Holy Lesbophobia Batman!

Hip new idea: not hating lesbians by default until we prove our goodness and instead viewing us as individual human beings and judging each person for their individual actions and values

this is a post about gay sex

oh….those tags…ow. ok. guess we’ll stay in our ace corner. doing our ace culture thing. and never feel  comfortable to input ever again. 

good thanks

“ace culture”

Ace culture is thinking anyone asked

Piss???? The hell???? Off???? Let ace people have their historical figures and stop trying to make everything allosexual.

it’s time to make ace culture be shutting the fuck up and also not being homophobes

“wall of text” lmfao i bullet pointed a few questions and concerns about the post?? you’re using trauma victims and black people as weapons in ur argument to insist they can’t be oppressors of lgbt ppl when,,, all cishets are oppressors of lgbt ppl. people of color and assault survivors deserve spaces for expressing their specific experiences but it doesn’t matter how u phrase it ,, cishet ppl don’t belong in lgbt spaces for having lived other marginalized experiences unrelated to being lgbt. and ur transphobic for using ARF so u don’t exactly get to dictate the validity of trans ppl and their discomfort with sharing lgbt spaces with cishets

He’s not.

You know if you’re going to call me a transphobe do It in the actual post and not in the tags.

Yeah. But sadly you’re wrong, I’m no transphobe.

Yes because your straw man argument is completely idiotic. Peter Parker, the well established superhero isn’t trans. It’s simple fact. If the creator wanted them to be trans he would’ve said so. Now I have no issues if you want to make this head cannon but don’t try to push it as fact.

I would love to have at least one conversation about reclaiming the word queer without someone barging in to demand that no one calls them queer because they haven’t reclaimed it. Like, we get it, you don’t like the word, that’s why we’re using it for ourselves. I’m just so tired of being derailed.

One of the main things is that it shouldn't be used as an umbrella term because it hasn't been reclaimed completely by all. It's not about detailing your own personal reclamation, I wholeheartedly respect that, it's about ensuring no one is triggered or made to feel uncomfortable as, although many have reclaimed it, it's still a slur. People who 'barge in' and telling you not to call them q*eer isn't derailing it's simply them telling you not to call them it and just like us respecting your reclamation, you need to respect them asking not to be called a slur.

big shout outs to all my fellow lgbt folks tonite… to all the great gays The  and lovely lesbians… to the pretty pan ppl and the brilliant bis.. the nifty nbs and the terrific trans folks………… have a good nite. also if ur a homophobe or a transphobe/ terf and ur reading this i want u to know that 1) ur not welcome here and 2) if a giant squid was attacking u id be cheering