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Alex Haahaard (they/them) on twitter:
"at some point we should probably have a conversation about how the normalization and glorification of physical exhaustion during medical training contributes to producing deeply ableist doctors.
Like a) it makes the field completely inaccessible to many disabled people whose knowledge is deeply needed there and b) it supports a deeply f*cked up worldview in which pain and fatigue are things you can and should "just push through"
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this has been said before but can y’all stop saying “women and nonbinary people” when you really mean “people i see as basically women”
if you say “women and nonbinary people” consider if masculine nonbinary people or AMAB nonbinary people are included in your definition. if they aren’t, maybe don’t say that. there’s more to the nonbinary identity than just being a skinny white androgynous afab who uses they/them pronouns
i forgot to say this but if you aren’t nb i don’t wanna hear ur hot take on this subject
Before white people decided to use the pejorative “Karen” despite being a bunch of Karens, Beckys, Tims, and Chads, we had so much momentum in destroying businesses run by bigots. Now white women are calling people of color Karens for speaking up for themselves. There were so many examples of waiters ignoring Black customers assuming they won’t tip, auto shops and car dealerships trying to take advantage of women on the assumption that they know nothing of cars, and bakeries refusing to make cakes for gay weddings. We don’t talk about these things anymore. Why? Because somehow y’all took a term that meant RACIST and made it into “a tough customer”. This is why we never get anywhere as a society.
So many TV shows/movies depict the Epi Pen as a total solution for anaphylaxis...it's not. The Epi Pen gives you 30 minutes to get to a hospital where they can save your life. TV makes it look like you just have to use the Epi Pen and then the crisis is over. Do people without allergies or a loved one with allergies know that an Epi Pen only buys you time? The more I see this on TV the more I worry...
**Maybe you should reblog this because I'm actually worried that most people don't know.
The more lesbian literature you read and the more authors you become familiar with, the more you’ll be able to see just how many of them are completely unacceptable to terfs, swerfs, and all of the other ghoulish bottomfeeders that have been flapping around since time immemorial, and just how much lesbian art and history they have to cauterize and denigrate in order to build their shitty little sandcastles.
Joan Nestle, founder of the Lesbian Herstory Archives? Unacceptable. Adores trans people, trans expression, let trans women join the archives, did so much writing on lesbian as a third sex, goes into raptures when she describes the first time she heard Leslie Feinberg speak. Leslie hirself? Anathema. No one thought terfs were more full of shit than hir. Ze went to bat for Cece McDonald until hir dying day. Judy Grahn, dyke poet laureate, who wrote that being transgender was the beginning of “a vast evolutionary step”? Get out of here, traitor. Willyce Kim, the first Asian lesbian poet to be published in the US, with her glorious, punchy, powerful, genitally dubious erotica centered on the sacred history of sex workers in the lesbian world? Setting a bad example; traitor. Minnie Bruce Pratt? Delusional traitor. Ivan Coyote? Became a traitor as soon as they decided they were no longer comfortable with going by she. Jewelle Gomez, author and director of the Horizons Foundation? Traitor. Stormè Weber, two-spirit poet and professor? Barbara Smith, who fought to include minority sexualities when the mainstream gay and lesbian movement left them behind? Guess.
And I love that long quote I found from Joan Nestle about Dworkin, it says it all:
“I think many of the women who turned into sex thought-police were truly concerned about violence against women, and had their own horrible experiences: a very deeply experienced vulnerability and a frustration with how to make this culture responsive to the well-being of women. Those are their best motives. But I think they took the wrong way. I think that what came in there was perhaps a lack of exposure to other sexual energies, to other sexual ways of being. And there were some women who just are fervent, who are arrogant in their sense that they think they know how to protect women. I'm thinking of women who make careers out of stimulating an anger we all feel, and that anger and that pain is where they've decided to make their culture. And I've decided to make a culture out of another side of it, which is sexual exploration and celebration. And I think both sides are needed. I felt the censorship coming from their side, not from my side. Andrea Dworkin's books are all in the Archives. I would never say, 'Keep her books off the shelf.' But they would say, 'Keep Joan's books off the shelves.'"
*Storme Webber
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there is no part of the terf ideology that has anything to do with ace discourse. literally none at all. if you think it does then you fundamentally misunderstand what terf means and you are beyond help. stop watering down the issue of transmisogyny. trans women are enough to fight for, we are enough to grieve for, and our problems are enough to stand up for on their own, so it makes absolutely no goddamn sense to make the issue about an entirely unrelated topic bc you can’t muster up the empathy for us to not twist the discussion around your internet arguments. tme ppl can and will reblog just keep your mouth shut for once
Managing livestock populations demands that the farmer impose gender on the animal population they oversee, by segregating groups based on their age and secondary sexual characteristics, through castration and sequestration, etc...
The relationship between gender and animal domestication really needs to be further theorized.
ppl. need to understand that spreading misinformation is still bad. even if it is misinformation which aligns with your politics.
& also especially need to understand that someone correcting misinfo that aligns with your politics doesn't mean that they disagree w your politics! assuming that only people on the 'other side' would want to correct misinformation that aligns with your worldview just helps misinfo proliferate.
We really do live in a society lads
[ID: A Twitter thread posted September 17, 2020, the name and icon blocked out. The thread reads, "One of my autistic kids walked in and was like 'Huh, I just thought of this, so I haven't thought this through, but the behaviors most associated with autism are things autistic people do when we're upset.' Not great society. She described a situation in which neurotypical were asking autistic adults questions and some parents were like, 'My kid doesn't have meltdowns. Does that mean he isn't autistic?' and autistic people were like, 'No, that means he's happy.'" They quote retweet another user who's name is also blocked out, saying, "Just want to highlight this" followed by a colon. The quoted tweet reads, "we can't distinguish autistic behavior from trauma because our current society produces no un-traumatized autistic people." /end ID]
This still blows my mind
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but why is it that when people talk about internalized misogyny it’s always girls who hate on girls who are super feminine and never girls who mock other girls for not wearing makeup or having visible body hair? i dont think girls who think they’re not like most girls are the #1 enforcers of patriarchy
right bc the first happens a lot online but girls like the latter come out in droves irl. esp the body hair thing like, I’ve never been anywhere where that would be acceptable around other women. even without the presence of men
yeah, very true. imo girls who distance themselves from other girls and think they’re better than them for not being girly are mostly harming themselves because it builds an identity on isolating away from other girls their age ; but they’re not bullying, mocking, and harassing specific girls in real life. no girl has ever been ostracized by her popular gnc classmates for liking glitter nailpolish, but i remember little girls as early as elementary school being ruthlessly mocked in locker rooms for having visible body hair. and we cant ignore that a huge thing that can lead a young girl to feeling “not like other girls” is… being ostracized by other girls in the first place. no one should look down on young girls no matter what they wear or like, but we shouldnt make girls who dont like feminity and feel alone and alienated from their peers the face of misogyny
The amab nonbinary experience is as varied as the afab one. Amab nonbinary people can be any gender, any orientation, any race. They might be transfem, or they might not. They can use he, she, they, or any other pronouns. They can be anything. Make them feel at home in nonbinary spaces because nonbinary spaces are their homes! They are our community, our family. Respect and accept them like you would anyone else.
part of what distinguishes bi women in relationships with men from straight women is that bi women are still vulnerable to homophobia & biphobia even when in relationship w men and that (abusive straight) men will absolutely use that against their girlfriends and that’s something that straight society absolutely does not want to acknowledge or deal with, meaning that bi women in relationships with men absolutely need to be able to fall back on other wlw and the lgbt community in general
all sexualities are inherently inclusive of trans and nonbinary people. its just that cis people arent inherently inclusive of trans and nonbinary people in anything
A child free from the guilt of ownership and the burden of economic competition will grow up with the will to do what needs doing and the capacity for joy in doing it. It is useless work that darkens the heart. The delight of the nursing mother, of the scholar, of the successful hunter, of the good cook, of the skillful maker, of anyone doing needed work and doing it well—this durable joy is perhaps the deepest source of human affection, and of sociality as a whole.
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"Age is just a number. Life and aging are the greatest gifts that we could possibly ever have"
“Whatever good I have accomplished as an actress I believe came in direct proportion to my efforts to portray black women who have made positive contributions to my heritage."
“I am not a quitter. I will fight until I drop. It is just a matter of having some faith in the fact that as long as you are able to draw breath in the universe, you have a chance.”
Rest in Power, Ms. Tyson.
TERFs might say they hate men but they’d don’t. TERFs aren’t even misandrists. When they say men, or males, they specifically are dogwhistling about transgender women. They’re completely fine with men using their ideology as an excuse for violence towards transgender women. They’re completely fine with supporting and working with horrifically misogynistic right wing men as long as they express extreme transmisogyny. They’re perfectly fine with recruiting trans men and working with anti-feminist transmedicalists. They’re completely fine with working with transphobic cis gay men who say vile shit about trans men that they should consider violently misogynistic according to their ideology. TERF ideology is centered against transgender women and transgender women are the primary victims of their ideology.
These are people mostly have no political ideology other than obsessively, constantly, and exclusively posting about transgender women online. Literally everything they say is either a dogswhistle about transgender women or an excuse to to talk about transgender women. Most TERFs are not marxists, socialists, anarchists, or any other kind of radical. Even if they say they are, literally all they ever fucking post about and write about is transgender women.
