me and the mutuals are giving some minor characters rich inner worlds later if you wanna pull up. yeah its gonna be all day.

So many women have internalized the idea that being difficult makes people think less of them, when in my experience the opposite is almost always true. Every single time I have spoken up, voiced what I actually need and refused to shrink the moment in order to be more comfortable for everyone else in the room, I have been approached afterward by people who wanted to know me better. There is no reward waiting for you on the other side of making yourself smaller. People do not love you more for taking up less space, they simply get used to you taking up less space and adjust their expectations accordingly. Every time I have been exactly as audacious as the moment required, it has opened doors rather than closed them and I have made real connections directly because of it rather than in spite of it.

A lot of people genuinely do hate or dismiss romance novels because they think all sexual frankness in fiction is immoral and harmful, or because they think women (and only women) are too stupid to know fiction from reality, or because they think it’s gross and laughable for women (especially ones they don’t consider fuckable) to have sexual desires, or because they automatically assume that anything popular with women is inferior, or because they only care about fiction being formulaic or light entertainment when it’s something women like. This doesn’t mean that every romance novel is great and deep and progressive, but these people aren’t coming from a good place with their criticism and they don’t deserve a pass.

#it's pretty astounding how many people#(lots of women included)#believe that the primary function of romance novels#should be the moral edification of ladies#to teach them how to properly have a relationship irl#presumably because it's their fault if they get into abusive relationships#if only they had read wholesome books with good progressive values!#abusive guys have no agency btw its the woman's fault for reading bad boy romances

why is there an upgrade button on gmail. why does twitter want me to scan my palm to get into my account. why is google a chatbot. why does the transit app make a transit app wrapped for me. why does youtube keep shoving its infinitely scrollable shortform content down my throat. why do free trials want my credit card number. why are most scholarship websites just data brokers. how do i make capitalone stop sending me mail. why is my school making its own special chat gpt powered chatbot. why is every third video on instagram an undisclosed ad. why is nothing online real anymore. why is everything so FUCKING STUPID

women are so hot I’m so glad I’m not straight

When trump and putin die, I am going to be trashed running through the streets screaming in joy, possibly barefoot from having no time to put on shoes before barreling out the front door

It will be a level of hedonistic unrestrained celebration that goes so hard Hunter Biden will tell me to calm down

This post resonated with quite a few of you and I am pouring tequila into your mouths like a Señor Frog’s waitress

When this finally happens I think I will immediately understand why Philly sports fans get excited and climb traffic light poles, flip cars and burn shit down when celebrating

i love declining birth rates 🥰 "what a horrible problem! society will collapse!" oopsie it looks like you're gonna have to make having children worth it 😊 teehee you're gonna have to improve society in order to fix this problem, or it will all collapse. oh noooooo. how horrible. :3c

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Can I fucking help you?

my senior english teacher told me that any scene with a woman in a cornfield in every piece of literature ever is about her journey to womanhood/pleasuring herself in the field and i just.... believed her

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