugenics.

THIS POST IS ABOUT FAT PEOPLE AND FAT DISABLED PEOPLE - DO NOT DERAIL.

rainekittys

I post a lot about how fat people deserve to feel sexy and are hot, which is true, but I do also want to remind everyone that fat people should also be able to exist and be respected without being sexualised or you being attracted to them. You should respect people and treat them normally regardless of how attracted to them you are. If your activism centres purely around how much you can sexualise a marginalised group, your activism is shit, sorry

mas-o-kissed

“This kink is problematic when you think about it” ohhhhhh shit ok lemme head on over to the kink store and trade these kinks in for one that make my jackoff fantasies morally superior

skipperafterdark

as far as I’m concerned body fat is THEE stim material of all time and I’m done pretending it isn’t. it’s ALWAYS warm, soft, and inviting. idk abt yall but I love resistance & pressure, so the weight of fat/fat body parts is glorious. there’s just so many ways to stim

cupping a boob in your hand. just hold it. let the weight of it fill your palm

idly bouncing a boob against your fingers

bouncing a belly hang against your palm

laying back and finding the center of the belly and pressing intermittently. bwomp bwomp bwomp. look at that ripple

rubbing back and forth along the bottom of an overhang, noting how the bottom of the belly is soft in a different way from the top (bonus points for dimpled overhangs, W bellies, stretchmarks, cellulite)

curling your fingers around a roll. squeezing, massaging, holding

using a roll to shake a whole belly

framing a belly with both hands and squeezing, squishing, bouncing

wobbling a wide, jiggly thigh

placing ur fingers underneath a shelf of an ass and bouncing. one cheek, both cheeks, who gaf

tracing the curve of plump cheeks, double chins, soft necks with a knuckle or the pads of your fingers

splaying your hand across any wide, soft body part (belly, sides, thighs, ass) and just. feeling. rocking the palm back and forth, pressing fingertips against the surface. soaking up the warmth and comfort

running your hand up and down a whole fat torso, chest to hips, memorizing the landscape of rolls and swells and stretch marks and cellulite

finding clusters of older stretchmarks, noting the different textures between it and unmarked skin

and we absolutely CANNOT forget the ultimate simple pleasure of rubbing biiig slow circles all around the circumference of a sweet round tummy

deityofplenty

Being a fat person with a fat kink is an act of self love. There’s truly no kind of validation like seeing fat bodies like mine and loving them. If I can’t get to a point where I love my own body, then at least I can send love to fat bodies in the universe, and receive that love back in an indirect way

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big-thighs-cute-eyes

So deeply craving the casual intimacy of feedism right now. A hand resting gently on my belly as they lean into my side. The subtle smile of approval as they see me order a large meal. The constant assurance and encouragement to eat whatever my heart desires. The sweet smile they give when we see that I’ve outgrown another piece of clothing, or being lovingly teased about how tight the booth at a restaurant has gotten. To be loved and admired for not denying myself, to be beautiful to someone else for everything that the world tells me I should hate

big-thighs-cute-eyes

Still thinking about this constantly. There’s just something so tender about feedism. To have someone want me soft and well fed, insisting that I always have that little bit more. To have someone watch me grow softer and heavier with every bite they coax into my mouth. Every pound a marker of my devotion, of how I could never say no to what they give me. Becoming more and more reliant on them as I’m weighed down by the toll of their affection. Every new inch on my waistline becomes a symbol of how I’m cared for, and every pant and gasp of effort shows that I’m theirs

vyvilha

isn't it ridiculous how you're only allowed to have types when you're into conventional appearance and conventionally attractive things. if you're into fat people you're immediately labeled as a fat fetishist but exclusively dating skinny people is just normal. if you're into muscular women you're a disgusting gooner with a muscle mommy fetish but if you're into muscular men you're literally just a regular person. thinking feet is attractive is a fetish but being into boobs is the normalest thing ever even though both are non-sexual body parts

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