Soothing the anxious manifesting people among you
Hello everyone, it's me, after a really long time, your favorite blogger of all time: Evie <3
Manifestation has always been easy for me, up until I wanted to manifest specific "big" things, and I started looking into manifestation content. I soon realized that all of this has many "rules" to it, which stressed me out, made me anxious, made me overthink and over all occupied my mind constantly. Which is why today I want to go over some things that worried me constantly, which do not actually need any extensive amount of worrying.
Identities and the conflicting thoughts that cross your mind
We've all heard it: You decide you have your manifestation right this second, and from now on, you need to live in the identity of the person that has it. And that means you shall not have thoughts or identity patterns that resemble the version of you who is not having your manifestation.
This resulted in you taking this so seriously, that every time you didn't keep a close eye to your thoughts you spiraled and "gave up" or felt like you need to "start over".
I can tell you: the whole magic in manifesting is in fact only you deciding on your reality. You ARE the source of everything in your reality. Which is exactly why a little "negative" thought is not a problem.
Let's have an example: You are trying to manifest a boyfriend (Robert).
Sunday: The desired boyfriend in question is someone you are in contact with, but it's not romantic.
Monday you decided: "okay from now on I am my boyfriend's girlfriend, yay!"
Tuesday you wake up, and your first ("accidental") thought was: "I wish Robert would text me this morning" Right then and there you realize, that if you were dating you wouldn't wonder about this, so get anxious because you think that you have ruined everything because you didn't upkeep your new identity correctly.
That is when you need to realize, that since you are source, and you decided that you are dating Robert on Monday, that you are still aligned with your manifestation, and everything is fine. You are still consciously deciding to be Roberts girlfriend. The thing that happened right after you woke up, was just an old thought pattern that you trained yourself some time ago to have, and now is the first time, that you are actually disagreeing with those automatic thoughts. The fact of the matter is, that those automatic little hiccups aren't doing anything to put your manifestation in danger. What puts your manifestation in danger is the absolute indulging in those thoughts (also known as identifying).
Lets have another example to show you what I mean by that:
It's Tuesday, and after your little realizing-moment this morning you reminded yourself, that you already chose to be Roberts girlfriend so that little innocent thought is irrelevant, because you are source and what you say goes.
Later that day you go to School, and you see Robert talking to some cheerleader. This Person seems to be more attractive than you are (in your eyes!!!). Automatically that triggers you. You think "Shit this hurts to witness!" You spend the rest of the day ruining your feeling of self esteem over this situation, and constructing plans on how to win him over after all.
Your reaction to the 3D was not the bad part here. There are people on this platform teaching you that this shouldn't bother you or that you should "ignore it". And they aren't wrong, but what they mean is not that you aren't allowed to feel hurt by witnessing "negative" illusions form the 3D. What they mean is that you can't indulge in an entire pity party over this and make plans on how to conquer this man. That is the moment where you take on the identity of someone who is only trying to be his girlfriend. This is not the identity of someone who is recognizing that they are source, and that their decision on being Roberts girlfriend is still standing.
You are absolutely allowed to feel feelings. But whenever you witness unwanted situations don‘t take them on as real. Don't take them on as final. Don't treat the 3D like something that has power over you in deciding whether something is reality or not.
✰ you are the factor that decides wether something is real or not. The 3D is literally bound to your decisions.
✰ treat every "difficult" situation like someone who knows the outcome of a movie, before the plot twist has been shown on screen. Yes what you might witness right this second is ass, but you know it's not the final product.
✰ Thoughts are as meaningless as can be. The moment you take on a new identity, you basically need to reteach yourself new thinking patterns, that are gonna be a 180° Version from what they have been the past decade. That's HARD. Don‘t give into the illusion that those autopilot thoughts matter in any way shape or form. That being said: DO NOT BELIEVE THOSE THOUGHTS EITHER. I know it's awfully tempting, but that's the exact opposite of what you want to identify as.
✰ and lastly: don‘t play a pretend-game. When I didn't understand the whole identity thing, I thought I was supposed to pretend to be the person I was wanting to be. You CAN do that as a technique I suppose, but this whole pretending situation is not what manifestation is. You actively and knowingly PRETEND to be your desired self, is you actively saying I am fully not what I desire to be, which is why I need to pretend and act like I have it.
Manifestation is effortless. Why am I saying this after all the worries and overthinking spirals I have had regarding manifestation? Because all it takes is the conviction in the fact, that your decision is impactful on your 3D. And this fully includes, not letting time getting the better of you. That's where persistence comes into play. Your decision has finalized the manifestation the second you decided on it. All of your old decisions playing out in the 3D do not interfere with your desire, unless you erase your decision because of it. If your Sunday-decision, that you are not Roberts girlfriend, is playing out on Tuesday in the form of him talking to that cheerleader, nothing forces you to then erase your girlfriend decision from Monday, because that one was going to play out on lets say Friday, which you won't experience anymore, because on Tuesday you decided to go back on your decision.
Your job is to stay confident in the fact that only you hold the power to decide over reality. The 3D is literally forced to obey your decisions. It can't betray your ass. Stop letting your past identity gain back your attention.