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that last reblog has me musing on healthy friendships between adults and minors. i’ve seen a lot of good posts about how to spot predatory behavior, but i haven’t seen many about what healthy behavior looks like. & i know i have some younger people following me for various fandoms, so
signs of a healthy friendship w/ an adult:
they don’t do the obvious predatory things; they don’t send you sexual content or ask you sexual questions, they don’t tell you that you don’t “seem” like a minor, they don’t start inappropriate conversations
they don’t do the less obvious predatory things; they don’t ask you to keep secrets or try to isolate you from others or ask inappropriate favors or use you as a key source of emotional support*
you’d be comfortable with your parents seeing your conversations (or, if you can’t trust your parents, you’d be comfortable with a trusted adult seeing your conversations)
they’d be comfortable with your interactions being shown to people; they don’t ask you to ‘hide’ anything
they set clear boundaries; they tell you when they’re not comfortable offering guidance, when they’re uncomfortable with a conversation in general, etc.
they respect YOUR boundaries; they drop or redirect conversations when asked, they don’t ask for invasive details about trauma or your living situation, etc
you aren’t nervous about telling them when you’re uncomfortable - or at least, you aren’t more nervous than you are with anyone else. some ppl have anxiety disorders or struggle to articulate discomfort, i get it
on that note, you shouldn’t feel more anxious or nervous around them than you do around other trusted adults.
you don’t need to have a Reason for the nervousness - sometimes a person’s intensity or conversational style is just stressful. the same might happen w/ peers your age. a beneficial friendship shouldn’t make you feel consistently tense/on edge, even if the other party hasn’t done anything “wrong”
(people don’t need to Commit A Transgression for you to want to stop interacting with them. if they’re not making your life better, you don’t need to keep them in your life.)
your friendship is based around mutual interests - fandoms you enjoy, creative work you’re doing, hobbies you share, etc. you both have an equal interest in the things you talk about, & your conversations focus on common ground between you
you’d be comfortable with them interacting with others in your life - peers your age and trusted adults.
they are respectful of you as a person; they act with appropriate awareness of your age, but they don’t condescend to you or tell you they wish you were older or treat you like an infant they’re in charge of babysitting. basically, they aren’t an asshole.
if they are comfortable being asked for emotional support or guidance (not all adults are!), they offer advice and support from the perspective of a mentor, rather than the type of support you’d expect from a peer your age. they’ll also tell you when they don’t feel like they can give helpful advice (see: boundaries)
there are other healthy signs; these are just some basics
please note that it is possible for friendships to have some of these elements while still being unhealthy. this is not a checklist for a Guarantee Of Healthy Dynamics And Stability. it is, however, a good place to start if you’re not sure what an okay friendship with an adult looks like.
*the emotional support thing is complex: there’s nothing wrong with comforting an older friend who’s sad or grieving or having mental health struggles. but you Shouldn’t be a person they’re Relying Upon for support - they shouldn’t be leaning on you for constant help managing their feelings/struggles.
this is bc adults and adolescents tend to be in very different places where emotional processing is concerned. an adult will find more helpful emotional support from other adults, similar to how you might find more relatable emotional support from your peers than from adults. it’s bc of where different people are developmentally
(also, like, an 18 year old and a 17 year old are very similar developmentally. a 30 year old and a 17 year old are not. how much older they are makes a difference.)
an adult who depends heavily on you for support isn’t Necessarily doing so with predatory intent. but they Are making the choice to ask an adolescent to be partially responsible for their emotional wellbeing.
you’ll see a lot of people talk abt the trauma of being the emotional support system for their parent(s) growing up (and might have experienced it yourself); similar dynamics are at play here.
there are also codependent relationship dynamics that are unhealthy Even When both involved parties are adults. some adults may purposefully look for codependent support from minors because they’re aware you haven’t had as much life experience with setting boundaries, saying no, & recognizing unhealthy demands. which is predatory; not all predatory behavior is sexual.
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Not blaming the guy at all but in our post-NSPM7 and Antifa-as-domestic-terrorist-category world this definitely will bring down the hammer. About to get far spicier on the streets.
Actually, no, I don't think that friendships dropping like flies in your late 20s and early 30s because no one has time for that between overwork and family obligations and marriage and kids and partners and the ritual of the time slayer is normal and ok. No I don't think deep conversations and spontaneous adventures being replaced with a tired coffee every six months is a normal part of growing up. I don't think that emotional intimacy and soul bonds disintegrating in the face of practical inconvenience is a fact of life. I think that means something is deeply deeply wrong with our society and I will never forgive it for the friends I've lost
Today I wanted to talk about Kyle Bassinga. Kyle was a 21 year old man from Georgia, whose family described him as "a kind, thoughtful, and smart young man who loved nature, music, and the people around him". Kyle Bassinga was killed on February 18th 2026, just ten days after his birthday. He was found hanging from a tree in a park.
The police ruled it a suicide. The family and local community demanded an investigation. The police refused to change their ruling.
I know this website it too white for this to really go anywhere, but an understanding of the present reality of white supremacy in the United States is just so important to transfeminism here. Lynchings never stopped, white supremacy never went away, you just stopped looking.
Juliana Nzita, A 16 year old Black girl, was just found hanging from a tree on church grounds in Charlotte, NC. Police have ruled it a suicide, despite hanging ourselves from trees being like the one communally agreed way Black folks ain’t killing ourselves.
Every time I go on Twitter or Facebook I learn about another recent lynching or missing Black person going mostly unreported. Half the reason I keep an active account on either of those sites is because they’re the only place I can find out about the violence happening to Black and Trans people reasonably quickly.
But I do need y’all to know that Black folks are currently, actively, being disappeared and lynched—if they even find our bodies. Black girls are and have been more often stolen into human trafficking, especially if they’re immigrants, but I’ve been seeing new news of probable lynchings every other day. Shit is worse than you think it is right now, tumblr just too white of a site to care lol
I want to point out that both of these murders are still being covered up by the police, neither of their cases have even been reopened, despite a petition for Nzita with over 11,000 signatures. Kyle Bassinga in particular has almost completely dropped off of the news cycle too, partly because they've both been replaced with even more murders in just the months since they took place.
To’Nea Nicole Miller, Justice Kai James, and Jerard “Jay” Jackson have all been found hanging from trees this year alone, and have all had their cases ruled a suicide by the police. Just a few days ago another (currently unidentified) Black woman was found hanging from a tree in Jackson Mississippi, although the police havent ruled it a suicide yet.
These aren't even all of the anti-black murders being covered up either. Since Trey Reed was murdered a little over a year ago, at least 14 Black people have been murdered and had their cases ruled a suicide. If this information doesn't make you want to abolish the police I think you're just too racist to be reached.
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Multiple sailors aboard the USS Abraham Lincoln have attempted to go overboard as the carrier's deployment stretches into its ninth month.
They did kick pretty much everyone who was anti trump out of the US military, but clearly at least some of those people had knowledge and expertise that's hard to replace. Things go to shit quickly when your only requirement for important positions is unflinching loyalty, and you don't care if the person can actually do their job.
This means that, still a couple years out from the most likely time for Trump to attempt a full self-coup, they are heavily negatively polarizing a fair amount of the military against him. Because Pete Hegseth keeps running stupid schemes and basically keeping soldiers in torture conditions. Propaganda only goes so far when your material reality is absolute dogshit.
If most of the military hates your guts they're going to be way less likely to throw their power behind you when you try to declare yourself God King of the USAmerican Empire. Not that the resulting civil war style scenario that might result would be amazing, but it's by far a better deal than Trump having full military support behind the self-coup.
The world is witnessing a genocide in Gaza. In addition to the extreme loss of life, restrictions on humanitarian access and forced displace
I don't know if this article is perfect since it's too long for me to fully parse right now but exactly as OP says it describes the way the "usa" backed "israel" is destroying the environment in Gaza.
Another article that goes over how the "us" military is one of the biggest polluters in the world, ranking above many entire countries:
US military pollution is a significant contributor to climate change. If it were a nation, it would be the 47th largest emitter in the world
Extremely fucking stupid bc genuinely who cares. Walking sticks are literally for anyone. They help you when you walk around. Perfectly healthy and abled bodied people use them while hiking because they just work.
And what if it was just a fashion thing? It used to be trendy. It gives your outfit a different vibe. Experimenting with fashion is fun, there's literally zero things wrong with using a cane because you like the way it looks or how it makes you feel.
Every single person choosing to use a mobility aid in public normalises their use, and makes it less likely for me to get harassed out there. It just becomes a regular thing you see while out in public. And that's the exact thing ableist TERFs like Stock are actually against - Not even mentioning the absolutely obvious misogyny here.
Covid was a mass disabling event. It continues to affect many, many people. Denying reality and gaslighting disabled people will not make us go away
My neurologist is thrilled. Even just 10 years ago, he had so much more difficulty getting patients to use canes or walking sticks. Especially when, like me, about 80% of my walking is just fine. That 20%? Migraine with hemiplegia/hemialgesia/hemianalgesia (yes all in the same hemi). Chronic pain in my feet, which sometimes means cramps that make me unstable. I use a cane for short distances, rollator for medium, and have a mobility scooter for long distances.
He went on a mini-rant a while ago that was basically thanking me for using one because know what happens when someone is 80% fine to walk without a cane?
Falls. Major fall injuries including head injuries and TBI. Minor injuries leading to avoidance of walking and the resulting deconditioning leading to that 80% becoming 60%, then continuing to decline.
Whatever helps people move and reduces their risk of injury is amazing.
I talk about this a lot - People simply do not take falls seriously enough. They are extremely dangerous. Anything you can do to mitigate fall risks, especially as you become older, is very very important.
As you said, the stigma against mobility aids used to be much stronger, and many older people straight up refuse to use them. They are the main demographic that are the expected users, the 'understandable' use case, that most people agree makes sense. Their doctors are often begging them to use them. And yet the stigma is so great, and has such power, that people with very reduced mobility would rather continue to struggle and push through without them until they have a fall that greatly injures them. It's so unnecessary and so heartbreaking.
We need to push for mobility aids to be seen as a normal, regular part of society. Something for every kind of person who can benefit from one in any way. That's the only way to eliminate that stigma and empower everyone, so no one is put in the position to sacrifice their safety for the sake of not becoming othered and judged.
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Transphobia is being signed into law in the UK. Let's fight it together.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the rescheduled Mass Lobby at Parliament, now on Wed Sept 9th, 1pm-5pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
The law around trans equality is fundamentally broken. Government inaction is hanging trans people and organisations out to dry - with a con
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It became statutory guidance in the UK on August 5th, 2026.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Our demands have changed. Ask your MP to:
Write to Ministers and Prime Minister Andy Burnham to say they are profoundly concerned by the rolling back of trans rights, and that they believe that it is time for Parliament to legislate to protect equality for trans people.
Ask parliamentary questions focused on protecting trans people’s rights and defending trans people’s abilities to live safe and dignified lives.
Speak up both inside and outside Parliament in defence of trans people’s rights.
Meet regularly with trans constituents to understand their lived realities.
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
We have already had some wins because we took action. The 2026 EHRC guidance has already rolled back its most harmful elements because of mass campaigning by individuals like us, and groups like The Good Law Project. This summer, 166 MPs signed the Early Day Motion 240 to reject the EHRC Code of Practice, because of our campaigning. That is 1 in 4 MPs.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. On the day, you'll get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Here is an online briefing for lobbyists (10 mins read for essential info, 20 mins for details)
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination. e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee. If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73). A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
Sign up for the mass lobby and email your MP here, or click the main link above.
If you are not in the UK but want to support the case, please donate to The Good Law Project.
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Transcript: Yesterday my cousin said that my rooster wasn't a real rooster. He said he's a Walmart rooster. *chicken noises* Does this not look like a real rooster to you? *chicken makes a sound again* Sure, he's small, but he has feelings.
