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itâs so funny when couples are like despite cheating on each other and lying and absolutely despising each other weâre still going strong đđťđŞđťâ¤ď¸ like ok sorry to hear that

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I have to admit that I get angry whenever I see people make excuses for abusers, whether they be fictional characters or real people.
35 Signs Youâre in a Toxic Relationship
I listed all the ones that apply to Wei Wuxian and Jiang Chengâs relationship.
Note: For the most part, a good relationship makes you feel secure, happy, cared for, respected, and free to be yourself.
And now, the signs:
1. All take, no give. Any relationship in which you experience withdrawals of energy without deposits will leave you in the negative.
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3. Lack of trust. A relationship without trust is like a car without gas: You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.
4. Hostile atmosphere. Constant anger is a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship. You should never be around hostility because it makes you feel unsafe.
5. Occupied with imbalance. A one-sided relationship can never run smoothly.
6. Constant judgment. In judgmental relationships, criticism is not intended to be helpful but rather to belittle.
7. Persistent unreliability. Mutual reliability is important to building trust and is at the core of any good relationship.
8. Nonstop narcissism. If the other party's interest in the relationship is really just a reflection of him or herself, it's impossible to achieve any kind of balance.
9. Loaded with negative energy. It's almost impossible for anything positive to come out of a relationship filled with negativity.
10. Lack of communication. Without communication, there is no relationship. Period.
11. Continuous disrespect. Mutual respect is the first requirement of a good partnership.
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13. Insufficient support. If you cannot turn to each other, is there a reason to be in the relationship?
14. Ceaseless control issues. If one person is in control, or a constant tug-of-war is going on, you're probably spending too much energy navigating the relationship.
15. Never-ending drama. Good relationships improve your life; they don't make it messier.
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17. Constant challenges. All relationships go through challenges, but good relationships work through them.
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19. Vibes of entrapment. Is the other person a positive force in your life, or are you there because you don't see any way out?
20. Always undermining. If a relationship can't be reassuring, it's failing a crucial test.
21. Empty pretense. Smiles don't always mean everything is OK.
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23. Brimming with envy. Partners are never equal in all aspects, but that should be a source of strength, not of a source of disruptive envy.
24. Shortage of autonomy. Anyone in any relationship should have the right to say no.
25. Permeates victimhood. You can't move onto the future if you're tied to someone who's still stuck in the past.
28. Makes you unhappy. If someone is constantly making you unhappy, you owe it to yourself to let that person go.
29. Feels uncomfortable. Sometimes your mind needs more time to discover what your heart already knows.
30. Lowers your high standards. Toxic relationships can cause us to slowly begin accepting what was once not acceptable.
33. Filled with criticism. A nonstop barrage of criticism never helped anyone improve; it's not about making things better but boosting the critic's ego.
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35. Cannot do anything right. If you cannot do anything right, maybe the relationship is all wrong.
That is⌠29/35 signs. And it should be noticed that most of the oneâs missing from this list are the ways in which Wei Wuxian didnât let his relationship with Jiang Cheng affect him negatively.
For example:
2. Feeling drained. If, instead of feeling happy and productive, you're always mentally, emotionally, and even physically drained, it's time to re-evaluate.
16. Persistent self-betrayal. If you find yourself changing your opinions to please someone else, you're in a damaging relationship.
18. Feelings of unworthiness. It's an insidious thing negative relationships do: They leave you feeling you don't deserve any better.
22. Packed with uncertainty. When nothing is sure, forward movement feels impossible.
34. Brings out the worst. If you are constantly being your worst, you cannot be your best self.
Which is a credit to Wei Wuxian as a person really.
Source: https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/35-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-business-relationship.html
Here's how to tell if you're in a toxic relationship. If any of this sounds familiar, it's time to make some big changes.
You are not a disappointment. Don't let people's unrealistic and pressuring expectations dictate how you should behave, especially when those people are the ones never satisfied. You will only lose your sense of self and your sense of value as a person by trying to please those who will demand the impossible as something achievable and then become upset with the fact that you can't be as perfect as they want you to be.
These people set you up for feeling like a failure, when they are the ones who are wrong.
People like this disappoint themselves. Practice telling them no. Don't bother explaining why you can't be perfect, they might try to guilt trip you into doing what they want or become upset or enraged. Don't engage in relationships if they become toxic like this. Cut these people off if you must. You do not owe anyone perfection. You are not a disappointment.
I repeat: you are not a disappointment.

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fiction stops being âjust fictionâ when the themes portrayed in it have real potential to hurt real people. fictional characters stop being âjust pixelsâ when theyâre based off real people. trying to dismiss this by simply saying ârelax, itâs fictionâ doesnât automatically erase any of that.
being toxic doesnât make you a bad bitch
just some thoughts but âfiction affects realityâ and âfiction isnât realityâ are ideas that really really can and should coexist
lets imagine youâre running a dnd game, and one of your friends tells you they wanna play an evil-aligned character whoâs prone to doing some really, seriously fucked up shit.
âfiction isnt realityâ is why Iâm not gonna automatically assume thatâs a direct indicator of their personal morals and that theyâre a horrible, fucked up irl (unless, of course, in the unfortunate but less likely event that they prove themself otherwise). a game of dnd is just fiction and it can be a safe space to explore topics and characters like those.
but âfiction affects realityâ is why they have to check in with the other players about what they are and arenât comfortable seeing that character do in-game. like seeing them shoot a random dude for his money could be fine but seeing them torture the dude is... a little too much. it could have a negative effect on the mental health of the other players.
fiction definitely is a safe space to explore taboo and problematic topics in but you still gotta be mindful of the people around you and how what you do or write could potentially harm them. you gotta be respectful of what people are comfortable and uncomfortable with seeing, and realize that, no matter the situation, there will always be definite lines you can cross.
#i think this works both ways too - like if youâre reading something and it crosses a line into uncomfortable or too extreme#pls remember that the writer probably didnât set out with the intention of trying to hurt you or force content too extreme onto you#and theyâre not inherently a terrible person for exploring those topics#so thereâs some responsibility as a reader for you to click away and remove yourself from that content to stop it further hurting you#and if the content wasnât properly tagged or forewarned perhaps drop the author a âhey would you mind tagging xyz in futureâ#and responsibility on the writers part to listen and understand and add those tags without fuss

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âWe drowned in pain, and called it love we swam in an ocean full of knives and called it affection. we kissed the sun, and called it intimacy we scraped our being, and called it common decencyâ
â Aphroditeâs Gallery
[id: a screenshot of a tweet by bijan @grvyrd3 that says: âi can change himâ girl did he shit himself? /end id.]
[id: a screenshot of a tweet by doaa. @pettyreligion that says: manipulators b like yes i hurt u but now u hate me so i am the true victim - and a reply that says: them: how dare you realize what i did and try to tell me the truth why are you hurting me like this /end id.]
Many relationships would be a lot healthier if we romanticized honest, open and direct communication instead of idealizing the idea of a partner who's intuitively in tune with your every need. You don't need someone who can read your mind, you just need someone who's willing to listen when you speak.
Fiction doesnât manifest brand new experiences out of thin air, fiction doesnât infect people with never before thought about evil ideas. When we say âfiction affects realityâ weâre coming at it like those things never existed before that we interacted with ficiton. Assault, murder, death, queer romance, kink, whatever, and all other commonly censored topics existed before fiction had the audacity to immortalize them.Â
Fiction amplifies reality. Jaws didnât manifest a never before seen fear of sharks, it played on existing misconceptions and existing fears, and amplified them. The fear of sharks already existed. With or without Jaws we feared sharks, then a scary movie came out and those fears became amplified.Â
But amplification isnât exclusively bad.Â
Nabokovâs Lolita, aka the most famous pedophilic story of all time and heavily censored for being âpornographicâ, amplified our understanding of pedophilia, the kinds of people who commit it (charming, well educated, attractive people), and brought that conversation from hushed rooms to national attention.
Fifty Shades of Gray should have caused an uptick of relationship abuse and misuse of BDSM (and maybe it did), but it also caused a nationwide conversation on abuse, stalking, cult behavior, controlling relationships, and healthy BDSM.Â
A lot of young girls first encountered female masturbation through Judy Blumeâs Deenie (one of the ALAâs top 100 banned books of all time and a 40 year old woman writing about teen masturbation, a big tumblr no-no). Deenieâs impact was so important that itâs often cited as an invaluable validation for women and queer women who felt that their exploration was somehow immoral. Thereâs an entire book full of letters from readers to Blume about how important that book was to them.Â
Take a scroll through some âtop banned booksâ lists and count to yourself how many of them were banned for specifically exploring sexual content in a liberating way. Or how many were banned for questioning the system.
Every single censorship movement and every single banned book has an army of people insisting that âfiction [only negatively] affects realityâ. Books like Perks of Being a Wallflower for daring to talk about child sexual assault by a woman and depiction of a gay teenager. Or Speak for exploring the sexual assault and suicide attempts of a teenage girl.Â
In reality, these books amplified reality and gave voices to the voicelessâthose who felt purposefully stifled by society. Visually represented by this comic.Â
Tl;dr: Fiction doesnât change reality, fiction takes whatâs already there and has the possibility of amplifying itâand of course you can pretend âbad fictionâ only has âbad resultsâ, but you have to be willing to silence the silenced while you support the people who aim to make fiction 1950s idyllic, oppressive silence.Â
I remember being a young teen and watching The Famous Jett Jackson. There was an episode about Farenheit 451 being banned and the fight to be allowed to read it.
I also remember my church talking about how âthatâs why itâs banned! It teaches rebellion! It teaches you to question authority!â I nodded along and assumed that those were bad things.
And then I read the book. I read it and I realised something.
The thing that that book taught me the most? Was to wonder WHY a book had been banned. Because once I read it I realized it wasnât JUST about questioning authority, it was about questioning a system that enforces ignorance and conformity. Something that requires censorship to begin, control, and spread.
Iâve had moments in my life where I saw a piece of media and cringed. Where I was sick just knowing it exists. There are books and shows that I feel strongly against and have had passing thoughts about how they should be banned.
And then I remember reading Farenheit 451. And I remember to ask, âwhy do I want to ban it?â and âWho does banning this benefit and who does it harm?â as well as âIf this is banned, what comes next? What else can be classified this way but is vital to society and the vulnerable people in it?â
Because fiction? Is an important exploration of humanity, good and bad. And it might amplify whatâs already there in a bad way sometimes, but it also shines a light on the dark places that we can actually do something about. And if you take away that light, it doesnât make the bad things go away, it just makes bad people able to hide in the dark.
There are any number of âobjectionableâ works that have changed society for the better. And we always need to ask ourselves, âis it banning this book I donât like worth risking preventing someone else taking future generations to a better place because of it?â We donât get to decide which piece of fiction does that because that isnât how it works.
Hereâs the original source for the comic OP linked, btw

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