PMDD Puppy

Sorry we haven’t been able to post. The people that used to run this blog have had to quit :/

If you want this to keep existing then encourage @napmdd to take it over (or if they won’t) then volunteer to take over?

As far as we know, we’re the only active (or, well, recently active) place with teen-specific PMDD resources/support/community.

Example:

Trump: “Your thighs are fat.” Me: “Fuck you and your fucking wall.”

Here are ten signs that show it’s time to let go:

1. Someone expects you to be someone you’re not – Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not.

2. A person’s actions don’t match their words – Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do. Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time.

3. You catch yourself forcing someone to love you – We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. And the end of love is not the end of life. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.

4. An intimate relationship is based strictly on physical attraction – Being beautiful outwardly shouldn’t be what defines you. Tue love see into the depth of your heart, and values the person you are inside. It loves all the things that make you unique. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.

5. Someone continuously breaks your trust – Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person you’ll automatically get one of two results - a friend for life or a lesson for life. Either way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do.

6. Someone continuously overlooks your worth – When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. Sometimes it’s better to let go of someone and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly.

7. You are never given a chance to speak your mind – Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.

8. You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance. Know when to close the account.

9. You truly dislike your current situation, routine, job, etc. – The best thing you can do in life is follow your heart. Take risks. Don’t just make the safe and easy choices because you’re afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will ever happen.

New comic! (link)

I am super noise sensitive. One of the reasons I live alone (mostly) is because I really really really need to be able to make my home silent when I need it.

I’m getting kind of bummed out seeing a lot of “I don’t want to hear my friends complain about their problems bc they’re not as serious as mine” confessions. Friendship is about supporting each other no matter how trivial or serious the problems are.

My problems don’t make my friends’ problems go away, and it makes me sad if my friends feel like they can’t discuss their problems with me because mine are worse. I WANT to hear about my friends’ lives. It puts a strain on relationships and distances friends when they can’t talk openly with each other. I hate it when my feelings and symptoms are dismissed, so I won’t ever purposely dismiss my friends’ feelings.