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I honestly think you'd be a fantastic match with Shoto Todoroki.

At first glance, this pairing might seem a little unexpected. Shoto is quiet, reserved, and often struggles to express what he's feeling, while you're someone who thrives on connection, storytelling, teaching, and making others feel welcome. But that's exactly why it works so well. You aren't the type of person who demands people open up immediately; you give them room to exist as they are. Shoto has spent most of his life feeling like he needed to be useful or strong rather than simply loved. Being with someone like you, who values kindness, communication, and emotional honesty, would be incredibly healing for him.

The trope here is very much "sunshine meets winter morning." Not sunshine in an overly bubbly sense, but in the way sunlight gradually warms a room without forcing itself inside. You'd be one of the few people who could get genuine laughter out of him regularly. Not because you're trying to fix him, but because your enthusiasm for life is infectious. The first time Shoto sees you excitedly rambling about a musical, a book, or some random fact you learned while teaching kids, he'd probably just stare for a second before realizing he's smiling.

One of my favorite things about this relationship is how naturally your love languages fit together. You give words of affirmation so freely, and Shoto desperately needs them even if he'd never admit it. He'd remember every compliment you've ever given him. Every "I'm proud of you" would get filed away in his brain forever.

Meanwhile, Shoto is the king of acts of service.

You mention liking people who notice your struggles before trying to solve them, and Shoto absolutely would. During your depressive episodes, he wouldn't overwhelm you with advice or force conversations you aren't ready for. Instead, you'd wake up to find food in the fridge, tea already prepared, your favorite blanket folded neatly nearby, and a simple text asking if you wanted company. No pressure. Just support. The relationship also has a surprisingly playful side.

You love deep conversations, but you also love laughing until your sides hurt. Once Shoto becomes comfortable around someone, he has a very dry, unintentionally hilarious sense of humor. Half your relationship would consist of you saying something ridiculous and him responding with complete seriousness, only for both of you to burst out laughing thirty seconds later.

The late-night drives would become a staple of your relationship. You'd drag him out to beaches at midnight or quiet overlooks to watch meteor showers. He'd never admit it, but he'd start looking forward to them. There would be countless nights spent sitting on the hood of a car, sharing takeout, discussing dreams, books, family, and the future while the stars stretched overhead.

The thing that would make the relationship last, though, is that you both carry burdens quietly. You're someone who often takes care of everyone around you and sometimes forgets yourself. Shoto understands that feeling better than almost anyone. He'd be one of the few people capable of recognizing when you're trying to smile through exhaustion. When you're giving too much of yourself away, he'd gently remind you that you're allowed to rest too.

For Marvel, my pick is Peter Parker (adult Peter, post-college).

This relationship is basically the embodiment of "friends-to-lovers with endless banter and mutual admiration."

Peter would absolutely adore you. Not in the dramatic soulmate-at-first-sight way, but in the way someone slowly realizes they never want to spend a day without hearing your voice.

You both share a deep curiosity about the world. Peter is a scientist at heart, while you're someone who genuinely values learning and intellectual growth. Conversations between you would last for hours. One minute you're discussing literature, the next you're talking about education reform, then somehow you're debating whether aliens would appreciate musical theatre.

And Peter would absolutely attend every show. Front row. Loudest applause in the room. Possibly embarrassing you in the process.

One thing Peter would love about you is your compassion. He spends so much of his life helping other people that he rarely lets himself receive help in return. Meanwhile, you're naturally nurturing without expecting anything back. The difference is that unlike many people in Peter's life, you wouldn't put him on a pedestal. You'd treat him like Peter first and Spider-Man second.

You'd also challenge him in ways he secretly needs. Peter tends to shoulder responsibility alone and blame himself for everything. You're someone who believes people deserve understanding and grace. Whenever he spirals into guilt, you'd be there reminding him that being human doesn't make him a failure.

Meanwhile, Peter would absolutely worship your creative side. He'd keep every poem. Every story draft. Every random idea you scribbled down at 2 a.m. The man would have folders dedicated to your work.

The trope here is "golden retriever genius falls hopelessly for the storyteller."

He'd bring you coffee when you're studying (and probably forget you don't like certain drinks at first, then spend weeks memorizing your exact preferences afterward). He'd listen to your thoughts about books with genuine fascination. He'd encourage your dreams without ever making them feel unrealistic.

Kento Nanami

I know a lot of people expect flashy answers like Gojo, but Nanami is honestly screaming your type.

You need consistency.

Nanami is consistency.

One of your biggest struggles is emotional uncertainty, wondering if you're annoying, if people secretly don't want you around, if you're being "too much." Nanami's biggest strength as a partner would be that you'd never have to guess where you stand with him. If he loves you, you know he loves you. No games. No mixed signals. No disappearing for three days and pretending it's normal.

Your goofy, dramatic energy would honestly become one of his favorite things. At first he'd stare at you with the most exhausted expression imaginable while you dramatically flop across furniture complaining about life. Three months later he'd be hiding a smile every time you did it.

He's also surprisingly nurturing beneath the serious exterior. The type who notices you skipped lunch and suddenly there's food in front of you. Notices you're overthinking and quietly asks what's wrong. Notices you're exhausted and practically orders you to rest.

The biggest green flag?

When you have those moments where you've bottled everything up for weeks and finally explode emotionally, Nanami wouldn't get angry. He'd sit down and listen. And then he'd help solve the problem. Plus your cat Cleo would absolutely adore him.

Honkai: Star Rail Match: Gepard Landau

This man was built in a laboratory specifically for people with attachment issues. Gepard is loyal to an almost ridiculous degree.

You describe yourself as someone who gets attached quickly when you feel safe and understood. Gepard naturally creates that safety. He's dependable, emotionally sincere, protective without being controlling, and genuinely values commitment.

The reason I picked him over someone like Dan Heng is because Dan Heng's emotional distance would probably drive you up a wall.

You need reassurance. Gepard gives reassurance naturally. Not because he's overly romantic, but because he's incredibly steady. You strike me as someone who loves little domestic moments more than grand gestures.

Late-night talks. Listening to music together. Walking near the beach. Existing in the same room doing separate things. That's Gepard's entire relationship style. He'd also absolutely spoil Cleo. The moment your cat chooses to sleep on him once, it's over. That's his cat now too.

Your playful chaos mixed with his earnest awkwardness would create some genuinely adorable interactions.

BSD Match: Doppo Kunikida

This one surprised me while I was thinking about it.

Most people would immediately jump to Dazai, but Dazai would trigger half your listed anxieties. The disappearing. The emotional evasiveness. The constant uncertainty.

You'd spend way too much time wondering if he was serious. Kunikida, on the other hand, gives you something you desperately need: stability. He's responsible, dependable, and deeply caring beneath the grumpy exterior. Would he understand your dramatic ferret energy immediately? Absolutely not. Would he eventually become hopelessly fond of it? Unfortunately for him, yes.

You'd be that person who somehow ends up scribbling doodles in his notebook.

You'd annoy him.

He'd lecture you.

You'd keep doing it.

He'd secretly start expecting it.

What makes him a strong match is that he actually values kindness as much as you do. Under all the rules and schedules, Kunikida genuinely wants to help people and do the right thing.

Your Chaotic Good energy and his Lawful Good tendencies create that classic "golden retriever meets exhausted office worker" dynamic. And when you're anxious? He's very much a "tell me what's wrong so we can fix it together" person. Which is exactly the kind of partner an overthinker usually needs.

Honorable Mentions

JJK

Yuta Okkotsu: probably your runner-up. Sweet, empathetic, emotionally attentive.

Satoru Gojo: fun chemistry, but his chaotic schedule might make you anxious.

Honkai: Star Rail

Dan Heng: amazing emotional depth, but you'd need patience with his reserved nature.

Jing Yuan: surprisingly good match if you like a teasing, emotionally mature partner.

BSD

Atsushi Nakajima: incredibly sweet and emotionally understanding.

Osamu Dazai: strongest chemistry, worst for your anxiety.

Overall Winner

If I had to choose just one from all three franchises?

Kento Nanami.

You have a huge heart, but you also carry a lot of fears about being unwanted, replaceable, or too emotional.

Matt Murdock

Matt is the kind of person who would absolutely survive your sarcasm, your accidental mixed signals, and your tendency to argue with people for sport.

In fact He'd probably argue right back.

Not in a toxic way, more in a "we've somehow spent forty minutes debating something completely irrelevant and now neither of us remembers how it started" way.

You strike me as someone who needs a partner who won't be intimidated by your personality. You're outspoken, witty, passionate, and not afraid to call people out when they're being ridiculous. A lot of people might misread that as being difficult.

Matt wouldn't.

He'd recognize that beneath the sharp tongue is someone who genuinely cares about people.

As a teacher-in-training, you're drawn toward helping others learn and grow. Matt dedicates his entire life to helping people too, whether through the law or as a vigilante.

You'd both have a strong sense of justice, though your methods might occasionally clash.

Why It Works

He's patient enough to handle your difficulty with social cues.

You're funny enough to pull him out of his perpetual angst.

Neither of you backs down from a debate.

Both of you care deeply about helping people.

He'd appreciate that you say what you mean.

Matt is also surprisingly good at seeing through walls people put up.

When you get awkward around someone you like and accidentally become off-putting?

He's one of the few people who would realize:

"Oh. She's not annoyed with me. She's nervous."

And then he'd find it incredibly endearing.

Relationship Dynamic

You'd be the sarcastic gremlin.

He'd be the exhausted man trying to maintain order.

Neither of you would succeed.

Your dates would honestly be pretty simple:

Cooking together.

Watching movies at home.

Staying up way too late talking.

You crocheting while he listens to you rant about something that annoyed you that day.

And somehow those quiet moments would end up meaning the most.

DC Match: Dick Grayson

If Matt is the patient lawyer who understands your heart, Dick is the patient golden retriever who refuses to let you stay grumpy forever.

This matchup feels ridiculously natural.

You like people.

You enjoy talking.

You enjoy making people laugh.

You enjoy spending time with friends.

You just happen to prefer doing all of that from the comfort of your own apartment.

Dick would absolutely be the type to show up with takeout and immediately make himself comfortable on your couch.

Why He'd Love You

Dick spends his life surrounded by dramatic people.

You'd be a breath of fresh air.

He'd adore:

Your humor.

Your creativity.

Your passion for teaching.

Your willingness to stand up for people.

The fact that you're genuinely kind despite your temper.

Why You'd Love Him

Dick is absurdly patient.

You could miss every romantic signal he throws at you for six months straight.

He'd keep trying.

You could accidentally come across as annoyed when you're actually interested.

He'd figure it out eventually.

He grew up deciphering the emotional disasters known as the Batfamily.

Your social awkwardness wouldn't even make the top ten list of confusing people he's dealt with.

Relationship Dynamic

Your relationship would feel like being best friends first.

Lots of inside jokes.

Lots of teasing.

Lots of laughing until your stomach hurts.

Dick would also be one of the few people capable of talking you down when your temper gets triggered.

Not by telling you to calm down.

By making you laugh before you fully commit to the argument.

Homebody Compatibility

This is another huge reason I picked him.

Despite his adventurous lifestyle, Dick genuinely loves having a place that feels like home.

A night in with takeout, movies, and random conversations?

He'd choose that every time.

Runner-Ups

Marvel

Peter Parker: Shares your humor and loves making people laugh.

Bucky Barnes: Surprisingly patient, appreciates straightforward people.

Sam Wilson: Funny, emotionally intelligent, and grounded.

DC

Wally West: Chaotic humor, endless patience, and great banter.

Clark Kent: Gentle, supportive, and incredibly understanding.

My Hero Academia Matchup: Shoto Todoroki

You and Shoto have the kind of compatibility that develops slowly, quietly, and deeply.

A lot of people see Shoto as emotionally reserved, but beneath that calm exterior is someone who cares intensely about the people he loves. Similarly, you're someone who feels things deeply but doesn't always wear your heart on your sleeve.

The biggest reason I pair you with him is that neither of you would pressure the other to be someone you're not.

You strike me as someone who carries a lot of responsibility. You're academically driven, conscientious, and naturally take care of others before yourself. Shoto would notice that.

Not immediately.

But over time he'd realize:

"She's always helping everyone else. Who's helping her?"

The kind of person who remembers you've been studying for six hours and silently places your favorite drink beside you.

The kind of person who notices you're overwhelmed before you've even admitted it to yourself.

What He Loves About You

Your intelligence and curiosity.

Your quiet confidence.

Your kindness toward others.

The way you can make people feel safe.

Your loyalty.

The fact that you don't seek validation from everyone around you.

He'd also secretly love seeing the side of you that only appears around people you trust.

The witty side.

The side that gets excited about books, music, and random conversations.

Relationship Dynamic

You'd probably start as friends.

Long conversations.

Study sessions.

Walking home together.

Comfortable silence.

Then one day you'd realize neither of you had gone a day without talking to each other in months.

Shoto is also someone who values commitment very seriously, which aligns perfectly with your "dating for marriage" mindset.

Neither of you would be interested in games.

You'd build something stable and lasting.

Cute Moments

Reading beside each other in complete silence.

Sharing blankets during winter.

You helping him discover new music.

Him remembering every tiny detail you mention.

Falling asleep on his shoulder after a stressful week.

Him gently encouraging you to stop carrying everyone's burdens by yourself.

Avatar: The Last Airbender Matchup: Zuko

This one feels almost unfairly perfect.

You have something Zuko desperately needs:

Patience.

Understanding.

And the ability to see beyond someone's mistakes.

Your description of love stood out:

Deep connection. Loyalty. Dating for marriage. Loving intensely.

That's exactly the kind of relationship Zuko would want as an adult.

While many people focus on his temper, they forget that Zuko is actually incredibly thoughtful and devoted once he trusts someone.

He isn't looking for something shallow.

He's looking for someone who truly understands him.

Why He'd Fall For You:

You're emotionally sensitive without being dramatic.

You're intelligent without being arrogant.

You care deeply about people.

You stand by your values.

And perhaps most importantly:

You don't judge people solely by their worst moments.

Zuko would respect that immensely.

He'd admire your work ethic and determination, but he'd also worry about how much pressure you place on yourself.

You both have a tendency to carry responsibilities alone.

The difference is that he'd actually call you out on it.

Relationship Dynamic

This relationship starts slowly.

Very slowly.

Lots of mutual respect.

Lots of meaningful conversations.

Lots of accidentally staying up until 2 a.m. talking.

You'd become one of the few people Zuko feels completely safe around.

Someone he doesn't have to perform for.

Someone who understands silence.

Someone who won't leave when things get difficult.

What He Gives You

Zuko is fiercely loyal.

Once you're his person, you're his person.

For someone who loves deeply and values trust as much as you do, that's incredibly important.

Cute Moments

Tea dates with Iroh third-wheeling.

Late-night conversations under the stars.

Him listening to you ramble about something you're passionate about.

You calming him down when he's overthinking.

Him getting flustered whenever you compliment him.

Quiet mornings reading together while drinking tea.

Runner-Ups

MHA

Tenya Iida: Matches your sense of responsibility and loyalty.

Fumikage Tokoyami: Deep, introspective, and appreciates meaningful connections.

Izuku Midoriya: Kind-hearted, devoted, and emotionally supportive.

Avatar

Aang: Would help you relax and enjoy life more.

Jet (adult version), Challenges your perspective while admiring your conviction.

For you, I'd actually pair you with Tenya Iida.

A lot of people might immediately jump to someone quieter like Tamaki or Tokoyami for an introverted ISFJ, but I think Iida matches the deeper parts of your personality surprisingly well.

Why Tenya Iida?

At first glance, the two of you seem very different. He's energetic, disciplined, and constantly trying to improve himself, while you're more reserved, thoughtful, and naturally cautious.

But underneath that, you share some important values:

Loyalty is extremely important to both of you.

You both care deeply about other people, sometimes to the point of overextending yourselves.

You both have a strong sense of responsibility.

Neither of you likes unnecessary conflict or drama.

You're both the type to quietly carry burdens without asking for help.

As an eldest-daughter type who tends to shoulder everyone else's problems, you'd benefit from someone who actually notices when you're exhausted before you say anything. Iida is incredibly observant when it comes to the wellbeing of people he cares about.

He'd be the person reminding you to eat, drink water, and take breaks from studying before you burn yourself out.

What He'd Love About You

Your maturity would stand out immediately.

While many people only see your quietness, Iida would notice:

How thoughtful your decisions are.

How seriously you take commitments.

How kind you are even when nobody is watching.

How much effort you put into making others comfortable.

He'd also absolutely adore seeing your softer side emerge around people you trust.

The first time you go from quiet and composed to laughing uncontrollably at a joke, he'd probably stare for a second because he wasn't expecting it.

Then he'd start trying to make you laugh more often.

Relationship Dynamic

Your relationship would be built on stability rather than chaos.

Not the dramatic "enemies to lovers" kind of romance.

The kind where:

He walks you home after class.

You study together.

He listens to you ramble about biology.

You listen to him talk about hero work.

He remembers your favorite matcha drink.

You remember little details about his schedule.

A very "best friends who accidentally fell in love" type of relationship.

When You're Overthinking

This is where I think he'd shine.

You mentioned:

Being emotionally sensitive.

Crying easily.

Overthinking.

Taking on too much responsibility.

More like:

"You are carrying far more than one person should carry alone. Allow someone else to help."

Cute Moments

Him lending you his jacket when it's cold.

Study dates that somehow turn into long conversations about life.

Listening to rock music recommendations from you despite it not being his usual taste.

You secretly smiling whenever he gets overly passionate about something.

Him becoming embarrassingly flustered when you compliment him.

Falling asleep on his shoulder during a train ride home.

Runner-Ups

Shoto Todoroki: Quiet, loyal, and emotionally sincere once he trusts someone.

Fumikage Tokoyami: Shares your introspective nature and appreciation for deeper connections.

Tamaki Amajiki: A gentle, understanding match who would never pressure you socially.

But overall, Tenya Iida feels like the strongest match: someone dependable enough to support your sensitive heart, patient enough to earn your trust, and loyal enough to match the way you love.

Yelena Belova

Yelena would absolutely adore the contrast between your calm, dreamy personality and the way you suddenly become theatrical around people you trust. She’d tease you endlessly for your “victorian sickly prince” moments, but secretly finds them incredibly charming.

Your relationship would feel like:

dry humor and playful bullying

sharing headphones during late-night walks

her stealing your drinks and acting innocent

you listening to her ramble while cooking together

quiet affection instead of dramatic confessions

She’s also someone who values honesty deeply, which lines up perfectly with your need for integrity and open communication. You’d make her feel emotionally safe in a way she rarely experiences.

Yelena would love how observant you are. She notices when people truly see things, and your fascination with tiny details, movement, writing styles, and human behavior would intrigue her endlessly.

Honkai: Star Rail

Black Swan

Black Swan is honestly one of the most natural matches for you overall.

You’d fascinate her.

Not in a superficial way; she’d genuinely enjoy how layered you are emotionally. The quietness in public contrasted with how expressive and lively you become around trusted people would make her want to learn every side of you slowly.

The relationship feels incredibly intimate emotionally:

soft-spoken conversations late at night

exchanging thoughts instead of constant affection

subtle flirting hidden inside philosophical discussions

her listening carefully whenever you speak about writing or memories

calm domestic moments over tea or coffee

She’d also encourage your creativity naturally. Writer’s block? She’s the type to quietly leave inspiration in your path rather than pressure you.

And because she’s patient and emotionally intelligent, you’d eventually feel safe enough to open up instead of bottling everything inside.

Genshin Impact

Kaveh

You and Kaveh would either become soulmates or the most dramatic couple alive.

Probably both.

The chemistry here comes from how emotionally expressive he is compared to your more internalized nature. He’d encourage you to speak your thoughts aloud instead of burying them, while you’d help ground him when he spirals emotionally.

You’d genuinely understand each other’s creative frustrations too:

discussing art and literature for hours

comforting each other through creative burnout

dramatic joking arguments

soft domestic moments while cooking

him hyping up every single thing you make

Kaveh would also love your theatrical side. The dramatic whining? The playful banter? He eats that up immediately.

And beneath all the joking, there’s real emotional loyalty between you both.

DC

Zatanna

Zatanna would completely charm you.

She’s witty, theatrical, emotionally intelligent, and confident enough to make you feel comfortable opening up naturally instead of forcing it. Your chemistry would feel effortless almost immediately.

The relationship has huge:

dramatic banter energy

shared appreciation for storytelling

cozy café dates

playful flirting mixed with genuine emotional depth

exchanging little gifts and inside jokes

Zatanna would especially love listening to you talk about your interests because you clearly think deeply about the world around you.

Shiba

He matches your laid-back energy almost immediately. Neither of you are overly dramatic people, so your relationship wouldn’t feel emotionally overwhelming or exhausting. It would start naturally, sarcastic comments, casual conversations, playful teasing, slowly turning into genuine attachment before either of you really notices.

And the teasing between you two would be constant.

You’d absolutely poke fun at his habits, and he’d throw it right back at you with that calm, amused expression of his. The relationship would have this easy rhythm where even silence feels comfortable instead of awkward.

But what really makes him fit you is the way he handles emotional distance.

Shiba isn’t the type to force confessions or pry into your insecurities. He’d notice them quietly instead:

the jealousy you try to hide

the self-doubt beneath the sarcasm

the way you isolate yourself emotionally when overwhelmed

Instead of confronting you directly, he’d take care of you in smaller ways because he’d understand that actions matter more to you than dramatic words.

Things like:

bringing you tea without asking

making sure you actually rest instead of overthinking all night

casually standing closer when you’re anxious in crowded places

letting you lean against him during quiet moments

remembering your favorite sweets

You’d show affection through cooking, helping him with things quietly, fixing small inconveniences before he even notices them — and Shiba would notice every single one.

The relationship itself feels like:

rainy evenings and warm tea

bookstore dates

sarcastic flirting that sounds like bickering

comfortable naps together

subtle physical affection

mutual loyalty that runs incredibly deep

He’d also appreciate your resilience a lot. Even when you’re struggling internally, you still keep moving forward, adapting, staying dependable for the people you care about. Shiba would respect that strength more than you realize.

You and Kaminari would immediately click in that “chaotic but loyal best friends” way.

The friendship starts because he’s one of the few people who never makes you feel awkward for struggling socially sometimes. If you avoid eye contact or misunderstand something, he doesn’t judge it — he just adapts naturally. Around him, conversations wouldn’t feel stressful.

Meanwhile, you’d genuinely be one of the most dependable friends he’s ever had.

You’re both energetic when excited about something, so your friendship becomes:

gaming marathons

late-night anime/show binges

arguing about superheroes

dragging each other into dumb challenges

bike rides together

joking around while eating pizza at 1 a.m.

But the deeper reason the friendship works is because Kaminari understands emotional guilt really well.

Whenever your anger issues flare up and you apologize a hundred times afterward, he’d never hold it over your head. He’d be the type to shrug and go: “Dude, you’re trying.”

He’d think your protective nature is awesome. If someone’s crying, both of you are immediately ready to defend them, even if Kaminari tries to stop you from throwing hands first.

You’d basically become the emotionally supportive chaos duo of the friend group.

Romantic Match: Kyoka Jiro

Jiro is probably the most natural romantic fit for you.

At first, the relationship would feel quiet and slightly awkward in a cute way because both of you can struggle expressing yourselves directly sometimes. But once comfortable? The bond gets incredibly strong.

She’d really appreciate how observant and caring you are beneath the awkwardness.

You’re the type to:

remember little details

offer comfort immediately

protect people instinctively

give affection through actions

That means a lot to Jiro because she’s someone who notices sincerity more than flashy confidence.

You two would connect heavily through hobbies too:

listening to music together

sharing playlists

drawing while she practices guitar

reading beside each other quietly

cuddling during movie marathons

The relationship itself would feel very grounded and comfortable:

casual physical affection

quiet support during bad days

teasing each other softly

sitting together in comfortable silence

her helping you navigate awkward social situations without making you feel embarrassed

Jiro would especially understand your fear of not being liked.

She’s someone who also hides insecurity behind sarcasm and coolness, so she’d recognize that nervousness in you immediately. Instead of forcing you to “be more social,” she’d make sure you always feel included naturally.

And if someone hurt your feelings? She’d absolutely defend you without hesitation.

Kate Bishop would fall for you embarrassingly fast.

Not because you’re loud or flashy, but because you’re safe to be around. You’re the kind of person who notices things before anyone asks, carrying around snacks, bandaids, random necessities, checking on people quietly when they seem off. Kate spends so much of her life acting capable and put together that having someone naturally take care of her in small ways would hit her right in the heart.

You have that “accidental therapist” aura where people spill their entire life stories to you within twenty minutes, and Kate absolutely becomes one of them. Late-night conversations with her would spiral from joking about dumb customers at your retail job to discussing existential space theories at 2 a.m. while sharing fries on a rooftop somewhere.

The dynamic between you two would feel very:

teasing each other constantly

stealing each other’s hoodies/accessories

Kate hyping you up aggressively

playful bickering that sounds like flirting to everyone else

emotional conversations hidden inside jokes

chaotic outings that somehow become romantic

She’d also be incredibly understanding of your Tourette’s and sensory struggles. Kate’s observant enough to recognize when you’re overstimulated before you even say anything. She’s the type to immediately pull you out of loud situations, distract you during breakdowns, or wordlessly hand you something comforting without making a huge deal about it.

And your clingy/shutdown cycle wouldn’t scare her away either.

When you isolate yourself, she’d give you space without abandoning you. When you get clingy, she’d honestly find it endearing because Kate herself loves feeling wanted by the people she cares about.

Your hobbies mesh together surprisingly well too:

you teaching her keyboard pieces while she dramatically sings badly

comic/movie marathons

dragging each other into random hobbies

stargazing dates where conversations turn weirdly deep

decorating each other with bracelets, pins, keychains, etc.

She’d absolutely treasure the fact that you wear things connected to people you love. The second she notices you consistently wearing something she gave you? It’s over for her emotionally.

Caramel Arrow Cookie

Caramel Arrow Cookie fits you in a way that feels surprisingly natural.

At first, the relationship would probably start off quiet. Neither of you are the type to instantly overshare or force emotional closeness, so there’d be this mutual understanding of personal space. She’d actually appreciate your blunt honesty because with her, there’s never any need for fake politeness or pretending to be overly cheerful.

What makes the pairing work so well is that both of you show care through actions instead of words.

You remember tiny things people mention? She notices that immediately. The fact that you’d quietly bring someone their favorite snack, remember details about their interests, or sit beside them when they’re overwhelmed would mean a lot to her. In return, she’d become fiercely dependable for you, the kind of person who silently stays close when your anxiety spikes or crowds get overwhelming.

Your teasing would also slowly crack her serious exterior.

She acts disciplined and composed, but around someone she trusts? She absolutely has a dry sense of humor. You’d end up developing this playful dynamic where you lightly annoy each other on purpose:

stealing each other’s things just to watch the reaction

roughhousing in a surprisingly affectionate way

sarcastic banter that somehow becomes flirting

sitting together under a tree while listening to music in comfortable silence

Caramel Arrow would really respect your loyalty. She’s someone who values trust deeply, so your dislike of dishonesty and your tendency to genuinely listen to others would make her feel safe around you.

The relationship itself feels like:

quiet outdoor dates

late-night walks with minimal talking

sharing earbuds

sitting shoulder-to-shoulder while doing separate things

protective gestures that aren’t verbally acknowledged

soft physical affection that becomes constant once trust is built

She’d also be incredibly patient with your irritability or anxious tendencies. Not in a “fixing you” way, more like calmly grounding you without making you feel judged for it.

Yuta Okkotsu

Yuta would understand your emotional world better than almost anyone in JJK.

He’s gentle with people who are anxious or self-critical because he’s lived that himself. Around him, you wouldn’t feel pressured to constantly socialize or “perform” confidence. The relationship would be quiet in a comforting way, sitting together while you journal, him reading nearby while occasionally glancing over just to smile at you.

He’d absolutely remember tiny details about you even when you forget them yourself.

“Didn’t you say you had rehearsal today?” “You mentioned liking this snack last week.” “Your glasses are slipping again.”

Your theatre background would fascinate him too. He’d love watching you rehearse because he’d see how expressive and alive you become when you’re immersed in performance. You’d bring out his softer, more relaxed side, while he’d make you feel emotionally safe enough to stop apologizing for existing.

The teasing would be subtle and shy at first, but once comfortable? You’d absolutely catch him smiling whenever you get dramatic over something minor.

The relationship feels like:

Shared sketchbooks and notebooks

Holding hands in silence

Him carrying your bag without asking

Quiet reassurance instead of overwhelming affection

Being clingy in private but calm in public

Mutual understanding without needing constant words

He’s the type who would look at all your “flaws” and genuinely not understand why you’re so hard on yourself.

Creepypasta Match

Ticci Toby

Oddly enough, Toby matches your energy extremely well.

Not in a “perfectly healthy and peaceful” way, but in a way where both of you understand being emotionally messy, awkward, and overwhelmed by your own heads. Around most people, Toby can be loud, chaotic, impulsive, but with you he’d calm down considerably because you’d actually listen to him instead of judging him.

You being a theater kid means you naturally understand exaggeration, emotion, performance, and expression, all things Toby gravitates toward. He’d absolutely sit through your rambling about characters, scripts, or journal entries with genuine interest.

Your dynamic would feel like:

Late-night conversations that accidentally become emotional

Chaotic teasing mixed with clinginess

Him stealing your hoodies constantly

You patching him up after reckless decisions

Shared silence that somehow feels intimate

Him getting protective when people criticize you

He’d also be one of the few people who notices when your social battery dies immediately. The second you go quiet around a crowd, he’s dragging you somewhere isolated without even asking questions.

And despite his own instability, he’d be weirdly soft with your insecurities. Toby’s very much the type to aggressively deny every bad thing you say about yourself.

“You’re literally talented. Shut up.”

Demon Slayer Match

Muichiro Tokito

Muichiro is the kind of match that starts quietly and becomes deeply attached over time.

At first, the two of you would probably spend long periods sitting together without speaking much. Neither of you would feel uncomfortable with silence, which is important. He’s someone who naturally drifts into his own thoughts, and your calmer, introspective personality fits that rhythm perfectly.

But the more he gets attached, the more obvious his affection becomes in small ways:

Standing close to you unconsciously

Letting you fix his hair or clothes

Listening carefully when you ramble about theatre or writing

Remembering details you assumed nobody noticed

Muichiro would especially love your journals and sketchbooks. He’d quietly flip through them with genuine fascination because your mind would feel so vivid to him.

Your emotional sensitivity would also soften him considerably. He wouldn’t always know how to verbally comfort you, but he’d stay beside you through panic, frustration, or self-doubt without making you feel ashamed for it.

The relationship itself feels very:

Rainy afternoons indoors

Sharing snacks while reading

Soft physical affection

Comfortable quietness

Gentle teasing once trust forms

Sojo Genichi

The chemistry between you two would be dangerously entertaining. Not because you’re similar in every way, but because you’d actually be one of the few people capable of matching his energy without getting overwhelmed by him.

You’re calm, sarcastic, emotionally detached, and quick-witted. Meanwhile, Sojo is intense, unpredictable, and sharp enough to immediately notice when someone’s putting walls up emotionally. Most people either fear him or get emotionally swept away by him, but you? You’d just stare at him like:

“Are you done being dramatic?”

The teasing between you two would be relentless.

He’d purposely say things just to get a reaction out of you, while you’d respond with blunt sarcasm so casually that he’d end up laughing despite himself. You’d probably annoy each other on purpose constantly, but it becomes a weird form of affection neither of you fully acknowledges out loud.

What makes the pairing work is that you don’t force emotional vulnerability onto people.

You understand emotional distance because you live with it yourself. You’re caring and loyal underneath everything, but you show it through actions instead of emotional speeches, which fits Sojo far more than people realize.

You’d be the type to:

quietly patch him up after a fight

bring him sweets without mentioning it

stay awake during late-night conversations

sit beside him in comfortable silence

subtly look after him while pretending you don’t care

And in return, Sojo would become strangely protective of you.

Not soft in an obvious way, he’s still Sojo, but the kind of protective where people quickly realize they shouldn’t mess with you if they value their safety.

Your shared dynamic would mostly revolve around:

sarcastic banter at 2 AM

winter walks together

him smirking whenever you get blunt with someone

sharing strawberry desserts

sitting near aquariums or watching fish in silence

him noticing tiny details about you that nobody else catches

quiet loyalty that runs deeper than words

The relationship would never be overly sentimental or emotionally dramatic, which honestly suits both of you perfectly.

It’s less:

“I’ll pour my heart out.”

And more:

Shota Aizawa

You and Aizawa would have one of those relationships that feels calm, grounding, and deeply loyal.

At first glance, people would probably think you two are opposites:

you’re playful, sassy, and free-spirited

he’s tired, blunt, and perpetually done with everything

Aizawa would genuinely enjoy your cheerful energy because it’s realistic rather than naïve. You understand that the world can be cruel, yet you still choose to care about people close to you anyway. That quiet emotional strength is something he’d deeply respect.

Meanwhile, your playful and blunt side would constantly catch him off guard.

You’d casually tease him about sleeping everywhere or looking exhausted 24/7, and while he’d sigh dramatically about it, he’d secretly enjoy how comfortable you are around him.

Your emotional detachment and trauma would also be something he understands without needing long explanations. Aizawa is the type who notices pain quietly rather than forcing people to talk before they’re ready.

He’d show love through actions instead of words:

making sure you got home safely

remembering small things you like

checking if you’ve eaten

silently staying beside you when you’re overwhelmed

Acts of service and subtle physical touch would naturally become the center of the relationship:

you fixing his scarf absentmindedly

him pulling you closer during quiet moments

cooking for each other after long days

naps together in comfortable silence

small touches that say more than words ever could

You’d become one of the few people Aizawa genuinely relaxes around.

Kagurabachi Match

Chihiro Rokuhira

This pairing feels like quiet comfort mixed with sharp banter.

Chihiro would initially be drawn to how laid-back and independent you are. You don’t demand constant attention or emotional reassurance, which makes being around you feel peaceful for someone like him who carries so much emotional weight internally.

But what would truly make him attached to you is your loyalty.

You’re the type of person who stays beside the people you love no matter what, and for someone like Chihiro, who’s surrounded by danger, grief, and loss, that kind of unwavering loyalty would mean everything.

At the same time, your sassy and playful personality would slowly pull him out of his serious mindset.

You’d tease him when he gets too intense or broody, and while he’d initially just stare at you blankly, over time you’d start catching the smallest hints of amusement from him:

tiny smirks

quieter responses

him lingering around you longer than necessary

Your emotional detachment wouldn’t scare him either.

If anything, Chihiro would understand it deeply because he also struggles to express emotions openly after everything he’s been through. Neither of you would pressure the other to immediately “open up,” which creates a lot of trust naturally.

The relationship would feel soft and steady:

late-night walks

sitting quietly together without awkwardness

him bringing you food without mentioning it

you patching up his injuries while lightly scolding him

subtle physical affection

protecting each other without hesitation

And despite his quiet nature, Chihiro would become incredibly protective of you.

He was your oldest friend. Your first memory was of building a wobbly block tower together in preschool. He was the one who shared your love for heroes, who would analyze quirks with you for hours, whose quiet, determined kindness was the anchor in your chaotic world. And you’d missed it. You’d missed the light fading from his brilliant green eyes and the way his smiles had become thinner, more practiced. The guilt was a physical weight, crushing your lungs.

The door to the private room clicked open. You didn’t need to look to know who it was. Katsuki Bakugo stood in the doorway, uncharacteristically hesitant. His usual explosive presence was muted, his hands shoved deep in his pockets, his gaze fixed on the floor before flicking to Izuku’s still form.

“Hey,” he said, his voice uncharacteristically quiet.

You didn’t respond. You just kept staring at Izuku’s face, memorizing the faint freckles across his nose.

Bakugo took a few steps into the room. “They… they said he’s stable. That he’ll… he’ll be okay.” The words sounded foreign coming from him, clumsy and unsure.

A cold, sharp clarity pierced through the fog of your grief. Your biggest fear, the one that haunted your nightmares since your grandfather passed, was losing someone close to you. And the person who had come closest to making that fear a reality was now standing in this room, offering hollow comfort.

“Okay?” you finally whispered, your voice raspy from disuse. You turned your head slowly to look at Bakugo. “Will he, though?”

Bakugo flinched, almost imperceptibly. “The doctors said—”

“I’m not talking about his wrists, Bakugo,” you said, your voice gaining a brittle, cutting edge. “I’m talking about him. The part of him that thought this was the only way out. Do you think that’s just going to be ‘okay’?”

“What do you want me to say?” Bakugo muttered, a flicker of his old defensiveness sparking.

The dam broke. All the sleepless nights, the terror of that phone call, and the image of Izuku lying too still on a gurney, it all fused into a white-hot point of rage directed at the boy in front of you.

“I want you to tell me why,” you said, standing up. Your chair screeched against the floor. “I want you to tell me why my best friend, the kindest person I’ve ever known, thought he wasn’t worth the air he breathed. And I want you to look me in the eye and tell me you had nothing to do with it.”

Bakugo’s jaw tightened. “That was years ago—”

“Years ago?” you laughed, a harsh, broken sound. “You told him to take a swan dive off the roof! You spent years telling him he was worthless, a Deku! You burned his notebooks, you mocked his dreams, you made every day a living hell! And you think that just… goes away? You think he just forgot?”

“I’ve changed!” Bakugo snapped, his voice rising. “Things are different now!”

“For you, maybe!” you shouted, stepping closer. The heart monitor beeped steadily, a cruel contrast to the storm erupting in the room. “But what about for him? Did you ever apologize? Did you ever, once, once, tell him you were wrong? Or did you just decide to stop and expect the scars to vanish?”

Bakugo’s eyes widened, then narrowed. “You don’t know what you’re talking about.”

“I know he saved your life at Kamino! I know he’s risked everything for you, over and over! And what did he get from you for most of his life? Contempt. And a suggestion on how to end it.” Your voice dropped to a venomous whisper. “You planted the seed, Bakugo. You don’t get to act surprised when it grows.”

Something in Bakugo’s expression shattered. The anger was still there, but beneath it, a raw, horrified confusion surfaced. “I never… I didn’t think he’d actually…”

“That’s the problem!” you screamed, tears finally streaming down your face. “You never think! You just hurt people! And now he’s lying here because he believed you! He believed the things you said!”

Blinded by rage and grief, you lunged. It wasn’t a calculated attack; it was pure, desperate anguish given physical form. Bakugo, reacting on instinct, caught your wrist, his grip like iron. A small explosion crackled in his palm, not enough to burn but enough to singe your sleeve and send a jolt of pain up your arm.

“Stop it!” he roared.

“Why?” you sobbed, struggling against his hold. “Why should I? You didn’t! You never stopped! Maybe I should just—” In your frenzy, your other hand shot towards the bedside table, where a discarded, sealed glass vial from a saline flush lay. You weren’t thinking. You just wanted the pain, the guilt, and the overwhelming fear of loss to stop. If Izuku couldn’t bear it, how could you?

The door burst open.

“ENOUGH!”

Shota Aizawa’s capture weapon flew out, wrapping around both your torso and Bakugo’s arm in an instant, yanking you apart. Behind him, crammed in the hallway, were the pale, shocked faces of Class 1-A, Uraraka with her hands over her mouth, Iida frozen mid-gesture, and Todoroki’s eyes wide with uncharacteristic alarm.

The fight drained out of you instantly, leaving you cold and empty. You slumped, held upright only by Aizawa’s scarf. Bakugo was panting, staring at his own hand, then at the faint red mark on your wrist from his quirk, then at your face, streaked with tears and utter despair.

Aizawa’s gaze was black and furious, but his voice was lethally calm. “Bakugo. Out. Now. Wait in the hall. The rest of you, back to the common area. Now.”

They filed out silently, casting worried glances back. Bakugo didn’t move for a second, his eyes locked on you. The anger was gone, replaced by something hollow and haunted. He opened his mouth, but no sound came out. Then, he turned and walked out, his shoulders stiffer than you’d ever seen them.

Aizawa gently lowered you into the chair again. He didn’t speak for a long moment, just looked at Izuku, then at you. “The person who needs you,” he said quietly, “is right here. Don’t make him wake up to more tragedy.”

You nodded numbly, turning back to hold Izuku’s hand, the sobs shaking your body silently.

In the stark, bright hallway, Bakugo leaned against the wall, sliding down until he sat on the cold linoleum floor. He could hear your muffled crying through the door. He looked at his palm, the one that had sparked against you. He saw the vial you’d reached for.

You planted the seed, Bakugo.

Your words echoed in his skull, merging with a million memories: Izuku flinching, Izuku mumbling apologies for existing, Izuku standing on trembling legs to face him anyway. He’d told himself it was just pushing him to be stronger, to give up his stupid dream. He’d told himself his own frustration was justified.

But you’d seen it from the outside. You’d seen the result. And you’d called it what it was.

For the first time, with a chilling, nauseating certainty, Katsuki Bakugo wondered if the person he hated most in this situation wasn’t you, or even himself.

Your best match is Nagumo

You and Nagumo would have one of those relationships that looks chaotic from the outside but feels surprisingly safe and comforting once people actually see it up close.

At first, Nagumo would probably be drawn to how calm and polite you are. You naturally make people feel comfortable without trying too hard, and that’s something he’d genuinely appreciate because he spends so much time around unpredictable and dangerous situations.

But what would really keep his attention is your playful and sarcastic side.

Nagumo absolutely loves teasing people, so the moment you start throwing sarcastic remarks back at him instead of getting flustered or annoyed, he’d immediately think:

“Okay, she’s fun.”

The banter between you two would honestly become nonstop.

He’d purposely bother you just to see your reactions, while you’d calmly hit him with dry sarcasm that leaves him laughing harder than he expected. The relationship would feel light and playful most of the time, but underneath all of that there’s a lot of trust and quiet loyalty.

You being introverted but still caring toward others would also stand out to him.

Nagumo notices people more than he lets on, so he’d quickly realize that you’re the type to quietly look after everyone around you even when you’re mentally drained yourself. That protective and loyal nature would make him unexpectedly soft toward you.

Meanwhile, he’d help pull you out of your shell without overwhelming you.

He’s social enough to handle difficult situations for you when your energy runs low, but he’d never force you to constantly socialize or become someone you’re not. He’d understand when you need space and when you simply want quiet company.

Your relationship would mostly look like:

teasing each other constantly

him leaning way too close just to annoy you

quiet moments together after chaotic days

Nagumo dragging you on spontaneous outings

sharing snacks and sweets while people-watching

you patching him up while scolding him calmly