Sometimes people do need to be called out and just bluntly told that a behavior of theirs sucks and they need to knock it off. Sometimes we don't have to handhold everyone and try to avoid offending them, especially when they're the type who's never stopped to consider how their behavior affects people around them. And on the other hand, sometimes part of being a mature adult is being able to handle it when you're that person in question. Not all of your behvaior is defensible and sometimes it's ok to be in the wrong and maybe even feel a little bad and embarrassed about your own shit. Idk.
Also part of growing up is accepting that if you feel bad or hurt after someone calls you out it doesn't mean they did anything wrong
