A real Dong Juan

Noir princesses are my actual kink. 

cant believe the back of my hand isnt being absentmindedly caressed by the love of my life right now .. can I talk to the manager

the act of sex shouldnt be so traumatic that i need aftercare to decompress from the experience. like not to kinkshame but seek therapy

S E E K T H E R A P Y

I mean it’s still kink shaming though? It’s only traumatic if you’re using bdsm as a bad coping mechanism. For those who aren’t abuse victims as is the common stereotype and just like social taboo kinks,it’s more of coming down from a high. And reassuring that you’re not some whore to roll over but a partner and respecting with cuddles and whatever else. I personally prefer a good pillow fight. 🤷🏿‍♀️ the afternoon of sex should be whatever you want it to be as long as it’s safe and consensual. Whether that be vanilla or kink

Also when it comes to BDSM, aftercare is actually essential to bring your system down after going through so much stress. It’s not trauma, it’s more like adrenaline running high. What is this bullshit way of thinking. 

Yo deadass I know I’m grouchy cuz I just woke up and I’m ultra sensitive but does anyone else ever feel like people aren’t listening? Like they’re just telling you what you wanna hear so you’ll shut up? Like they’ll say something and there’s no emotion behind it? It makes me feel so cheap

Like if you regurgitate an apology word for word, did you really understand the hurt?

Sometimes people really out here to make themselves feel better and it shows

someone took the raw concept of a redditor and distilled it into a vape to create this

This is not a pipe

Jallpaper

@dongjuan everytime I think we’ve reach the end of horrible jideas, the world surprises me once again.