A very nice part of being a fairly strong lady is getting to physically pick up other women
DOUBLY SO FOR TALL GIRLS. I can't believe I forgot to mention this. It is SO important that you make them feel light and small and cared for, okay?
30 year old therian dog lady who loves cuddles but feels too big for them? Lift her up held against your chest like she's still a puppy. Tall self conscious tgirl who thinks her height makes her monstrous? You need to toss her over your shoulder and make her feel weak and little and safe as you take her back to your room. Big *scary* lesbian that isn't used to being warmly loved? Hug her, and when you do, lift her up and bear her weight. Bring her higher, because she is the sun.
I met this really cute 6'4 (probably an egg) friend of a friend recently who was wearing a dress for the first time. beautiful dress, beautiful makeup, shy but smiling. We were at a party with a little photo spot we had hastily set up earlier since everyone was dolled up nice, and I convinced them to take some pictures with me. For the last one, I asked if they would let me put them in a bridal carry and they said that would be fun. It wasn't easy but I got them off the ground and we had a friend take our picture. After that, they got a bit shy and then a couple of minutes later, they timidly asked me how I knew I was trans. They asked what it was like, and if it was scary, and how people reacted. Those were the same questions I would have asked 3 years ago. It really touched my heart. Be the change you want to see. Go lift women.
