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"The philosophers have only interpreted the world, in various ways. The point, however, is to change it." - Karl Marx (1845)
Em | 21 | She/Her | Uni Student | BA in Childhood Studies | Australian | Writer | Reader | Marxist | Socialist
General Info
DNI
Basic DNI Criteria
Fandoms
AGGGTM, Criminal Minds, Here We Go, The Naturals, Eleanor Jones Series, Waterloo Road, Invisible Boys, Sherlock & Daughter, Die Pfefferkörner, Heartbreak High (2022), Just Dance.
Artists
Louis Tomlinson, Taylor Swift, Olivia Rodrigo, Chappell Roan, Sabrina Carpenter, Katseye, One Direction, Arctic Monkeys, Harry Styles, Lyric, ABBA, MARINA, Ariana Grande, Madonna.
People
Jude Morgan-Collie, Gia Hunter, Megan Skiendiel, Manon Bannerman, Louis Tomlinson, Olivia Rodrigo, Taylor Swift, Chappell Roan, Sabrina Carpenter, Charley Jenni, Emma Myers, Zain Iqbal, Raiko Gohara.
An Original Novel: A mystery novel centred on four kids navigating their lives in a small town while investigating their friend's suicide a year earlier. Stage: First Draft.
Reading
My essential readings for Socialism Sydney 2026!!!
Watching
Heated Rivalry (2025): Two hockey stars embark on a decade-long secret relationship that is fuelled by their rivalry on the ice..
Xena: Warrior Princess (1995): Xena, a ruthless warlord, seeks redemption for her past crimes, accompanied by her loyal companion Gabrielle. (On Pause)
Regular Show (2010): Mordecai and Rigby, two groundskeepers at the park, spend their days avoiding doing their work, often resulting in chaotic adventures.
Bridgerton (2020-): Eight close-knit siblings of the Bridgerton family attempt to find love during the Regency era in England.
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australians remember the school strike against hanson on august 13th!!! it’s happening all over australia and you should be there, whether you’re a high schooler, a uni student or someone wanting to show your support
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Grace in Memoir of a snail feels like a good example of the downsides to hyperfixating and special interests. Sometimes they do genuinely make life harder to live. She collected snail memorabilia but it was no replacement for human connection even though in the moment they brought her joy. "I loathed myself. My hoarding had kept me poor, and being poor had kept me from Gilbert." I love this movie
I just found out haunting adeline is getting a live action adaptation and I'm genuinely furious, at what point did we start treating one of the most devastating crimes a person can experience as a romance? This isn't about censorship, it's about basic human decency. Survivors deserve respect, not to watch their trauma repackaged as entertainment and marketed as something desirable. Sexual violence DESTROYS lives, it doesn't create epic love stories. The fact that it's now receiving a live action adaptation makes it even more unsettling, instead of asking what message we're sending, we're giving this story an even bigger platform. We should be protecting our society by refusing to glamorize abuse not rewarding it with more visibility. Victims deserve better. They deserve to know that their pain is taken seriously not transformed into a fantasy for people to consume. We can defend artistic freedom while also questioning the values certain stories promote and the impact they may have on audiences. Those conversations don't diminish fiction they recognize that stories can shape culture and culture influences how we understand real people and real harm.
how eerie to hear they're going to remake carrie. how eerie to hear they have made the mother into some kind of gentle well-meaning figure.
carrie is almost explicitly about the cycles of abuse. it is almost explicitly about how women and girls are taught to reproduce the patriarchy. it cannot be isolated from either message.
it shows cruel teenagers not as a random whacky plot point but instead to highlight that we are taught to mock other girls for not being fuckable; lest we ourselves be considered not-fuckable. we will eat our own kind to survive. nobody helps her because to help carrie would be to turn against the patriarchy.
carrie's mother has experienced abuse at the hands of her husband and religion not as a "sad backstory" but instead because it lampshades her behavior when she then turns and abuses her daughter while citing that same religion. we are forced to ask the question: what is the difference between the patriarchy and religion? aren't they both systems of control? we often see mothers as being the "ultimate" in innocence and kindness - but this book challenges that narrative. abusive mothers exist, and and always have. abusive women exist and always have. white women, after all, love voting for donald trump.
men are almost absent from the book, but their presence lingers. it feels almost like the red mark made after a slap - the men do not have to be there; the women will continue to abide by the rules without question. it is a devastating, haunting condemnation of the notion of feminine fragility. it accurately asserts that women are cruel, are capable, are power-hungry - and often are hiding behind perceived innocence to mask that cruelty. the abuse carrie experiences rests in a doubled betrayal: it is because of another woman. the supposed "sisterhood" is revealed to be thin, a guise of equanimity that is only offered to the "right" type of girl/woman.
many of us were not the right type of girl.
to go back on these main and obvious themes of the book - to rewrite the mother as some caring and sad creature is... a curious choice. i can't explain it, but it feels almost like censorship to me. it refuses a deeper meaning of the book (and one that questions the patriarchy) in favor of the incredibly thin plot of "what if scary girl had scary powers." i literally don't even know what level of misogyny it is that we have to defang everyone around her in order to tell her story. i'm baffled by it.
in the era of trad wives endlessly posting abusive content of their children online - the adaptation had plenty of meat to modernize her mother. in the era of AI and revenge porn and social media - there's a huge amount of space for a competent writer to play around in. after all, if the abuse is recorded and posted to media - and as the audience we're watching it without interfering - the story is now about us. it asks us who we are comfortable bullying.
it's okay if you feel like you don't have the writing chops to talk about how many religions are abusive and tacitly enable domestic violence. it's okay if you feel like you couldn't write a believable teenage bully. it's okay if you're just interested in "scary girl has scary powers."
but maybe, i don't know, choose a different fucking story?
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How life feels knowing that Uptown Girl, Manchild, Bye Bye Bye, Mamma Mia, Feel Good Inc. and Wannabe (remake routine) are all apparently going to be in the new Just Dance game:
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Ant Lowe To Robin Hastings: Why This Change In The AGGGTM Show Was For The Greater Good
Disclaimer: This will contain spoilers for both the AGGGTM books and TV show.
I don't get why people hate that AGGGTM show changed Ant to Robin. I think it was actually one of the best changes that the show has made.
Obviously, the storyline regarding Pip's fallout with Lauren changed, but it makes more sense with the bigger role that Max has been given. In the books, Ant was just Pip's friend who was being a dick to her and Connor about Jamie's disappearance. Even before that, I found that he really didn't have a deep connection with her and was always rude, so him turning against her didn't really surprise me. I was more surprised by Lauren, because I had found her to be a fun character in book 1 and didn't really notice any discrepancies in her behaviour.
In the show, things are different. Lauren is attracted to Ant in season one (though he is not part of their friend group) but the attraction ends after Ant hooks up with Stella Chapman. Robin Hastings (Max's cousin) is then introduced in season 2 as Lauren's new love interest, which creates tension between the friend group, as Pip rightfully does not trust Robin. Lauren, however, insists that he's different and wants Pip to give him a chance.
And so she does. She tries using him to investigate into Max's whereabouts on the night Jamie disappeared, which seemingly succeeds when Max claims to Robin that he was at the golf club. However, we then find out that Max knew that Pip made Robin ask him about his whereabouts, and instructs him to steal her phone so that he can delete the recording of him confessing to Pip that he raped Becca Bell.
And Robin had the chance to refuse and tell Pip about Max, but he doesn't. He could've shown Pip that she can trust him; that he's not like Max and doesn't agree with his actions, but he ultimately chooses to help Max in destroying vital evidence that proves Max's guilt.
Ant never got moments like this - he was just a dickhead who was ghosting their friend group along with Lauren. His betrayal did hurt her, but his role in her life was just being her friend. He didn't have any connection to Max and just turned against her because the internet told him that she was a liar along with Connor.
Robin, however, was not her friend but had managed to take her close friend away from her. A lot of people tend to discredit Pip's friendship with Lauren, because Lauren ended up choosing a boy over her friends, but Pip still cared about her. She had always been there for her when she could, such as comforting her with Cara after she got broken up with in the first book, or going out with her in the middle of the night to pee in season one. Pip ultimately loves Lauren and wants the best for her. She kept trying to maintain their friendship until the fallout, because Pip just couldn't handle it anymore.
Though many will claim that Robin was unnecessary, he was needed. As the show provided more focus on Max (since the books didn't get that chance due to limited POV), having a relative of Max's invade Pip's group and steal away one of her close friends was vital in Pip's character arc. It makes her rage towards the system's injustice more evident because not only has Max been proven not guilty, but now his cousin is taunting her, showing that he was always on his side . Along with that, he has also convinced her close friend to side with him, angering Pip more when Lauren attends dinner with Max's family after the trial.
The system is unfair: that's a key message throughout the series. A rapist has just been let off and his cousin is taunting her for it. Despite all the evidence against him, all charges against Max were dismissed and he can return to a normal life, which Pip sees when passing through town with Ravi before Stanley's funeral, where Max is surrounded by others despite him being accused of rape.
In her eyes, Max will never face proper consequences because the system benefits him and fails everyone else, including her and her friends. Hawkins didn't listen to her when she said to prioritise Jamie's case and it ended in Stanley's death and her being traumatised from witnessing it. He mocks her for mourning Stanley while sitting there, surrounded by people who seemingly don't care that he's a rapist, just like how Robin didn't care.
Therefore, by providing more focus on Max in series two, it meant that Ant was not necessary for the plot but Robin was. In the book's context, Ant was needed since his role as Pip's friend was established in book one and Max's trial wasn't as prominent as the show. However, as I mentioned before, this is not the case for the TV show, so swapping him out with Robin, who is Max's cousin and has a close relationship with him, was necessary to link Pip's friend group fallout with Max and the trial.
Though Max is not physically involved himself in the fallout, Robin's insistence of his innocence ultimately contributes to it, because Robin doesn't even entertain the idea that Max is guilty unlike Max's mother, who slowly realises that Max is guilty.
After the verdict, Robin provokes her, just like how Ant did in the books. However, unlike Ant, who provoked her about her faking Jamie's disappearance, Robin is claiming that Max is innocent, which Pip knows he's not. Robin might even know it, too, since Max had wanted him to steal her phone so he could delete evidence against him. But Robin ultimately chooses his family instead of the truth - that his cousin is a rapist and the system has failed his victims. Pip imagines Max when she attacks Robin because they're no different in her eye - one is a rapist and the other is his protector. His presence triggers her and she cannot see the differences between the two, because there are no differences between them in her perspective.
We don't know Ant's opinion on the verdict, because Ant has no importance to the Max storyline. If the show had kept him, it would've struggled with connecting the storyline to Pip's friend group, because Ant ultimately contributes nothing to it.
Changing it to Robin, who is directly linked to it through his relation to Max and his insistence on his innocence, ultimately reinforces the narrative that nothing ever happens to people like Max Hastings, no matter the evidence presented against them. People like Max can ruin lives and still be supported by their family and friends, because they don't care to look past the perfect image they've created for them. It is up to the ordinary person to go against the corrupt system to ultimately bring them down.
Conclusion
People will read this and disagree with me, because despite series two being more accurate to the book than series one, it was still missing aspects like Ant. However, I believe that while Ant was needed in the books, Robin was ultimately needed for the show due to the greater focus on Max's trial.
Of course, you're free to still be upset by the change, but that opinion isn't shared on this blog. I think Robin was better for the plot and is a better written character than Ant.
Anyway, thanks for reading. Hope you all enjoyed! <3