musings and miscellany

He looks so proud of it

*sharing this truth tea*

Her face says everything

!!!!!!

I work in hotels/resorts, and honestly, take the little shampoos and soaps! We throw them away when you leave (we don’t know if you’ve opened them and messed with them or whatever, so for health and safety it all goes in the trash) If you stay at the fancier places or chains, they’ve actually done some bit of thought into the scents for the toiletries, in that if you use them while at home you’ll remember the time you stayed at the hotel and be more likely to return. Just don’t take the towels or the robes or any of that shit, it’s expensive.

This is true, all soaps, shampoos, and the like are tossed after a guest checks out of the hotel even if it’s clearly unopened because it is considered a health hazard violation in most places if they’re left there. If someone were to somehow get sick from it, a hotel can be shut down. Just take the toiletries, they’re ordered in bulk as is and only cost the hotel a few dollars to order them by the hundreds

And even if you don’t use them, you can donate them to your local homeless shelter or other similar charity and give someone something they could use that would otherwise go to waste.

PLEASE TAKE THE SOAPS. PLEASE DONATE THE SOAPS. It’s one of the biggest requests shelters/supply banks get. You want to make their fucking day? Show up with socks, undies, diapers, and toiletries.

And here I am not taking them to avoid being wasteful.

And here I was not wanting to steal things from the hotels. The more you know.

Reblogging again because I didn’t even think about donating them to charity. I figured they were too small to be useful, but they would be perfect for shelters and the like.

I like how this check list also assumes that you’d probably forget your kids if not reminded by a check list.

reblogging for the comments

@cat-pun

Power

Is that an accurate translation?

Actually, a better translation would be “just divorced the son of a dog” (supposed to be an insult towards the guy and his father) lmao but yes it’s accurate.

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awesome. also a really great example of how the hijab, or in this case the niqab, is not what we should be focusing on when we talk about female empowerment in majority Muslim countries. 

I found it! My life is COMPLETE

I need this!

Okay but there is also a FUCK TRUMP one I am dead 

I have reblogged this so many times but now theres a fuck trump one

It’s like it was made just for me 🙌

This is precious and exactly what we all need.

I think I might have broken my finger reblogging this. 

EVERYONE TAKE A MINUTE TO JUST APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT DONALD GLOVER EXISTS AND KNOWS WHAT THE FUCK IS UP

*slams reblog so fast*

“You are Doing Capitalism Wrong and it scares me” - bitter Boomers to Millennials who are not buying into their shit (or buying their shit)

Keep in mind that the subprime mortgage crisis was at a pretty pivotal time in Millenial’s lives, and taught them that financial institutions are not on your side, will lie to you, and specifically will lie to you about what you can afford. Like, this isn’t coming from nowhere.

I mean boomers refuse to pay a living wage to anyone and then wonder why those people don’t buy anything? I am sorry but what exactly is the disconnect here?

I reblog this every single time it shows up on my dash

rant incoming in 5… 4… 3… 2… 1… ”…bitter Boomers to Millennials…”   Okay, but Gen X also ex- ”… subprime mortgage crisis was at a pretty pivotal time in Millenial’s lives…” Yes but hi Gen X als- “Millennials are also the first generation since the internet was a prominent thing to utilize it as a source of information in a way that is empowering for each other.“ OKAY LISTEN UP IF YOU WANT TO BE NOT-LIKE BOOMERS HOW ABOUT STARTING WITH BEING DIFFERENT BY REMEMBERING THAT GENERATION X ALSO EXISTS IN THE GAP BETWEEN Y’ALL THERE. OUR OWN FUCKING PARENTS TEND TO FORGET WE EXIST AND WE DON’T NEED THAT SHIT FROM Y’ALL YOUNG WHIPPERSNAPPERS ON TOP OF IT. Hi, now that I have your attention, please remember that consumerism is not a “traditional economy” or “traditional value”. Modern capitalist consumerism is a product of the peri- and post-WWII economic “boom” that started with a wartime economy rescuing the nation from the Great Depression in the US (FDR tried, but the war was what succeeded!) and ended with a frantic scramble to keep the effect going. Remember, “Baby Boomers” are called that because they were born in the “Baby Boom” – the population explosion – that resulted in part from soldiers returning home and moreso from US national optimism after winning the war and re-establishing prosperity to an unprecedented degree, at least as far as the middle class was concerned. They were born into an almost feverish economy based on everyone buying as much as possible as an act of patriotism. That’s what they were taught was virtuous – buying at the edge of your ability to keep the economy strong for everyone. It started out as a collectivist idea. They aren’t pushing that because they’re selfish monsters or the villains in the latest DC Comics movie adaptation. They were raised to genuinely think the economy will collapse if everyone doesn’t spend money, even on things they don’t necessarily need and can’t necessarily afford. They couch this in the “responsible spending” language they inherited from their own parents, but when it comes down to it, the actual attitude they inherited was a fear that if everyone stops spending, the economy will collapse – and that a freely-spending, ambitious, thriving middle class is what will keep the nation from sliding back into another depression. They tend to resolve this conflict between words and attitudes by pushing the purchase of large, lasting things that preserve or can create their own value, like property or family businesses – the things that got their parents through the Great Depression intact, if that happened – rather than things that didn’t exist when they were younger. They lived through their twenties without a cell phone but managed to buy a house, so cognitive dissonance between “buy ALL the things!” and “buy only the right things, the responsible things” finds an easy out with quick-fixes like “Maybe if you didn’t buy a new cell phone every three years (like I didn’t) you could afford a house (like I did).” Before the Boomers, the “virtuous” economic attitude was “use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without” – an attitude strikingly at odds with buying a new $600 cell phone every two or three years. (Not that I judge anyone for the latter; “planned obsolescence”, or the deliberate tactic of making sure that customers who buy your product will need a new one in a few years in order to ensure more-frequent purchases, is also a real thing and a major factor that Gen X and Millennials must take into account in our budgets that our parents – Boomers and Silent Generation alike – tend to find baffling and irresponsible.) But the Boomers outnumber the generations before and after them so dramatically – 77 million Boomers, an estimated 50 million Silent Generation (Boomers’ parents), and 65 million Generation X (Boomer’s children, also called “Baby Busters” because of the decline in birthrate at the beginning of our cohort) – that they basically outshout everyone else. More than three of them to every two of their parents gave them the megaphone to tell everyone what the world was really like, and more than one-to-one of them to their children let them tell their kids that was how the world has always been. So they told Gen X that this was the way the world had always been, and since they were running the classrooms, Gen X had to believe it – at least long enough to fill in the right bubble on the Scantron – and then find out the truth for ourselves. The truth about how the wartime economy never ended, it just became entrenched as the military-industrial complex instead; the truth about how slavery never ended, it just moved from plantations to prisons; the truth about how our Boomer parents’ entire economic ideology of equal opportunity for equal work is still based, at its root, on colonialism and feudalism and is just the same socioeconomic elitism of the past dressed up in The Emperor’s New Economy. Which is why it is so damned depressing to watch an entire generation following mine forget that we’re here, that we’ve been where you are, that we’re still where you are, and we might have a few things to say about that. Gen X is, depending on who you believe regarding generational divisions, anywhere from our mid-30s to our mid-50s. We’re in the same shit economy. Lots of us are still living with our parents, or have had to move back in with our parents, and take the same flak for that Millennials take – with an extra dose of “I can understand it from those kids these days, but at your age?” We can’t afford to buy or insure new cars and can’t afford to fix or even buy used ones. We take the bus to work in a car-only town and tell our parents it’s just more convenient, it’s so we can catch up on our reading, rather than admit our car got a flat a month ago and was towed before we could get a replacement used tire on it and now we can’t afford the impoundment fees, because our Boomer parents have never been interested in our explanations of how the world works differently now and are honestly getting too old to explain new things to sometimes anyway these days. We’ve been yelling at Boomers for so long my class song was literally one big “fuck you, we aren’t the ones who fucked this shit up to start with and now we have to clean up your mess while you yell at us for its existence in a world you screwed up beyond your ability to understand how it even works any more” no-love-your-kids song to the Baby Boomers. WE MIGHT BE A USEFUL FUCKING RESOURCE. So let’s start with this: there is nothing wrong with not buying. There is nothing wrong with you for being unable to buy things. There is nothing wrong with being unwilling to buy things you don’t need. There is nothing wrong with being willing to buy things you don’t need, if that’s what gets you through another day in the Boomers’ meat-grinder, still churning out comfort for them and shame-and-blame for everyone younger who doesn’t produce enough to ease their retirement years like their parents’ pensions used to do. (You young’uns remember pensions? Maybe not; the Boomers did away with those.) Look, of all the things I love about Millennials – and there’s plenty! – one of my very favorites is the insistence on good information. Even current events aside, Millennials have a delightful tendency to want primary sources, hard numbers, apples-to-apples comparisons. In a time when schools have decided to phase out critical thinking as “unnecessary”, y’all are teaching yourselves what ought to have been offered to you. In a time when schoolbooks call kidnapped slaves “immigrant workers”, y’all are refusing to accept bullshit revisionist history. In high school in the 1980s/90s, I had to deal with 10-minute made-for-classrooms “educational digest” TV shows sponsored by petroleum companies and feeding us a carefully preblended pabulum of “Kuwait is a sister-democracy we owe support and liberation!” (Sure, it was a one-citizen, one-vote “democracy”, but citizens had to be male, Arabic-speaking Muslim property-owning men and made up less than 1/3 of the population – that was a lot harder to find out from the library than from the Internet just 5 years later!) Now, your kids are staring down the barrel of Shell Oil Elementary School and Texaco High. I don’t think they’re going to get a less-biased education than I did. And who will that education serve? It’s not going to be the Gen X retirees no longer served by the soon-defunded and -defunct Social Security payments of those kids, our grandkids. It will be the estates, legacies, and heirs of the same Boomers who made bank on my graduating class, eagerly enlisting in 1991 to go “protect democracy!!1~!” in the Middle East. So three more bits of advice: * Resist the revisionists. Demand accurate information, unbiased analysis, creative synthesis. Demand education in any and all forms that can be trusted. Demand it for everyone. Demand it for your kids, so young their cohort is just placeholdered “Generation Z”. Demand it for your parents, who are about as likely to be Gen X as Boomers and still flailing in the toxic pigslop we were fed when schools were still trying to be all covert about it. Demand it for Boomers, who can still be rehabilitated! Education is the fundamental truly-democratizing service. Insist on science. Insist on history. Insist on fine arts. Refuse the idea that all you and/or your kids need to know is how to graduate from Cola High School trained for a job in a bottling plant. * Resist ageism. I know it’s easy to gripe about “everyone over $age” – hell, it’s pretty much the original human hobby! – but those over-40s I see people complaining about are not Boomers. Over-40 was a Boomer when I was in my 20s. It’s Gen X now. And we didn’t start this motherfucking fire, yo. It was always burnin’, since the world’s been turnin’. But daaaaayum if the Boomers didn’t go and throw a bunch of used tires in that Dumpster and then piss gasoline all over it. No, we didn’t light it, but we’re tryna fight it. Refer to the first bullet point; I see people blaming Reagan’s (1981) policies on people who were still too young to vote against Bush 41 (1989)! Make sure your history is sound before you point fingers, please. Someone who’s 55 right now might have been just barely old enough to vote in Reagan vs. Carter – but if they were 18 that year, the plurality of their age group voted for a second Carter term and that age group voted Carter in larger numbers than any other age group. See also the quote, “Millennials are also the first generation since the internet was a prominent thing to utilize it as a source of information in a way that is empowering for each other.“ You aren’t, actually; you’re the second. But that’s okay; Gen X is fucking well used to being forgotten-about and credit for our shit handed off to others by now; we’ve been losing that game for 40-odd years, on average. The point is that this is a great time to embody that and learn to look your shit up, not because it hurts Gen X’s feelings to be blamed for this shit (okay, it does – see 40-odd years &c. – except we’ll never admit it, because we feel like we should be used to it now; see again that 40-odd years &c… but also, erasure: not cool, let’s not do it to 65 million people please) but because working off inaccurate information leads to unwanted results. You’ll be more effective talking about the long-term effects of Reagan’s policies if you recognize when you’re talking to someone who witnessed it firsthand – even came of age during it – as the Reagan/Bush juggernaut we were powerless to stop, both by age and by numbers. Remember that 76mil to 65mil outnumbering? While Gen X was just coming of voting age, all the Boomers were already at the polls. I don’t get to talk to people very often about watching the rise of the Religious Right crusaders and the courtship between social conservatism, Christianity, racism, and political power because my friends tend to either forget that I’m not a Boomer or forget that I’m old enough to have been watching the roots of this happening in realtime when I was in middle school and junior high. (I artificially pepper my language with words like “young’uns” and “whippersnappers” to remind people of this, because otherwise I’m assumed to be a Millennial retrospectively hypothesizing about events I was there for, just because I’m clearly not a Boomer.) What’s happening now is an outgrowth – arguably, the intended result – of things that happened when Boomers were the age Gen X is now. Use our living memories.  * Remember we outnumber them. Hell, you alone outnumber them; there’s some 80+ million of you. You got this – just barely – by the numbers. But not by socioeconomic power; they’re still enacting policies to make sure they keep as much of that as possible for themselves and bar you from it even more than they did to us – they don’t outnumber you, so they’re going to undereducate you, underemploy and overwork you, and then tell you that you should be grateful for it all because you’re just too lazy to get anywhere more secure in life. (Want to know how I know their playbook? Let’s play “Ask a Gen Xer”!) But between Millennials and Gen X together, we outnumber their original birth rate by 2-to-1, and there are (to put it gently) fewer of them in fighting trim every year. We outnumber them. We can outvote them. Gen X alone fought a losing battle against an overwhelming force; together, our cohorts can put the Boomers in the position we’ve all occupied for far too long… our whole lives. Just, you know. Remember we exist first, okay? That’s a good place to start.

also!!! just because i don’t understand something well enough to explain it in sparkling detail doesn’t mean it isn’t real!!! THATS WHY THEY INVENTED SCIENTISTS

Ace parents exist?! And are happy?! I feel so much better!! I never hear about happy settled grownup ace people!

Ace people can start a family and have children! Here it is from one child! Keep your head up, you aren’t doomed. You are perfect the way you are and you can start a family, if you want, there is someone out there.