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hey gays use this website and tag the # of average thing you post in a day mineās 6.5
i went through some of the tags and if you got a number above 50ā¦ā¦. do your homework.Ā i saw some ppl got 100+ and if thats the case for you message me so i can help you contact your local crisis center
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Hereās a few Iāve accumulated over the years
Ah, some gold!
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āIĀ lovedĀ you, always.ā
going to comment a little on this game: the overseeing voice talks as if it owns you, and defies your free will. if you follow its orders, you are praised, and the worldview becomes sharper and more detailed. if you donāt, you are chastised, and the world becomes more vague and difficult to navigate, but also more colourful and loud. itās odd, and sort of eerie, but definitely interesting. take it as you will.
This game really unsettles me. It unsttles me that my first choice to obey, and when I played again and disobeyed, I got really emotional really fast. Failure hurt me more the more I disobeyed. It was⦠interesting to experience.
iāve always said we are trained to obey more than to think.
holy shit. i reblogged this the first time without playing. then i played in and it is terrifying.Ā i very much like this, but it will give you intense feelings.Ā
Whatās the game??
you obey everything the game tells you too, even jumping into barbs and basically killing yourself. if you dont youre chastised and even the scolding is terrifying
So, essentially, itās a game that illustrates what itās like to be in an abusive parents or an abusive relationship - and how it affects you emotionally. That is horrific and ingenious - the next time someone negates the affects of emotional abuse, Iāll take them to this game and let them come to their own conclusions.
This game absolutely gets it. The most solid and reliable degradation is a gendered insult. The more you obey and co-operate, the better understanding you seem to have of your word, and things seem easier. But what really gets me is the contradiction. You are not allowed to have the correct answer. Are you a boy or a girl? The answer is no, I will give you the answer. even towards the end, your āpraiseā is āno, I will give you the answer. You earned this answer, but it is given to you by me.ā Disobeying makes the world frightening and confusing and difficult, but beautiful in a world devoid of flavour.
great that itās made by a fellow australian too
Reblogging this for later.
If anyone was looking for the name itās called Loved
@sam-keeper this might be of interest to you.
This game totally fucks with me every time I play it because itās so damn real about what itās conveying.
Let me tell you that the basic idea where obeying makes things easier, makes things clearerĀ while disobeying makes things chaotic and ruins your sense of self: that shit is as real as it gets.
Obeying made life easy. The person you are isnāt, maybe, the person you want to be, but you have a sense of self. Making decisions is easier. You can at least predict how things will go, even when you hate it.
But once you start asserting yourself, thatās when it gets bad. Who you are gets questions and torn down time and time again. The process of getting out is so much harder as your ability to trust yourself wears to the point of being non-existence.
I had to have my abusive partner kick me out of the house twiceĀ before my ability to make the decision to crawl back was completely wiped.
Itās been almost 9 years since then. I have a sense of self again. But it was rough going for a long time.
I have a job interview in a few days, and I've been looking through the various things you've posted about job interviews. In one of them you mentioned that you should ask a lot of questions during an interview, and I was wondering if you had any specific suggestions about types of questions to ask? Thanks!
This is so important! Asking questions after an interview does several positive things:
1. It shows your social flexibility and your ease at taking on a leadership role. You asking the questions = you steering the conversation = leadership!
2. It shows your interest in the job.Ā
3. Depending on the questions you ask, it can single you out and make your interview more memorable.Ā
Some Questions to Ask Your Employer (After Your Job Interview)Ā
1. First off- ask any pressing questions you have. Before asking each question, reiterate as much information as you can regarding the question. For example, if you want to ask a question about raises and your employer mentioned that each employee is up for a raise every quarter ask:Ā āSo you mentioned that employees can qualify for raises every quarter, what specifically do you look for?ā
2. Ask how your interviewer enjoys working for the company.Ā Donāt ask this if the person who is interviewing you is the founder of the company, but do ask this for any level of employee. This gives them an opportunity to elaborate about their job and will help you get a sense of who they are as a person.
3. Similarly. If the person who is interviewing you is the founder of the company, find out some specific details about how the business came about. This gives you the upper hand with some backstory (if they havenāt already shared it with you) and shows that you have genuine interest in the company and its history.
4. Ask about your typical work day.Ā This will allow them to outline the daily requirements of your position, which may (and probably will) unearth responsibilities not mentioned before. This shows that youāre motivated and already prepared to accept a job offer if one is made towards you.
5. Customer service.Ā Many customer service related jobs will ask a question along the lines ofĀ āwhat was a difficult situation you were in and how did you resolve itā. This helps them get an idea of your problem solving skills. Flip it around! Ask the interviewer if theyāve ever encountered any difficult customer situations and how they dealt with them. If you get hired, you can use this knowledge to guide your movements.
6. Ask what people youāll be working with.Ā Get the inside scoop on any potential co-workers before being put in the zone with them. This also allows you to find out if the person who is interviewing you will actually be your co-worker, or if theyāre a higher up youāll only see at Christmas Parties.
7. After asking your questionsĀ ask them if they have any final questions for you. They probably wonāt, but this maneuver will allow you to wrap your interview up in a sensical way. You can also verify that they have all of your contact information.
Good luck!
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Out of curiosity, how do my fellow DMs prepare their campaigns?Ā
Do you open up a word doc at type out your story hook and make little bullet points from there?Ā
Do you wing it completely?Ā
Whatās your notes system like?Ā
Iām simply looking for new ways to plan for my d&d games!Ā
The Over-Prepared GM
I canāt help myself. I love all the work that goes into prepping for a campaign, and I keep all of my crazy notes and papers, so today Iām gonna try and share with you my process for the latest DnD session I prepped for/ran!Ā
Rough Notes
I always start by hand writing a full page or two of just random thoughts/story bits. Iām gonna give examples from the latest session I ran (BACKSTORY - this setting has frequent time travel moments and so every location I make also needs a past version and present version)
Writing Stonevale began with me rambling on about any vague ideas I had for the scene setting. I also find itās useful to get the secrets and mysteries all clear and laid out straight away, and work backwards from them to slot in clues for players.Ā āStonevale Pastā begins with me deciding that the ancestors of an important NPC live here - maybe the players never get far enough to discover that, but having the secrets and info at the heart of my process helps me keep things focussed, and itās easy/fun to build walls around the secrets this way :)
I also generally get a feel for any creatures/NPCs that populate the area, and give them vague roles. And I try to note down key details/props/locations/events that will help the players navigate and investigate.
Session Summary
Nowās the time to check what happened last session just to make sure you know how the party characters will likely be feeling/acting at the start of the session, and to remind yourself of any items they picked up, or active statuses going on. Also a good moment to check what the party planned to do next, what their expectations could be and so on.
Itās hard to make myself fill this in at the end of every session, but the session summary page in this kit really helps me note down whatās most important.
Maps
Making a map is always an exciting prospect for me! I thought this time I wanted to give a more illustrative style of map, as Iāve been super inspired by the very cool maps made byĀ @anywhichwayatlas ! I got onto pinterest and collected some ideas of the type of map style I was going for:
Above are the images I used to inspire me, and below is the finished Stonevale map! Itās come out a bit rough/childlike but was definitely a fun way to explore more ways of making maps!
Later on, I realised Iād got too into making this and forgotten about some sort of depiction of the INSIDE of the manor⦠Since I didnāt have any time to make more maps by this point, I went to where I always go when I need a DnD map in a pinch - @2minutetabletop ! I picked up Castle Keep, which is free (like so many of his maps are!) and faffed with some colours and levels in photoshop until I was happy. Printed them out on A3 card and they were good to go! I canāt recommend this resource enough, itās saved my GM butt a lot when I run out of time to make a map of my own!
Adding in Detail
So next I need to flesh out those vague ideas to make sure Iāve covered whatās likely to be important for the party. I love using the town builder here as it gives me a bit of mental breathing room and asks the questions for me. I find having questions ready means the answers come a lot easier than if I was trying to pluck this out of my head, if that makes sense?Ā
It was at this point I realised Iād likely need a family tree, even just so I could keep track of the time travel/ancestral stuff. I roughed one out, then made a slightly bigger, still very rough, version that I thought might be a handy clue for players. If they make it inside the castle, theyāll notice a framed family tree on the wall, and this will be it!
NPCS
Our story involved one of the players having worked at Stonevale before the adventure, so I made a staff list for that playerās reference. This way they had some basic information on their old co-workers and the residents of the manor. I also filled in an NPC list from the people & society kitĀ to make sure I had enough NPCs to generate about the property.
Then I used the map to mark some likely locations of the important NPCs. I made sure to spread them out so that no matter how the party approached the grounds, theyād likely hit a plot hook somehow.
Quest Hooks
Time to shove as many clues as possible in here! My experience has been that players need a lot more help picking up clues and reaching conclusions than you expect (myself included!) so I make a point of writing a bunch of quest hooks to inspire both the players and myself during play. I use the quest hooks page from the session kitĀ to note down basically little story bites and clues that I can drop in as and when I need to. Itās a useful sheet to glance at real quick during the game!
Loot
Gotta make sure thereās some loot somewhere! Thereās always at least one player who ransacks every location they visit :) I hadnāt set up Stonevale to be a particularly loot-filled place but knew the manor in the centre could do with holding some of the residentās belongings that could be steal-able. Again, I realised this quite late in my planning, and so dashed off to theĀ @rpgtoons Patreon to grab all the free item cards I could find! Then I picked out which ones could be appropriate for certain family members and residents, and stashedĀ āem in the pile ready to hand out.
Ambience
This is one of the last things I come to, as itās fairly easy to set up, but so important if you want your players to be focussed and engaged. Every time I use music or scents its palpable how much more invested in events players are. For ambient backgrounds, youtube is a gold mine. I like to have two playing simultaneously - one for music and one for background noise. For example:
Fantasy Adventure MusicĀ + Forest Sounds Peaceful Travelling MusicĀ + Winter Storm Horror MusicĀ + Swamp Sounds
Check out Sword Coast SoundscapesĀ or Guild of AmbienceĀ for some very cool RPG ambient soundtracks too!
As for scents, I use these a little more sparingly, but @cantripcandles does some exceptionally convincing aromas that really work for setting the mood, and taking your prep that lil extra step. My favourite is Goldwheat Bakery - the only way to get a more accurate smell would be to visit a bakery!
Finishing Up
At this point Iām almost good to go. I take one last look over everything Iāve prepped to see if there are any gaping plot holes or parts Iāve missed. For this particular session, it occurred to me there could be an opportunity for eavesdropping on an important conversation, so I wrote out a one page script for what the players might overhear should they choose to snoop.Ā
Play!
I guess you wanna know how the session went down after all this prep? Did the players enjoy it, did they find what Iād laid out for them?Ā
OF COURSE NOT! They made their very best effort to skirt the entire property, clinging to the edges of the map and hiding any time an NPC interaction looked likely. Predictably, I didnāt anticipate that they would attempt to avoid everything, but the Quest Hooks page kept things flexible. That, and the fact that one playerās rat companion decided to jump down a hole and became āirretrievable until further noticeāā¦. ahem.
Hope you find this useful, Iāve tried to link to as many resources as possible because there are just so many good ones out there right now! Thanks to all DnD creators! I think itās really cool everyoneās helping each othersā games become even more fun to play! :)
Beautiful world maps by @anywhichwayatlasāĀ
Location maps by @2minutetabletopā
Item cards from @rpgtoonsā Patreon
Background Music -Ā Sword Coast Soundscapes
Background Music -Ā Guild of Ambience
Ambient scented candles by @cantripcandlesā
Session Kit (includes session summary page, campaign brief, encounter manager, quest hooks, world overview page)
World Building Packs (npc makers/lists, land builders, society/org creators, history packs, etc)
Game Master Kits (fillable rolling tables, cheat sheets, loot makers, paper minis, etc)
Okay, this is way beyond what Iāve ever done, even at my most prepared.Ā Kudos!
@eyesoflightanddark oh my god the fucking resources. You might have them all, but this seemed quite useful. š
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Being gay as fuck
20 years of cock by Pansy Division
All the boys by PWR BTTM
Bears by Tom Goss
Boyfriend wanted by Pansy Division
Boys wear pink by Todrick Hall
Compulsive liar by Ezra Furman
Everyone is gay by a Great Big World
F*ggots getting money by Anye Elite
Gay goth scene by The Hidden Cameras
The cocksucker club by Pansy Division
LGBT by Rupaul
Ok 2 B Gay by Tomboy
Ph*ggot by LIL PH*G
We donāt care by Anye Elite
When a man is in love with a man by Of Montreal
Bisexuality
Bi by Living Colour
Chanel by Frank Ocean
F*gette by Athens Boys Choir
Gettinā bi by Crazy Ex Gf Cast
Girl crush by Harry Styles
Good guy by Frank Ocean
Swings both ways by Robbie WilliamsĀ
Breakups/ending of relationships
All along by Perfume Genius
Dirge by Perfume Genius
Joy Boy by Gay Panic
Mr. Peterson by Perfume Genius
Cheating
All American boy by Steve Grand
Billy Brown by MIKA
Deadahh by LIL PH*G
I kissed a boy by Jupither
Iām still your f*g by Broken Social SceneĀ
To be alone with you by Sufjan StevensĀ
First Crush
Diplomats son by Vampire Weekend
First time he kissed a boy by Kadie Elder
I lost my innocence by Ezra Furman
Kiss the boy by Keiynan LonsdaleĀ
Mr. Peterson by Perfume Genius
Seventeen by Kevin Abstract
Son of a preacher man by Tom Goss
When boy meets boy by Matt Fishel
Love
All American boy by Steve Grand
American Boyfriend by Kevin Abstract
And I love him by Benjamin GibbardĀ
Boys like you by Who is fancy
Canāt help falling in love with you by Perfume Genius
for him. by Troye Sivan
Gay pirates by Cosmo Jarvis
Handsome man by Matt Alber
Heās funny that way by Bob Dylan
Hold each other by A Great Big World
Homie lova friend by Anye Elite
Just some guy by Anthony Rapp
Me and Michael by MGMT
My guy by Kele OkerekeĀ
Two men in love by The IrrepressiblesĀ
What a beautiful day by Brett Every
Homophobia
American Boyfriend by Kevin Abstract
Apple Pie by Todrick Hall
Behind closed doors by Matt Fishel
Bored of straight boys by Matt Fishel
Boys in the street by Greg Holden
Degregaytion by Gayrilla Biscuits
G.D.M.M.L. GRLS by Tyler Glenn
Heaven sent by Parker Millsap
HIM by Sam Smith
Itās a sin by Pansy Division
Miserable America by Kevin Abstract
Queer as in fuck you by Dog Park Dissidents
Radio friendly pop song by Matt Fishel
Thatās so gay by Pansy Division
Pining
Girl crush by Harry Styles
Good guys go by Cub Sport
Guy.exe by Superfruit
I love you by Woodkid
I wanna boi by PWR BTTM
Kiss the boy by Keiynan LonsdaleĀ
Need a man blues by Bronski Beat
Tim I wish you were born a girl by Of Montreal
To be alone with you by Sufjan StevensĀ
Type by Todrick Hall
Straight men
Bored of straight boys by Matt Fishel
Fake F*gs by Limp Wrist
Iām not gay by J Pee
Straight boy by Shamir
The art teacher by Rufus Wainwright
Sex
20 years of cock by Pansy Division
Bloom by Troye Sivan
Daddy by Sakima
Heās trippi by Sakima
Phucked ur dad by LIL PH*G
The cocksucker club by Pansy Division
T.H.U.G by Todrick Hall
Wet by Anye Elite
How the Venus signs want to be loved
*use venus but check moon as well*
Aries Venus: love me back but donāt chase me lol itās my job to chase you duhā¦Iām going to make it obvious what I want. donāt overcomplicate things, love is simple. letās make it fast. letās jump into it. letās make it exciting!!! itās like a game and Iām going to win you
Taurus Venus: love me by staying the same. please. be there for me. be someone I can count on. be patient. feed me!!!! I like that. give me things!!!! I like that too. okay, okay, fINE I might want to possess you wHOOPSā¦just donāt push me orā¦bye
Gemini Venus: wait wait do I like you or do I like this other person????? or that person??? wait wait Iām just going to not think about it oooooh Iām curious about you now idk we can be together for today if you want but itās chill!!! talk to me!!!! letās just have fun!!! letās not label this thatās so serious and boring!!! you can change, I can change, and I mean itās cool if we want to also date 3 other people too lol like no biggie, itās vARIETY haha just donāt pin me down or get too deep otherwise Iāll be out the door in 0.03 seconds
Cancer Venus: love me!!!!!!!! Iām so lonely!!!!! :((((( I just want you to be soft and hold me and tell me youāre committed and that you love me!!!!! I need to hear that because I feel like no one loves me ever :ā( I want to stay at home and cuddle with you and you can tell me all of the things youāre feeling <3 and maybe Iāll smother you a little haha but dONāT LEAVE PLEASE
Leo Venus: love me back and Iāll show you how much I love you!!! like, all the time!!!! if I love you, know that itās a compliment because I only settle for the best. youāre all Iām going to brag uM I MEAN talk about!!! if you make me the center of your world, Iāll make you the center of mine!!! we can have fun, all I need is attention and validation jUST A LIL BIT BE PREPARED and Iām the king/queen here so tell me Iām wonderful and amazing because I donāt hear that enough :/ if I donāt take pride in our relationship, see ya. that means you didnāt dESERVE ME
Virgo Venus: love me by letting me help you!! okay oKAY IāM A LIL INSECURE but Iāll do things for you!!!! Iāll make you feel loved without all of that sentimental lovey stuff - we donāt need that! my one flaw is that I see all of the flaws in our relationship and you - and want to fix them!!! andā¦naggingā¦sometimesā¦but just to make you better!! I just want things to be simple and practical!!! nOTHING BIG NOTHING TOO INTENSE THATāS SCARY I MIGHT FREAK OUT AND LEAVE
Libra Venus: haha you can love me if you want to ;) but I mean only if you want toā¦likeā¦Iām not trying to force anything here lol!!!! we can be in loveā¦and have a beautiful pure relationship where we sHARE everything <3 and make everything look like weāre perfect :) Iām into equality :) um like donāt freak out but sometimes Iām just trying to be nice and it turns into flirting bUT ITāS OKā¦I know itās weird but I really donāt like people who are too pushy I just want someone whoās going to be polite and nice :)))))) so if youāre not that I mean Iāll still be nice to you but just I might not want to be with you idk weāll see AHHHH decisions are hard for me in relationships!!!!
Scorpio Venus: Iāll love you if you can handle me. I would say I donāt open up easily in love, but then that would be opening up to you. and I canāt do that. what I can do is be in control. I know how to handle this. oh, Iāll commit, itās just not everyone knows how to figure me out. and I wonāt stop until I find someone whoās willing to go deep with me. and I might stare at you for extended periods of time. you call it obsession, I call it intensity.
Sagittarius Venus: we can be in love if you show me the world!!!!! letās grow!!!!! and expand our horizons!!!!! and laugh!!!!!! and have FUN!!!!! lotās of FUN!!!!! oooooooohhhhhhh and if youāre foreign then Iāll REALLY like you!!!!!!!! wooooooooo love is an adventure!!!!!!!!!!!!! the only time Iāll leave is if I feel like youāre dragging down my free spirit!!!!!! Iāll find someone whoās more interesting and cultured than you are on my next expedition!!!
Capricorn Venus: okay. we can be in love but first I have to have a plan. I like plans. and feeling competent in love. I like seeing what I want and going for it. nothing crazy or overly gooey. nope. canāt do that. I just need someone whoās going to help me succeed. Iām cautious, but only because I donāt want you to waste my time that I could be using to be better and work harder. Iām always looking ahead, and I need someone to be there with me. letās put effort into this and make it long-term. if youāre not willing to, then I will turn stone cold.
Aquarius Venus: I would say we could be in love but letās not call it love!!! letās call it whatever!!!! something we canāt label!!!! letās mix it up because this world is so dull without us!!!! umā¦whatās attachment??? could you explain that word to me, please??? all I know is that we can be friends, you know??? and Iāll choose the terms, okay?? haha letās be intellectual thatās pretty cool thereās no attachment there I know that and um sorry but eW FEELINGS lol not in a rELATIONSHIP if you want to bring that stuff up Iām not right for you I guess :/ find someone more boring
Pisces Venus: looooooooooveeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!! uh, sorry, what were you saying? oh, Iām just projecting all of my ideals onto you. no, itās a compliment!!!!!! I accept all of your flaws!!!!!! aw letās be romantic thatās so cuuuute <3 and yeah Iāll forgive you, itās okay!!!! but sorry um I like you and all but itās hard for me to commit sometimes because I see all of the possibilities!!! um, who am I??? I guess it doesnāt matter!!!! letās live in a world of rainbows and unicorns together!!!!! but I mean itās not really nice if you take advantage of me :((((
Hoe Wisdom - Manipulation
I learned from a very young age to make people believe about me exactly what I want them to. I learned how to walk, sit, move, and even eat in a way that makes me seem in complete control of myself and my surroundings, even when Iām feeling completely overwhelmed and out of place. I learned to hide my anxieties and insecurities in a way that everyone thought I was always calm and put together. I also learned how to get people to trust me and tell me everything about them by masterfully displaying those very weaknesses. Iāll share some of my tips tonight, these tips might help you seem in complete control, help you get what you want and even who you want ;)
WHEN YOUāRE ALONE AMONGST A LOT OF PEOPLE - If youāre alone donāt stress about the fact that you are, donāt worry about looking like a loser because you wonāt. > When youāre alone be sure to keep your posture. ALWAYS TAKE NOTE OF YOUR POSTURE. I cannot stress how important your posture is. Look up how to keep a proper posture. >Snack slowly and take small bites, small and assured sips of your drink. Not too slow, just measure yourself. > Learn how to strut. When you walk across the room to sit, to snack, or just anywhere, donāt slack on your walking. Chin up, stare straight ahead, perfect posture, and have a very slight smile. The world is your catwalk, and yes people will be paying attention when you least notice it.
WHEN SOMEONE APPROACHES YOU - If theyāre a close friend you donāt have to worry much about how to talk to them because you know them, but your behavior still matter. > When talking to them make sure you pay close attention to them and what theyāre saying. No extreme reactions, unless they truly said something shocking. > Smile a lot, let others see that you can be approachable. Also, theyāre your close friend you should be smiling anyway. - If theyāre someone you barely know then just breathe in, smile, release your breath slowly and greet them politely. > Ask then questions about their life you have some knowledge about. Ask about their family, pets, children, partners, work/school, make sure theyāre the ones speaking more than you are. - If theyāre a stranger wait until theyāre immediately in your personal space to acknowledge them, then meet and greet them only after they have directly addressed you. Keep an easy smile on your face, and when meeting them change your smile according to the impression you want to make (dazzling smile to charm, smirk to seduce, smile politely for anyone else). > For strangers you donāt know anything about them, ask them about things you are at least somewhat curious about. Ask them about their current standing in terms of job and or studies. Ask them about family and hobbies. Anything you would like to know or need to know to get some info on them. > Make a lot of eye contact, but not too much, but make sure to keep your attention on them. Make them feel that you care about what theyāre saying.
WHEN YOUāRE IN A GROUP Besides all the other things about posture, eye contact and smiling, when youāre in a group this is where the whole āpay them complete attentionā does not apply. In a group make sure to pay attention to everyone speaking, let everyone have a turn at your attention. People who were steamrolled out of a conversation you ease them back in either by giving them your attention and let them speak to you directly, or if youāre feeling bold politely call out the person or people who steamrolled over them by calmly stating āIām sorry to interrupt but [their name] was speaking, I want to know what they were going to say.ā Donāt do that if you donāt feel confident, or if you care about possibly offending others, you should still operate within your comfort zone so that you can portray a genuine look of collected confidence.
NOW YOUāRE IN, HOW TO GET THEM TO TRUST YOU - This is when you can start showing people bits of your true self. You should have real stories and anecdotes ready for when you get the chance to use them. - Real stories and anecdotes are crucial because believe it or not people are actually adept at intuitively spotting liars. If the stories and anecdotes are real, with genuine feeling attached to them, they canāt spot any lies because they will be the truth. - Manipulating people is not about lying, itās about using the truth to your advantage. Avoid lying and avoid exaggerating, so that everything you say and do is genuine. - The stories and anecdotes you use must have some connection to the context of the conversation or the person youāre with. Donāt bust out a story of a dying pet when the person youāre with never even had a pet. Donāt talk about how you once failed an exam when the conversation was about this concert he went to with his friends last week. Talk about things in context, and if you have no material for a certain context then donāt stress, you donāt need to have something to say for everything. For every time you talk to them only share one personal story, avoid using more because then that shows too much of you. - You want to show some humanity, but not too much because you want them to still believe that youāre some ethereal and strong entity that could probably crush them if they cross any lines.
To end, I just want to say that with this post I donāt mean to imply that you need to act this way to be desired, to get what you want, or to be considered amazing. This is not the case at all. However, I know for a fact that some of y'all struggle with confidence and that you wish you knew how to display confidence even when you donāt have it. Well this is a way to fake it until you make it. My blog is about loving yourself, but I know how long and tiresome that process can be. This is just a way to put yourself out there. Thereās so much info I still didnāt cover because then the post would be even longer, for any more info just ask me! None of y'all should feel that you HAVE to do what this post says to get people to notice you and like you, I donāt want any of you to compromise yourselves for the sake of people that donāt matter. But I know some of you want this, I found myself looking up a lot of this information way back when before Tumblr had this huge and informed community of wonderful people willing to share their knowledge. I love all of you and I hope Iāve helped some of you in any way.

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