a lot of people say twink bc they want to say faggot. and they don't even necessarily realize. but they do
pro tip, if you're using twink to mean:
- loser
- effeminate in a negative way
- weak
- pathetic
- annoying
you are probably being homophobic and probably just using it as a free pass alternative for gay or faggot. you're not slick it's not okay and you need to think about your words more. you're not immune to doing this if you're queer either I've seen a LOT of people doing this all across the sexuality labels.
if you've said:
- same with fruity
- same with bottom
I agree wholeheartedly and you're incredibly right
- "this especially happens to me as an afab trans person because people assume because I'm small and have less body hair I'm okay with being called that, including derogatorily"
you're adding important additional experiences, I'm sorry for how people treat you, and you should kill them with fire
