I try to keep a fair balance of originals and reblogs. Common tags: "originals" (writing/poetry, jokes, and occasionally reblogs where I added something), "tag talk" for original tags, "sourced" for sources linked, "resources" for any link, "helpful" (try in combo with resources), "important", "described" when a post has Any accessibility description, fandom/topic tags, and my favorite- "incorrect lyrics".
Interests: music (genre agnostic), cosplay, art, archiving, activism, and punk culture.
I dont post anything genuinely Not Safe For Work (could get someone in trouble at just a glance) but if you want to be extra safe I recommend turning off "suggest posts liked by blogs you follow" in your dash preferences settings. I tag anything borderline as "nsfw" just in case, except for sex ed which is tagged "sex ed".
I need Trigger Warnings, and tone indicators are greatly appreciated! If you reblog from me the TWs should be right there in the tags, PLEASE use them! No DNI I block who I want and why I want. Dont ask me why I blocked someone I dont remember!
If I have a reason for doing something Ill just tell you, so assume genuine intent. Also I dont tag organize any of those rules type posts but Im super chill! You can spam like, like old posts, talk to me, rb personal posts, etc. If I dont want something reblogged I would just turn reblogs off, otherwise I specify things like "do not tag" which means no maintags but your individual organization tags are fine!
Cosplay/alt fashion accounts:
instagram
tiktok (currently deleted off my phone for safety)
*https://en.pronouns.page/@mack.n.chees3 and both the above links are also typed out there to avoid spoofing.
Banner and Profile Picture IDs:
Banner ID: the ace flag (black, grey, white, and deep purple stripes from top to bottom) overlaid with the word "No" in all caps. The text is made of and underlined with orangey flames /end 1.
Pfp ID: half the ace flag (black, grey, white, deep purple, and an extra black stripe top to bottom) and half the trans flag (pastel blue, pastel pink, white, pastel pink, and pastel blue top to bottom) split vertically. Overlaid are the words "Respect my existence or expect my resistance" in all caps, in either black or white depending on the color contrast with the background /end 2.
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Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).
A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
It's also important for us cis allies to show up and support our trans community members, so think about joining this if you're able no matter your gender identity.
I'm not going to be able to go, but I do have some experience with lobbying my various MPs over the years, so here's some quick advice off the top of my head:
If you're resident in the UK but not a citizen you still have the right to go to Parliament and be seen by your MP.
If you don't know who your MP is you can look it up by putting your postcode into the Find My MP page on Parliament's website (pro tip if you are a uni student, check your MP for both your family home and your uni, one may be a better option for lobbying than the other, you may even be able to Green Card both of them, but I don't know if that's possible, ask on the desk when you ask for the card).
And everyone needs to remember that while officially you're not required to show photo ID to get into Parliament the official guidance from the House of Commons is "you don't need photo ID to get in but we suggest you bring it anyway" (which is just unhelpful)
You will also be required to pass through airport style security which obviously may be a stressful experience for some of the people taking part in the mass lobby. That can take anywhere up to half an hour, the staff are usually pretty nice, but the entry into the security check is a sloped metal ramp with zero shade and nowhere to lean or sit so plan accordingly.
If your MP is not in the building to come and meet you they are required to respond to your Green Card as soon as possible via the contact details you put on your Green Card. While meeting them in person is the ideal you will get a response so it will be worth it even if your MP is unavailable.
Have a safe, productive lobby! Proud of all of you who can go and support the cause.
Yes! This is also a good point! MPs are traditionally expected to spend their Fridays in their constituency and to hold regular opportunities for you to meet with them to discuss issues. This is called a constituency surgery. If you are unable to make it to London you can look up when your MP is holding their next surgery and make an appointment to see them in your home town to discuss it there. Maybe even reach out to local pride groups in your area and do a local mass lobby of your MP in order to show them this is an issue that matters in your area too.
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SHARING THIS BECAUSE MORE PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW AND MY MIND IS ABSOLUTELY BLOWN
OK SO DARE BY GORILLAZ (FEAT SHAUN RYDER) ALSO FEATURES ROSES GABOR AS NOODLE'S SINGING VOICE!! NOODLE IS VOICED BY A BLACK SINGER!!! ???? THIS IS FUCKING AWESOME! i feel like so many more people needed to know and I NEEDED TO SHARE THIS WITH SOMEONE
I admit I like one song by Gorillaz and am only familiar with Russel. I do not know who everyone else is 😭 but I'm happy for you!
ID / TL;DW: young Black man explains the history of voodoo dolls: they originated in England, where Black people where prohibited from learning to read or write, to help witches keep track of what ailed their patients. Eg., person goes to witch and laments headache, they treat their headache and make a small doll (called "poppet"), trying to represent them as good as possible, stick a needle in its head and put it up a shelf. When they return next week, the witch takes their poppet and asks about their headache. If it's gone, they remove the needle, otherwise they know they have to treat a rather persistent headache.
yeah there's examples of English poppets at the Boscastle museum of witchcraft! they have a good collection although sadly not as cool as before it flooded
i know this is me being an evil fickle bitch but if you're on instagram posting coffee recipes that don't taste good if you're not using nescafe you are not a cute little coffee account you are a vessel for human rights violations
im currently negative and would be welcome to help getting back to, at least, a zero balance. hoping this job lead ive applied to works out soon since i know someone who already works there 🤞🏽:
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Chip in to "Laid Off Job & Lost Grandma In The Same Month" until Jun 1, 2026
thank you to everyone who shared and donated to help me pay that 80% discount on my debt from a years old loan i took out to pay rent at my first apt!
in the interim of me still looking for work and dealing with chronic health issues, id appreciate any continuing support in raising money to pay rent for this month ❤️🔥
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Help a Black disabled trans couple thrive for Pride Month
happy pride edition of this post lol. wont bog down the post explaining our situation, but we still need consistent help affording all our living expenses. my wife works but her job pays shit and i am trying to find work to no avail. i have the usual pay apps, as does my wife. we also have other options (like our patreon for monthly bills) and our registry if u wanna support that way. please consider helping make two struggling black queer folks' lives easier this pride month 🩷
have not been able to update in like a week due to being very busy and then very very ill. we still aren't even at halfway, please please contribute if you can 🙏🏼. im also in the red from paying for stuff to prep for potential job interviews, and need to be able to eat this week. anything folks can spare helps.
Hey, you are not an embarrassment for not knowing how to do certain household chores/basic self-care. They do not come naturally to us. A lot of it takes practice! Maybe you had a neglectful guardian. Maybe you had one that was very coddling and never thought to teach you. Maybe you haven't lived in a place where these things were available to you or needed. Doesn't matter. It's okay to not know and far more common than you might realise.
That said, this website provides very simple instructions on how to do everyday tasks such as making your bed, using a washing machine, cooking different foods, washing dishes, taking a shower, etc. All you have to do is use the search bar to find the task you're struggling with, and it'll come up with what you need + other related how-to's:)
If you're having trouble navigating it, let me provide you with some examples:
How to clean dishes by hand
How to make your bed (with visual demonstrations of each step!)
How to fold clothes (with visual demonstrations of each step!)
How to take a shower & dry yourself off (also provides ways to shave beards, armpits, legs and genitals)
How to shave legs, armpits, beards, pubic areas, etc. (a more in-depth guide)
How to mop the floor
How to sweep the floor
How to swallow pills
How to make small talk
How to make eye contact in different situations (or how to avoid it while still looking natural)
It's also perfectly okay if these don't help or aren't appealing to you. Unfortunately, nothing helps everyone.
Also if the reason you don't know is developmental , intelectual or learning disabilities making you struggle even if you've been taught a bunch of times , you are so cool and awesome too :^) [smiley face ]
Ive shared multiple posts about how to caption that I dont want to bog down but I just saw incorrect (clearly auto transcribed not typos) captions baked into the video. Putting in your own pre-written captions is so uncommon I feel like people would definitely just assume theyre proofread and then get confused/not get the full meaning of the video...
Hello and good Day Mr and Mrs CBC!! Ive been starting to follow this Black youtuber recently, and two days ago he was victim of a hate crime, so i wanted to share his gofund.me in hopes this reaches more people who might be able to donate, thank you for your time!! (heads up as there are pictures of injures) https://gofund.me/6361cd53b
Hello all, my name is Ceros.
I've been going through some insanely rough… Ceros Whaley needs your support for Support Ceros After Ca
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Thank you for wanting to help! This means so much for me! It's hard being a black trans man in Florida rn 😭😭
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Don't forget to donate to my gofundme me to support me! 🌈Help a homeless disabled trans man this pride month 🌈
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For those who wanted to see more platformed Black trans men and their needs this month- here's your chance to put your money where your mouth is! Benji needs help!
