Mags

ANYWHO. I love when I go with my gut feelings.

-The fact that you are openly toxic towards/about your spouse and people turn the other cheek — mind boggling.

1) Not just toxic towards and about their craft, that they are doing amazing at, by the way -somehow I doubt you even notice it-, by saying a performance of theirs was “not your favorite”. And if it’s because it was with another female other than you, that is beyond ugly. My irritation, however, goes further than something like this.

2) It’s also, for example, when you said that they “ruined” you getting to have the month you were born all to yourself because they have a birthday during the same month. Joking or not, I have seen your behavior toward them in public. I have also seen your behavior towards others in the circus community and your attitude overall. It is abhorrent. Childish. Whatever you want to call it or describe it as. You have made yourself feel inferior. And it’s behavior like this that makes us in the circus community and any other community in general feel unsafe. I will not go after someone’s physical appearance nor their mental or emotional states. That is something you will NEVER be able to say I have done. I WILL, however, call out toxicity and cut it out of my life. At the end of the day, you are a mean girl.

Do yourself a solid — go heal. Grow up. You really shouldn’t play the victim. It isn’t cute and you don’t do it well. You are a GROWN ADULT. ACT LIKE IT. Until then, I cannot find space in my heart to have sympathy for people like you.